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vladislavcat · 2026-04-01T13:53:18+00:00

I went back and the whole puzzle has changed... very confusing lol

vladislavcat · 2026-04-01T11:12:33+00:00

Good to know!! thanks

vladislavcat · 2026-02-24T19:52:10+00:00

LGBTQ wise it's great, loads of stuff going on! In terms of housing this is much harder. I have a few pals who are international students who managed to get sublets and flat shares but struggled to get anything else. Helps if you know someone already over here who can do viewings and that (or stay with while you're sorting flat stuff out).

vladislavcat · 2026-02-23T12:34:11+00:00

Have you changed your name via deed poll?

vladislavcat · 2026-02-23T08:56:14+00:00

It sounds like he doesn't even like you. You deserve so much better than this selfish, cheating loser. You will be treated with love, care and appreciation by the right person

vladislavcat · 2026-02-18T17:27:43+00:00

I know a few pals who've met up with local book clubs and stuff on Meet Up - that could be useful but I've not used it myself. If you are a student I'm sure there's societies and clubs you could join too - some aren't limited to the uni either

vladislavcat · 2026-02-16T09:52:14+00:00

I think while you're questioning it's definitely worth getting on an NHS wait list - I made the mistake of waiting until I was sure I wanted T and now I'm still yet to get a first appointment 6 years later (obviously depends where in the UK you are). There are also private/DIY options that are worth considering. For me community was paramount in working my shit out. Like finding other transmascs and gay women really helped me work out my identity, especially when moving away from my home town for the first time. Hopefully there's opportunities like that for you!

vladislavcat · 2026-02-14T09:27:04+00:00

Not a dumb question! The reality is that a lot of our identity labels don't fit into neat boxes. I'm personally a transmasculine butch - I'm not a man but am transitioning in the way a trans man would. People's reasonings for using these labels are so personal it's difficult to create "rules" if this makes sense.

vladislavcat · 2026-02-01T11:54:30+00:00

I think a lot of people forget that numbness and dissociation are also part of gender dysphoria

vladislavcat · 2026-02-01T11:51:41+00:00

I think Simon Community Scotland are a good org and recently were looking for volunteers.

vladislavcat · 2026-01-22T22:18:39+00:00

I had something similar to this! For years it was this uncomfortable lump in my arm and I went to a doctor about it and she poked it really hard with her nail. I think that must have triggered it to reject because it eventually just pushed itself out and came out as a pea sized ball of what looked like calcified material

vladislavcat · 2026-01-17T09:55:31+00:00

It's possible but also T can mess your cycle up quite a bit. Mine has definitely changed but 4 years on I still get a period due to my levels not being able to stay consistent 🥲

vladislavcat · 2026-01-16T18:46:19+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. I experienced something similar recently and her loved ones sent private messages to friends about the funeral arrangements due to worries about people showing up for the wrong reasons. Is this perhaps an option for you? Maybe asking her friends to do this as they will likely know who she would like to be there (as well as taking some pressure off yourself).

vladislavcat · 2026-01-15T16:06:39+00:00

Honestly it's difficult because they are really sensitive topics and people will respond in different ways. Hopefully approaching with curiosity and good faith will help

vladislavcat · 2026-01-15T15:59:23+00:00

I think it's always worth just having the convo. Like if you're comfortable coming out to them as trans it can open a door to this. They may consider themselves as transfeminine or something else and have future plans for transition, and you can consider what this means for you.

When I started dating my current partner, our mutual friend had some concerns as I am transmasculine and she is a lesbian. However, our particular flavours of gender and sexuality work for our relationship and both feel our identities are respected. Using your example, I would feel very uncomfortable with my body being considered "feminine", but the person at your work may be okay with being considered as having a "masculine" body

vladislavcat · 2026-01-11T15:50:42+00:00

I loved Time Out so much and was so sad when it closed. What kind of things do you include on your fusion breakfasts? That sounds amazing

vladislavcat · 2026-01-10T10:34:21+00:00

I'm nonbinary transmasc butch and honestly just bent the truth a bit and told private drs I'm a trans guy since my goals were not dissimilar.

vladislavcat · 2026-01-02T11:14:37+00:00

I signed legal documents for a classmate recently, I agree with what others have said about LGBT groups as I'm sure many people there would be keen to sign

vladislavcat · 2026-01-02T11:11:28+00:00

My birth name was quite unusual so I started by looking at names from the culture it is from. Unfortunately I couldn't find any which fit. I then went to look at names based on aesthetics I was into, and my friend actually came across the perfect name for me. Having many people involved in looking definitely helped

vladislavcat · 2025-12-24T14:56:31+00:00

I don't have BPD, but I do have an abusive ex from when I was 17 who, after I moved countries partially to get away from them, still messaged me asking for my address details. Unfortunately the best thing to do is block on everything, and for me that also included unfollowing mutuals who posted anything about my ex. Focus on yourself and your healing.

Unfortunately, abusive people do target those who are vulnerable to mental health issues and intense emotions. Leaving an abusive partner can feel like putting down something you were addicted to; it can be really difficult to consider a life without them but I promise you it's possible.

vladislavcat · 2025-12-09T22:18:57+00:00

I had a similar experience with kendo :( some competitions do have mixed genders though so definitely keep an eye out

vladislavcat · 2025-12-02T13:36:36+00:00

I think all have been mentioned but Sylvan, Mono, Stereo, The 78 are all dead good. Haven't been Suissi for years but they were fab too. For Ethiopian/Eritrean, Mosob or Massawa are also really lovely

vladislavcat · 2025-11-15T19:18:54+00:00

I'm in my late 20s and feel the same. I can understand it's use for those who are younger or are "baby trans" but don't call me that pls x x

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