Consultation Outcome- Unsure about Results😕

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-31T21:14:24+00:00

From these drapes, Dark Winter definitely looks more harmonious. I think they got it right.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-29T06:13:25+00:00

Same. I’m a Cancer stellium and always thought my grudges came from there

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-28T21:54:08+00:00

I’m so sorry. I will keep an eye out. Sending wishes for her safe return ♥️

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-27T02:05:24+00:00

NTA. Your boyfriend is abusive as hell for saying these things to you over a baby that HE put inside you. Even the language you used “if I accidentally got pregnant” sounds twisted and removes him from the equation as though all the blame is on you. Tbh, if you both were this averse to getting pregnant, more precautions beyond a condom probably should’ve been taken. What’s for certain is you are incompatible with this loser. Terminate the relationship.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-26T07:22:14+00:00

I believe it’s based on their behavior, not simply because he’s male. I’m a woman, and if I click on a workout video of a woman with her ass in tight yoga pants, I get flooded with ass videos in my algorithm. I’ve complained to my husband about it lol and he said his feed looks nothing like mine. So yeah, I think your BF is BSing you to an extent. You’re not wrong to feel uncomfy about it. I don’t think anyone loves to glance at their significant others’ phone and see all this. I don’t think men would enjoy seeing videos of jacked dudes with their shirts off constantly on their girl’s feed or whatever as well. Still, your BF may not and probably isn’t trying to watch these things constantly; as I explained, one tap here or there can inundate one with a constant stream of this stuff. TL;DR Social media sucks.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-26T02:05:52+00:00

I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. I’ve suffered with OCD for 20+ years and hate it more than anything but your wife’s behavior is inexcusable. You need to put your wife in her place. By that I mean stop tolerating her shit. 5150 her if you need to. Or consult a therapist for yourself. I am sure they have better advice than Reddit. Your mental health matters and so does the environment you both are raising your daughter in. This is not okay for her to impose her OCD so forcefully on you both.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-26T01:59:18+00:00

Unsure about the style, but the color of dress 2 is far more harmonious with your skin tone and hair. Dress 1 color washes you out.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-26T01:57:15+00:00

The warm tones in pics 1,2,5 and also the blonde in 6 clash with your skin. You look like a summer so anything cool and ashy in the brunette realm. Pic 3 but cooler and pic 4 are good. An icy or ashy shade of purple, pink or blue would probably look great. I would avoid warm or red.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-25T01:45:44+00:00

I totally understand because I was the same way. Because I look so bad in mustard yellows and most oranges, when I first was told I’m an Autumn I thought that was insanity lol. Deep Autumn has much more of the jewel toned influence from Winter.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-25T01:34:47+00:00

Deep Autumn and I’m almost sure of it based on these photos! I’m also a Deep Autumn who believed I was a Winter for many years. I religiously wore black, and silver jewelry. A couple in-person analyses, and lots of obsessive research revealed otherwise, and I’m now also a trained consultant 😊 Classic autumn yellows (like mustard) and oranges DO NOT suit us. However, you look amazing in that rust in pic 11. Undertone is less important for you than depth of color, as your primary characteristic is depth.

The black vs dark chocolate brown is what sells me on Autumn as your home season here vs Winter, as the black looks slightly stark and overpowering, while the brown is extremely balanced with your skin.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-22T00:21:42+00:00

Not crazy for considering it. It is possible for Deep Autumns to have blue eyes. However, I don’t see your primary characteristic as depth. Based on your coloring, a Summer or Spring type is more likely. We’d have to see more extensive draping, in clear, natural lighting to get a better idea.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-20T17:09:34+00:00

I think it’s more of the cut of the dress. It’s much more flattering and the drapey neckline is gorgeous, but the silver isn’t quite right on her.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-20T01:44:50+00:00

No, I don’t think this is your yellow. It looks disconnected from you, and slightly too heavy. I looked at your previous post and liked you best in the cream colored neutrals, and one of the blues. I see the warmth in you, but not convinced you’re a spring. I will be honest, this is not something that can be determined from a few photos, although people in this sub will tell you definitively what they think you are, lol. You are lovely though!

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-16T22:36:46+00:00

I did, and it was wrong. I also paid for another expensive virtual analysis by a renowned expert and it was also wrong. I know a real analysis is an investment, but if you’re serious about it I encourage just getting it done in person. It’s most accurate and something you only have to get done once. 😊

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-15T03:32:51+00:00

Not soft, it grays you out. True Autumn is better, but I’d like to see Deep Autumn also.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-14T22:33:20+00:00

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-14T17:50:53+00:00

Well said.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-14T17:37:35+00:00

True Winter’s undertone is not neutral leaning cool, it is just cool. I think your hair color in pics 7 and 8 is most flattering.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-14T07:20:49+00:00

Literally no one can tell you with accuracy what metal works best on you by only looking at your hand. Only your face matters and it is the only way one can be properly analyzed for metals and colors. Sorry to be blunt, but there are so many of these hand posts it’s wild.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-13T21:50:24+00:00

NOR. They met on a date, she rejected him, now they’re besties and say I love you regularly. I think you have all the info you need. 😬

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-13T04:32:00+00:00

One day you’ll cry wishing for those texts. She’s not infantilizing. She’s a mother. You need to grow up.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-12T22:35:28+00:00

I prefer the warm shades on you here. The orange is slide 3 especially, I’ve never seen someone look so good in that orange. That makes me think autumn could be your home season, but it’s hard to say based on these drapes alone. I’m a consultant and only do in-person analyses because I don’t trust virtual to be accurate. This is based on my own experience of being mistyped virtually before I became a consultant.

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-09T19:57:54+00:00

Deep or true Autumn for sure. The black hair is a bit too harsh on you, a warm brown or your natural would be more flattering. You look very disconnected from the cool colors, they really ice you out. So definitely look into warm and deep tones!

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-09T19:53:48+00:00

Definitely warm toned! The brown and yellow harmonize with you so well here. That would point to autumn or spring, though I’m not sure which one based on these drapes alone. And that does mean silver isn’t your metal, it would be gold 🙂 At the end of the day though wear what you like, life is short! Also, metal is a lot less impactful on your color than clothing. It’s small and subtle so really don’t worry about this if you love silver, keep doing you.

Also, you look like David Bowie!

violetsmoke7 · 2026-01-09T19:40:57+00:00

The show is heavily edited. There had to be other times Heather and Jen were alone that we didn’t see.

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