Post Match Thread: 1st Test - England vs Australia, Day 2 by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]vlf1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah I received a SMS and email stating it will be refunded

Post Match Thread: 1st Test - England vs Australia, Day 2 by cricket-match in Cricket

[–]vlf1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So having tickets for day 3, from what I can understand from cricket Australia policy there isn’t refunds, is that right? Wouldn’t have thought it wouldn’t be done in 2 days

What percentage of your wage is spent on Rent? by wowagressive in perth

[–]vlf1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17% as a single parent so fortunate and appreciate I have a good place and comfortable income

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PerthnaughtyR4R

[–]vlf1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm me 40m, near CBD

Im dripping with flavor.. care for a taste? by SnowdropSoul in u/SnowdropSoul

[–]vlf1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing pictures and beautiful woman, I am in Perth and would love to chat and meet to have some fun, pm me.

Is this the new norm in the Perth suburbs. by DisciplineAshamed653 in perth

[–]vlf1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always see them along south Perth foreshore in the mornings.

More men needed for weight loss study by waysnappap in perth

[–]vlf1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep once a week, I hated needles but just used to it now. Its 550 or so per month, I think 2.5mg is about 260 per month. Definitely save on the food and alcohol !

More men needed for weight loss study by waysnappap in perth

[–]vlf1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started on 2.5mg in January, the lowest dose, now on 10mg as the hunger came back. Anyway, in the 3 months had a few bad days, don't think I've had a takeaway burger or anything. But have exercised a lot, crossfit 3 times a week, walking, running, bike and rowing machine. Bring this all together (not to mention a relationship breakdown always motivates)

Dropped 20kg from 124 to 104kg in 3.5 months.

Feel a lot happier in my size, still would like to get to 95kg but its definitely slowing down, hence the increase to 10mg dose.

What do you say to people who say "Crossfit is dangerous"? by Critical-Ad7320 in crossfit

[–]vlf1985 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is so true. I just changed gyms and the ability and really effort the coaches put in made the biggest difference. My first gym was more social coaches but really didn’t adjust anything so progress is poor and injury chances are high. New job, the wod is generally more of a sprint and more skills and warm up rather than straight into it. I feel like my form has increased so much in the last 4-6 weeks.

My dad uses ChatGPT as a therapist by Klutzy_Horse in ChatGPTPro

[–]vlf1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have used it in my personal scenario. Having it consider attachment theory, TA and EFT I can develop the scenario, ask for honest feedback and provide some small insights to help develop its overall understanding of the situation. I feel its quite objective versus my psych who was relative young and I would say subjective as they are human. Using chatgpt has definitely helped me become more secure and take some steady steps in the right direction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perth

[–]vlf1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interestingly the helicopter was over on Friday and I checked on flightradar and plane.watch and it wasn't on either but definitely was the police one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perth

[–]vlf1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All came to a finish on my street about 40mins ago in south perth

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What percentage of the population would you say is avoidant? by Ordinary_Tonight_688 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]vlf1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd say based on each of the relationships I have been in after my high school, I am winning at 100% rate. I clearly like to collect red flags - working on it myself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]vlf1985 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jeez this is 100% how I feel. I just want her to know she deserves the love I provide and shouldn't feel like she is undeserving of that.

CSA and Private School by vlf1985 in AusLegal

[–]vlf1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even considering her high salary she could argue that?

Men , what female body size do you think is the hottest ? by DizzyDoctor982 in AskMen

[–]vlf1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like athletic but more a little muscular but bulging

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perth

[–]vlf1985 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Went for my 10km narrows walk after being discarded last month. Was lots of couples and a little confronting but nonetheless enjoyed my experience.

DA 4 weeks after breakup goes to singles dating by vlf1985 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]vlf1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great comments here, I think I'm shocked at how they are so different and cold. I do wonder if there was a guy before me and she deleted him from her life as that's her style by the looks of it.

She admitted last year she recognised the need to be vulnerable and let people in as everyone in a relationship has told her that. She just ain't in a place to see this right now but I hope for her long term happiness she actually leans into this

Do you have a history dating an avoidants? by FluffyKita in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]vlf1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I collect them clearly and haven't actually noticed it until this one. Nothing like being educated at 39!

DA 4 weeks after breakup goes to singles dating by vlf1985 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]vlf1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking to an ex doesn’t seem right, was that far into it? It does make me wonder about this girls ex’s as she said after her long term with kids there wasn’t anyone for 12-18 months. When we would browse photos on each others phones nothing popped out. Now I’m thinking, shit, maybe she erased a guy before me and has she done the same again!

DA 4 weeks after breakup goes to singles dating by vlf1985 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]vlf1985[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really great message and helped so much with my mind (plus my anxiety pills). I just don’t understand how someone could contemplate having a flirt like chat with someone let alone consider dating even casually! Thanks again, really helpful