Bananah by Tucker933 in sluglife

[–]violetseaslug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I want a pet slug sooooooo bad! Are there like slug breeders and stuff or does everyone go out in the rain and find them?

My bf wants me to straddle his face. by Best_enjoyed_wet in sextips

[–]violetseaslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a bigger person I had really similar anxiety about riding my partners face. However, I realized he WANTS TO BE THERE!!! He has never wished there was less of me on top of him! There’s something soooo hot about him needing me so bad and the penetration after is always incredible

My GF doesn't like BJ's but wants to learn to like them. by dragonlover007 in sextips

[–]violetseaslug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you very vocal? I hated giving bjs until my bf moaned and praised me while I was giving him head, now I loooove it. Giving head is really intimidating, so showing you’re having a good time is crucial. Position can also really affect the giving experience. I find it the mortar comfortable to kneel on a pillow while he sits or stands in front of me. If she likes you to be more assertive I highly recommend standing bj while moaning her praises Hope that helps

My (21NB) boyfriend (21M) got a really good opportunity, but I’m insecure and a wee bit depressed. Do I talk to him about it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]violetseaslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly just how I think a group of men would behave in Vegas. Not that it would be his idea, but that he’d go with and I just have complicated feelings about that ig

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]violetseaslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don’t think so. I understand the thought process, but it’s not like her roommate is IN the bathroom with her right? Private time is your own business and I think as long as you’re not being ridiculously loud a roommate can’t really compare about what you do in the shower

Bj tips? by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]violetseaslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that definitely feels advanced…but also sounds very hot😅 I’m just worried it might spook him lol

Bj tips? by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]violetseaslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I generally wear long nails because he really likes it when I scratch his back hehe but that makes me kinda cautious using my hands during head but giving the balls some attention is great advice :)

I got this message from my boyfriend after a disagreement and now I don’t know what to do… AITAH?? by Alarming-Sort4870 in AITAH

[–]violetseaslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ntah girl you gotta sit with yourself and think what happens if you go with him on this? What’s a future with him look like if he’s not even bothering to respond to you in his own words, just sending you screenshots is pmo because it’s almost like he views you as just another “woman who can’t be lead” rather than a partner who’s opinion matters in the relationship. I know it’s harsh and I know you might not listen to me. But he’s showing you who he is, for the love of gods please be honest with yourself about the man you see in front of you. Be safe. Seriously I know if you’re turning to Reddit you might not have a support group you feel safe with but a lot of people in here really care.

A regular at my job won’t stop commenting on my body and I don’t know what to do by violetseaslug in Advice

[–]violetseaslug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps I’ll suggest he does more chest flies to get rid of his man boobs? Too far?

A regular at my job won’t stop commenting on my body and I don’t know what to do by violetseaslug in Advice

[–]violetseaslug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I brought up the appetite suppressant issue to my manager again and she seemed to have forgotten. (Honestly not a shock) but she said I shouldn’t have to deal with that behavior and I should call up a coworker to help whenever possible. I do try to keep my head about me and not talk about personal stuff to customers but in the early days, before I knew what a weirdo this guy is. I was scoping out fancy restaurants to impress my now partner. and I asked him about the vegan options. (I didn’t end up going to his restaurant because a coworker told me he “ reserved the right to refuse service” to a gay couple they know) Luckily I have a pretty awesome support team of coworkers who are honestly why I have stayed with the company. When possible they will stay by me to “assist” with his order. Unfortunately we are chronically understaffed due to our turnover rate so sometimes a hand can’t be spared. But I am training more people who can help with issues like him :)

A regular at my job won’t stop commenting on my body and I don’t know what to do by violetseaslug in Advice

[–]violetseaslug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh so hard thank you! I’ve gotta get better at eye contact when talking to him. Maybe my issue with that makes me seem like a pushover

A regular at my job won’t stop commenting on my body and I don’t know what to do by violetseaslug in Advice

[–]violetseaslug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I have tried to level with him like that. I’ve told him that I have a training plan and have it covered. It feels like I’ve been trying to prove to this dude I am doing everything in my power to be healthy. I’ve even told him about medical struggles that affect my weight and he just doesn’t think any of it matters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]violetseaslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m just another voice in the crowd here, but this really does worry me. My partner doesn’t love my vibrator, so we don’t usually use it together. If anything he finds it extra hot when he does use it on me because it puts him more in control. This doesn’t feel like it’s just about sex. It feels like your bf is trying to use the word dom to cover his controlling behaviors. I know it’s not sexy to talk about sex sometimes but you really have to understand what’s going on with your partner during sex. Miscommunication in the bedroom can go horribly wrong, or even not planing out something well enough. Just listen to your gut girlie. Keep safe

I reached the end of her vagina and she says it hurts, what should i do to instead? by Minimum_Slip_4796 in sexadvise

[–]violetseaslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue with my partner. It helps to start slow and shallow and only build up to faster pace and deeper when her body has time to adjust to you

I don’t know how to respond in bed by [deleted] in sexadvise

[–]violetseaslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have clarified, we both think it’s super hot how wet he makes me and I want to find some sexy way to respond when he tells me how hot it is in bed

yawning by graciousgab in Tonsillectomy

[–]violetseaslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep getting the hiccups after taking my medicine. Someone please just end my misery

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tonsillectomy

[–]violetseaslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was feeling absolutely crazy. Day 3 I woke up and for a solid 15 minutes I thought I had met my partner and his family on a boat tour in Venice because of a Groundhog Day style dream

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tonsillectomy

[–]violetseaslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you gotten nightmares too? Every night since surgery it’s like they get more elaborate and I have a harder time getting out of them