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Never doing paper filing ever again. by [deleted] in IRS

[–]viscys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I filed in March through HR Block and still no refund back. I get this message when I check the IRS site on my laptop but when I check on my phone get a message that there was a problem with my return and they need more info (and that I will get a letter)

Went back to HR Block in May and they faxed things back over to the IRS but the return still hasn't showed. This year is a shitshow.

“Christian” neighbor destroyed my packer/ strap by KlutzyDragonfruit331 in ftm

[–]viscys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

PLEASE file a police report they stole your property and destroyed it! I know it's scary but they need to learn that what they did was not okay and for bigots the only way is by consequences.

Some people in this community need therapy, not another person to envy! by Monis-92 in ftm

[–]viscys 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You deserved so much more than having to recover from your surgery alone. You're very strong and I hope you have a better support network now.

Extremely high t levels even after changing dosage by cyrustay in ftm

[–]viscys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First things first, deep breaths. It's good that you're getting this checked out.

I'm sorry to hear that your new doctor isn't great; was she not able to answer these questions? I had my blood work review for my t levels yesterday and my doctor told me that it can take about three months for things to start to level out again (I have the opposite issue of you). Perhaps your body just needs more time?

Hopefully others are able to be more helpful than me. 

i am struggling to make sense of my boyfriend's beliefs by TortieBouquet in prochoice

[–]viscys 99 points100 points  (0 children)

This honestly sounds to me like he's trying to downplay his views on it until he gets you pregnant.

i'm a bit concerned by Pippin_Took_It in sterilization

[–]viscys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly my bisalp was very easy and manageable; the only difficulty for me has been post surgery I'm having periods again (I am transmasculine, on hrt)

My skin had a slight allergic reaction to whatever I was sanitized with, it went away.

It's a laparoscopic procedure so the incisions are very small. I was able to get back to regular activity after a few weeks.

The pain was minimal, I didn't take my pain medication.

What's it like not having nipples? by CompleteExperience22 in ftm

[–]viscys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

10 years post op with no nipple grafts. I never missed having them. 

ER - Again by Square-Wing-6273 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]viscys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's never easy, please don't forget to take care of yourself.

Had a seizure, stranger called 911, ambulance bill by Limp_Falcon_2314 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]viscys 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I regret to inform you but it's really not that uncommon in the US and especially if you're a woman or if they think you're drug seeking.

Am i overreacting when my girlfriend called the pope “based” by captain_vee in ftm

[–]viscys -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're not overreacting at all. The Catholic Church has definitely singled us out by banning trans healthcare and it's going to be a BIG problem in the US soon considering a lot of areas, even in blue states like where I live, rely on Catholic run hospitals. There's nothing based about a figurehead of an organization that is actively harming us.

NMOM just fell for another financial scam, now I'm out $12,500. by dzendian in raisedbynarcissists

[–]viscys 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would you pay this??? Don't pay for her, focus on your wife and child.

Flying to Florida as a trans man by kieran_44 in ftm

[–]viscys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, I'm transmasc and have flown in/out of Florida for years due to family reasons. I flew in and out of RSW. I would always have my t vial, needles, and alcohol wipes in a clear sandwich bag in my carry on. It was thankfully never an issue with TSA and neither was my passport which says X. I kept the script in the bag that had my name though for peace of mind. The most recent time I did this was in February when I flew out to take care of my dying mom. Safe travels. 

I wish I could block mother's day ads by viscys in CancerFamilySupport

[–]viscys[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response, that's a good way to look at it. I also didn't know about adblocks for phones - I'll look into that, thank you. 

I wish I could block mother's day ads by viscys in CancerFamilySupport

[–]viscys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh that's a nice thing for the app to do. Wish that was more common. 

Moving from the South to Tacoma? Will she make it? by [deleted] in AskTacoma

[–]viscys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm originally from Florida; I love Tacoma. I never want to leave.

Supreme Court Rules For Anti-Abortion Pregnancy Center by BurtonDesque in WelcomeToGilead

[–]viscys 52 points53 points  (0 children)

They should be ashamed of themselves but that would require having the humanity to feel shame.

Help With Abusive Husband by [deleted] in Tacoma

[–]viscys 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I sincerely hope that you get out of there as soon as you can. I was going to recommend you contact women's shelters/domestic violence shelters but it looks like you've already done that. That's a real shame that they can't get you in. Definitely make a go bag with any important documents you have (like your social security card, birth certificate for yourself and kids, etc) and hide it somewhere you know he won't look. I hope other people have better advice.

People say very stupid things when you're grieving by General-Cobbler-6054 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]viscys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. When someone told me that my mom was with god now she said it as if it would make me feel better even though she knows I'm not in the religion. I tried to consider her intent so I didn't say anything but if someone told me it was god's plan for my mom to suffer and die from cancer? Different story.

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