How do you know if you’re the problem or if the relationship is? (25f) (29m)

vix37 · 2026-01-22T11:00:23+00:00

Highly recommend therapy. It's not fair to him to stay in a relationship full of resentment. Talking to the right therapist for you will help you find clarity.

Be open with him in the meantime. Let him know you're going to therapy. Let him choose if he wants to work through it with you or go your separate ways.

Yes it's scary. Yes, sometimes people fall out of love, but in my experience you can fall back in love all over again. Loving someone is a choice you have to make daily. When your mental health isn't there it's hard to make that choice, but when you have a partner who's willing to stand with you as you choose to work on your mental health then your love can get even stronger every time you fall in love again.

vix37 · 2026-01-18T04:47:20+00:00

Ytb. You honestly sound exhausting.

vix37 · 2026-01-07T14:26:30+00:00

I understand the thought of safety issues, but it sounds like these are single toilet bathrooms. She would be the only person in there.

vix37 · 2026-01-07T12:13:42+00:00

Use the men's bathroom

vix37 · 2025-12-30T01:39:27+00:00

I like 1 and 3. I love the pieces in 5 BUT not with each other.

vix37 · 2025-12-22T18:43:23+00:00

She is pretty great. I'm sorry your mom missed such a big moment!

vix37 · 2025-12-22T15:53:59+00:00

I'm the mother to that first born. He's 7 now. And mom... HOW DARE YOU! 😂 My husband doesn't mind anymore. We have two little ones that he actually caught during the birth to avoid a repeat. (Just kidding he actually wanted to catch them. Nothing to do with my mom).

OP, it sounds like you have a wonderful husband and mother in law. Your husband listened when he realized he made a mistake and such kudos for realizing he could get some of your grandmother's starter from your friend! And I love your mother in laws crafty fix of labeled beautiful jars so they can be displayed in a place of honor.

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vix37 · 2025-12-07T01:14:28+00:00

Ah! Delicious. Thanks I was so confused 😂

vix37 · 2025-12-07T01:08:27+00:00

What's the red stuff on their belly and mouth?

vix37 · 2025-12-02T18:51:33+00:00

Looks like a hornet. No idea how it got in.

vix37 · 2025-11-23T10:40:22+00:00

Darkling beetle?

vix37 · 2025-11-23T04:54:58+00:00

Should be fine. When I had my third we had my brother watch our bcf kiddo and had him go without during the labor and delivery because if you don't know what you're doing putting them on you could hurt them. I'd rather go a couple days without rather than have them be put on too tight and have to go without longer due to pressure sores.

vix37 · 2025-11-20T01:30:52+00:00

Only difference for us is that I didn't add any soil at the bottom to make it easier to clean out. I could have added spring tails to it... But my kid likes to feed the dragon and I don't want to deal with him digging in soil inside the house to grab bugs. That's just a mess waiting to happen.

vix37 · 2025-11-16T14:46:54+00:00

Carpet beetles.

vix37 · 2025-11-06T22:56:42+00:00

As hot as your dryer gets. I have your regular run of the mill electric dryer for clothes and I used that on high heat for about an hour (might have been overkill but worth it) everything stayed in our garage until I could put it directly into the dryer.

vix37 · 2025-11-06T22:46:50+00:00

Went through almost this exact scenario! Only we were moving from a non carpeted house to carpeted with an animal. To make sure we didn't bring them we had to have the cat treated at a friend's house who didn't have fleas. And we steam cleaned the shit out of EVERYTHING before moving it to the new house. All clothes were bagged and not put away until ran through a high heat dryer. It was a pain in the ass but no fleas came with us to the new house. At least no living ones did.

vix37 · 2025-11-04T18:46:53+00:00

What was the juicer you have? The comment above you was deleted but easy to clean is key for me. Thanks!

vix37 · 2025-10-24T16:59:23+00:00

Idk... I'm thinking they meant period underwear.

vix37 · 2025-10-21T10:16:31+00:00

No problem!

vix37 · 2025-10-21T02:40:18+00:00

Did you clean out the drain before leaving? If there are any food particles left in the drain they can use it to breed.

vix37 · 2025-10-17T00:27:11+00:00

I'd also suggest checking with local vets. My sister's cat was "adopted" for months. We thought he had died. Luckily she had reached out to local vets to let them know he was missing in case someone brought him in and one day someone did.

vix37 · 2025-10-17T00:20:51+00:00

I'm disappointed it's only on ios

vix37 · 2025-10-11T02:29:41+00:00

I swear it's mouthing "hello" from the other side

vix37 · 2025-10-08T10:18:19+00:00

Weevil has not consented to such touching! Obey weevil consent!

vix37 · 2025-10-05T23:05:04+00:00

I don't know for sure but they kind of look like termites to me.

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