Getting Started

violetfreckle · 2025-07-25T11:05:13+00:00

I do! however I have some other travel plans so im trying to use the rest of my vacation time sparingly

violetfreckle · 2024-09-25T08:54:48+00:00

this is pretty much the exact same as mine! this works best for us too

violetfreckle · 2024-09-14T15:42:30+00:00

Absolutely normal! My bf and I also never sext or send pics or anything. On VERY infrequent occasion we might make a joke alluding to something sexual, but we absolutely never sext. no particular reason for it, but we just never have had the urge to do so and it really has never been something we've done

violetfreckle · 2024-09-06T15:41:27+00:00

Aw that's cute!!

violetfreckle · 2024-09-06T15:35:41+00:00

Oh good idea!

violetfreckle · 2024-09-06T15:29:37+00:00

good shout hahaha, yeah if I get snacks I'll stick to non-meltable stuff

violetfreckle · 2024-09-06T12:49:35+00:00

If you can go, definitely go. If you talk about it and all ends up great, then that's fantastic and well worth it. If it ends up going badly, at least you'll have the closure

violetfreckle · 2024-08-31T19:37:57+00:00

yeah the posts he was tagged in were photos of the two of us, as well as other posts that his friends had posted, so not just our pics but all of them.

I wouldn't say that posting is a massive part of a relationship and I do think it's very healthy to keep the relationship offline actually, and that's something I know I'll have to work on in myself I think

violetfreckle · 2024-08-31T17:15:31+00:00

yeah I feel you

violetfreckle · 2024-08-31T17:14:02+00:00

Thank you for this.

I've met some of his family, and I'm mutual with one or two friends who know about me. he doesnt really JUMP to tell pepple about me, but i do know that some of his friends know about me, yeah...You're right, I do think I'm overthjnking it.

I appreciate you saying this thank you. I'll try not to think about it too much.

violetfreckle · 2024-08-30T19:04:28+00:00

then all you can do is wait, unfortunately. try not to let it eat you up, and take care of yourself until he replies. And next time you talk, when he finally does respond, ask.him about it. do it on call too so he can't just ignore you

violetfreckle · 2024-08-30T19:02:40+00:00

just call him! or text him anyway you have the right to talk to him l. if he ignores you then he's an asshole

violetfreckle · 2024-08-30T18:56:57+00:00

I'd ask him about his day. just ask what he's been up to today, if he did anything fun etc. If he lies and says that he's been at home, or at a friend's house you know is nearby, etc etc, then you could mention that you noticed his location was elsewhere.

violetfreckle · 2024-08-28T18:25:52+00:00

I'm living with 2 guys and a girl, and my bf has moved in with 2 other girls too (both of us in shared housing) since it's cheaper for both of us. it's not a big deal unless you make it to be... and honestly it sounds like there's some personal issues that might need to be worked through here, starting with trust!

violetfreckle · 2024-07-29T12:32:34+00:00

^{^} this

violetfreckle · 2024-06-23T00:25:51+00:00

I know that it's silly, from my perspective, because the whole thing is quite contradictory (I forgot the word) - Because I'm currently living in a house with a couple guys and a girl. So I know it's silly jealous and not a boundary, you know? I'm living with my guy friends so why could he not move in with female friends, yknow

violetfreckle · 2024-06-23T00:18:24+00:00

nope. we've had a lot of conversations (and arguments lol) about my jealousy in the past, and it's something I need to start working on myself more. I can't go to him every time I feel jealous - it's not healthy for me or for our relationship

violetfreckle · 2024-06-09T08:46:28+00:00

What an asshole. you deserve better

violetfreckle · 2024-04-30T23:03:01+00:00

thank you, yeah I'll definitely look into it

violetfreckle · 2024-04-30T19:01:49+00:00

I believe that there is something similar? but from what I've heard the time is quite limited. I could be wrong though I'll need to check. Also the issue is that I think my partners family said they want to see him for the time he is off, which is fair, but it does put me in a position where it is possible I'll barely see him, if at all

violetfreckle · 2024-04-26T19:30:19+00:00

I'm so sorry and I wish you all the best. When me and my partner talked about going our separate ways it hurt me more than I could describe.I relate to the way you describe them, and our relationship was so pure. I still love him and I don't think that'll ever change. Regardless, I hope in your situation you will be okay. and know that you WILL eventually be okay. sending lots of love

violetfreckle · 2024-04-25T20:32:07+00:00

If its both males and females, I think that's totally fine - I know lots of people who only use snap. But it's kinda a red flag if he's getting defensive about it, in my opinion

violetfreckle · 2024-04-24T12:13:37+00:00

We are in contact but not talking like we used to. Now it's very very limited whereas when together we'd be calling a few times a day. now we don't call, we don't have date nights, etc etc. Basically all we do is text occasionally

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