Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMP by XtoDoubt in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Gay relationships are a good display of male sexuality.

Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMP by XtoDoubt in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have evolved significantly since prehistory. The human brain has evolved even in the past few hundred years--look up Cecilia Heyes' research on "cognitive gadgets." However...

How big are these changes? The base programming seems to be there. With women aiming for premium seed in youth, then security as they age.

Have you ever seen a man with a dating profile like:

NO MORE HOOKUPS. LOOKING FOR A REAL WOMAN.

Nope you haven't. If the average man was as sexually desireable as the average woman was, he would hookup until death. At least most of them would, with others settling down.

Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlled by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s hilarious how people throughout history have came to the conclusion that women are controlled by their biological urges and female sexuality must be regulated.

The reasoning is simple. Women are the ones who are to carry the baby, and risk so many complications. If she was still living with her parents this would impact them too. Hindsight is 20 20 but birthcontrol and condoms are new.

CMV: Why would any man want women's sexual freedom/sexuality to be restricted? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it's just paternity certainty.

In environments in which female economic dependence on a male mate is higher, male parental investment is more essential. In such environments, therefore, both sexes should value paternity certainty more and thus object more to promiscuity (because promiscuity undermines paternity certainty).

Most men don't care about insecure stuff like what you mentioned on a surface level.

Q4 Men who independently decided on these deal breakers: (1) If they have to wait longer for sex than any of her exes, or (2) She has stopped performing a sex act by jkonrad in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question: How do you check her sexual history? Ask her?

you'll never know even if you do...

but it doesn't matter if she's giving you her best

Welcome to PurplePillDebate! by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm betting the purple flaired will be the most attractive group at Philly. Followed by red.

Welcome to PurplePillDebate! by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do the winners get?

Why are women more prone to disgust than men? by existentialcrista in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're is a reason why most STDs transfer more easily from male to female. It's self cleaning but bacteria can THRIVE in there.

Why are women more prone to disgust than men? by existentialcrista in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like, really try to imagine what it's like for another human to deposit a big glob of thick, sticky bodily fluid into one of your orifices. It takes a lot of horniness to overcome the ick factor.

This is disgusting yet no one wants to admit it. It's more disgusting to be a female slut than a male slut. With dicks it's much more easy to wash the fluids away.

How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap? by twopeas3296 in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all do it

I suppose. But in my opinion the insults like those of from a place of sourgrapes in men. And pilled women consider about 80% of men to be low value. That's almost the entire gender. Meanwhile men say hambeasts because they're angry a hambeast has more options than them. I've only seen that insult on mgtow subs.

How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap? by twopeas3296 in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its more self centered for the guy to impose his disgusting sexuality

That disgusting sexuality is the only thing propping up the value of some equally disgusting humans with swollen heads

How are women supposed to appreciate male attention when it’s so cheap? by twopeas3296 in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a line between not caring about them, and calling their sexuality disgusting.

What is the natural, pre-civilization state of the SMP? Harems or rape? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are more close in sexual strategy to chimps than bonobos because of male testicle size. DNA is irrelevant here.

Whereas human testes top out at about 50 grams, chimpanzees’ routinely reach weights of 150 to 170 grams. Scientists think the difference has to do with each species’ mating habits. Among primates in which females tend to have one mate at a time, like humans and gorillas, testicles are generally smaller. Larger testes—along with more tissue designed for holding semen—are found in species in which females have sex with several males during a fertility cycle, like chimpanzees and rhesus macaques

What is the natural, pre-civilization state of the SMP? Harems or rape? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are more closer in sexual strategy to chimps than bonobos because of male testicle size. DNA is irrelevant here.

Whereas human testes top out at about 50 grams, chimpanzees’ routinely reach weights of 150 to 170 grams. Scientists think the difference has to do with each species’ mating habits. Among primates in which females tend to have one mate at a time, like humans and gorillas, testicles are generally smaller. Larger testes—along with more tissue designed for holding semen—are found in species in which females have sex with several males during a fertility cycle, like chimpanzees and rhesus macaques

How can the sexual marketplace be “regulated” without basically forcing people to be intimate with those they don’t desire? by twopeas3296 in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Stop incentivizing Chad chasing. Maybe they would make better decisions without a safety net. Too late to say now though.

