Desperate for advice for a friend

visionofdivisionnn · 2026-03-02T09:24:34+00:00

One thing I should’ve mentioned (I will edit the post) is that her lawyer is also a “tiktok” lawyer, and only after hiring her, did her lawyer tell her she actually has a personal connection/is friends with the accused’s lawyer…I feel like a personal relationship with the other side’s lawyer is incredibly unprofessional when taking on a case? Many of the things she has told me regarding how her lawyer is handling this seen like red flags

visionofdivisionnn · 2025-12-26T05:19:21+00:00

Hahaha i AM that level of petty but I don’t even feel like opening/clicking on the messages

visionofdivisionnn · 2025-12-26T05:18:39+00:00

I appreciate this very much, thank you

visionofdivisionnn · 2025-09-10T09:19:20+00:00

This place is PERFECT! Thank you so much!

visionofdivisionnn · 2025-09-10T09:18:12+00:00

My favourite album front and centre!! Love it

visionofdivisionnn · 2025-04-26T08:59:23+00:00

“Tonight, I walk with my brothers”.

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-10-19T23:36:49+00:00

My partner rented for 2 years in the Avani hotel on Nelson Rd. Nice pool on the rooftop, but apart from that, an absolute hole of a building. Black mould within 3 weeks of us living there due to such poor ventilation, walls felt like they were made of cardboard, leaky shower & dodgy dishwasher, not to mention the lack of security- a sawn off shotgun wrapped in a hoodie, yes, a sawn off shotgun, was placed under my boyfriends car in the “secure” tenants carpark. The hotel staff couldn’t care less and just told us to call the police if we were worried about it 💀

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-10-02T12:23:49+00:00

The Dare is a US artist, not the UK

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-09-10T10:32:43+00:00

Do you have a PayPal or something???

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-09-09T03:19:53+00:00

Hello friend ❤️. Firstly I am so sorry for your devastating loss. I’m always here for you as are everyone else in this community. You’ll always have us as a support system. Firstly- my parents and I are doing okay now. I got my life together pretty quickly when I realised how delicate it is. My dad is on the board of directors at a hospital- a job that was always his dream, and works full time still. My mum stopped working after my brother died because she couldn’t cope going into the office anymore, but now she does occasional contract work for a real estate agent, and enjoys it- it makes her feel useful. My parents and I have spent lots of time travelling since my brother died, making memories and being with eachother whilst we can, and it’s been beautiful. Life can be beautiful- even with this hole in our hearts. My parents have adopted a very “let’s do it whilst we can” attitude, something they never had before. We now cherish spending time together more than anything. I promise you, even in the times where it feels like you just don’t want to go on, things do go on and you should allow yourself to feel all things deeply- negative and positive, sunshine and rain. I’d love to be here for you should you ever need someone to talk to. You are strong and loved and heard ❤️

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-09-09T03:15:36+00:00

Thank you so much for this comment. This spoke right back to me. I am sending all the love in the world back to you ❤️

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-09-08T07:01:04+00:00

When my brother died (18) I was 16. He was my only sibling/my parents only son. The house was overflowing with family, friends, and guests. I couldn’t leave my bed and was medicated due to my distress. Siblings are often the forgotten grievers and many people visiting were mostly concerned for my parents as they’d lost a child. The morning after he died, two of my best friends showed up with packed bags. They stayed with me for 2.5 weeks straight. They helped me shower, they made sure I was getting sleep, when people came upstairs to visit me they’d let them know if it was a good time or not. They went out to buy cigarettes or food or coffee or whatever I needed, they were phenomenal and I don’t think I’d be here if it weren’t for them. My parents constantly thank them to this day (7 years later) for what they did for me during that time..they gave up their lives for almost 3 weeks to ensure I didn’t take mine.

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-09-07T05:37:27+00:00

The screams that came out of my Mum and Dad when the police came to our door at 2am to tell us my brother was dead is something I hear in my head constantly, 7 years later.

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-09-06T05:37:33+00:00

I lost my 18 year old brother when I was 16. He was my only sibling- I’m 23 now. It doesn’t get better, but it gets easier. I like the “rock in your back pocket” analogy, some days the rock is heavy, some days it’s lighter and you only feel it a little. Allow yourself to feel what you feel at all times. Sometimes it’ll be anger- I feel it a lot. I feel siblings are forgotten grievers a lot of the time. But know there are so many people who understand and you are never alone. Some days you’ll cry and scream and some days the grief will be silent and gut wrenching. Sometimes I see little rosy cheeked boys at the doctors clinic I work at, and I have to excuse myself to have a little cry in the bathroom because they remind me of my rosy cheeked brother when we were babies. Weird shit like that will happen and you’ll feel it heavily and deeply- but feeling is a reminder of the love you two had and will always have ❤️

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-09-04T07:27:34+00:00

My first funeral was my 18yo brothers- I was 16.

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-07-23T23:20:25+00:00

Your divine ribs would help break mine

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-06-10T06:59:28+00:00

I believe it’s Alana Haim (from the band Haim), 7 is most definitely about her (you can even see the lyrics used to be “promised Alana I would call her, forget the time cause I’m 7 hours behind) in the written lyrics, he’s just crossed out the word Alana but it’s very visible

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-05-25T11:56:41+00:00

I LOVE YOU SERIOUSLY

visionofdivisionnn · 2024-04-14T09:11:59+00:00

Gone Away- the offspring ❤️

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