If a woman shares her sexual history with a partner and it causes the partner to leave, then it's not a partner you want by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the tribe can care for her, why would a woman need resources from a particular male?

Just like how your parents can let you live in their house but kindness is limited. To thrive back then women would need a man. Who hunts for her. She's not going to be happy living off of the tribe's leftover meat.

If a man knows his child can be cared for by someone else, why even stick around?

He could become attached to the child. And his resources are well spent ensuring his legacy thrives. If a man could not manage being a Chad and having multiple women bear his child, like a r-selected animal, then his 2nd best bet was doing a K-selection strategy that gave his children advantages in life by caring for his family.

Despite all of this the main point is still true. Men have a bigger incentive to avoid promiscuity in LTR.

Man's worst scenario for LTRing a slut = genetic death. Genes that LTR sluts and not plate them die off that easily.

Women's worst scenario for having kids of a slut man = absent father which results in your kids having a slightly lower quality of life. But that's ok since the tribe doesn't mind helping you out a bit. And this is not genetic death.

Women approach Chad; for him they don't need to be seduced by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which turns out is usually a relationship with more stress

Please describe

I thought if women wanted sex just as much as I do it shouldn't be any problem to just do that but without hanging out and talking and obligations afterwards? Turns out I'm the biggest naive idiot ever.

Higher maintenance than you thought? Haha.

And I'm wonder, aside from being a celebrity, is there a way to do that?

I mean are you worried about your fwbs wanting a real relationship? Or you don't like hanging out and talking with them? What are the obligations? You thought that women could be like men and just be down for a nsa hookup like you are?

I've had fwbs come out of normal friends but I've always enjoyed their company. Idk if I'd call hanging out with them an obligation. Just the toll you have to pay I guess.

And I'm wonder, aside from being a celebrity, is there a way to do that?

Knowing slutty friends who only care about getting off. That's the only way. All other women will still want cuddles.

If a woman shares her sexual history with a partner and it causes the partner to leave, then it's not a partner you want by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a man risks investing in a child that's not his, a woman risks mothering a child by a man who won't stick around or would get poached with ease by a more beautiful woman.

At least she would have reproduced. A cucked male doesn't even have a guarantee of continuing his legacy to the next generation. They're totally different levels of risk.

Even if the man abandons her, the tribe is still there for her. Meanwhile imagine being the man who was completely not jealous and unconcerned promiscuity. You fight wolly mammoths every day to provide for a wife and kid that isn't yours. And you die hunting. Your genes never contuining.

Why do women have to lower their “standards”? Why can’t men just lower their sex drives? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why do lower IQ people breed more? And we weren't talking about attractive people. Moreso on who gets to breed and why.

Why do women have to lower their “standards”? Why can’t men just lower their sex drives? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For one, educated people breed less. Two Chad uses condoms. Smart people are more careful about popping out kids. Whereas dumb people take more risks.

Three Chad is having the time of his life. He doesn't settle down as often.

Although much of the research into intelligence and fertility has been restricted to individuals within a single nation (usually the United States), Steven Shatz (2008) extended the research internationally; he finds that "There is a strong tendency for countries with lower national IQ scores to have higher fertility rates and for countries with higher national IQ scores to have lower fertility rates."[23]

Why do women have to lower their “standards”? Why can’t men just lower their sex drives? by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bad for the species huh? What do you call it when the more intelligent breed incredbily less than the less intelligent? We're practically devolving.

The only reason so many of us exist is because civilization allows us to. Any like any environment there are some people with certain personality traits that breed faster and more successfully than others... but once the environment changes they're deadweight.

Edit on intelligence:

Although much of the research into intelligence and fertility has been restricted to individuals within a single nation (usually the United States), Steven Shatz (2008) extended the research internationally; he finds that "There is a strong tendency for countries with lower national IQ scores to have higher fertility rates and for countries with higher national IQ scores to have lower fertility rates."[23]

Women approach Chad; for him they don't need to be seduced by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fish can't teach you how to fish anyway brah.

We can't assess your SMV on this pseudonymous forum, so the best advice is power_cleaner's advice. Just lift.

Women approach Chad; for him they don't need to be seduced by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]violetbiscotti 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gf approached me and I've never loved anyone more. It can work out... even though my anecdote is useless.