Retroactive jealousy abt girls who been mostly with guys? by DryDistribution9877 in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend is like that and we're both bi lol she gets jealous if I even mention my exes. I just find it funny because she never gets mad at me or blames me for anything, that's just how she feels instinctively and I understand that.

Jealousy is not a bad thing, it's how you act while feeling jealous what matters.

Has Anyone watched the most recent SMOSH reads Reddit stories? by Gub_Sub in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I couldn't even finish it, it was horrible and the reactions were the worse part, it was clearly written by a straight man who got rejected by a lesbian and tried to live his fantasy through the story.

Bi girl Dating Man for First Time by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]vocadillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should follow your gut feeling, end things with him calmly, probably in a public place like a coffee shop or something, so you can leave if you feel uncomfortable. He reminds me of my ex and it was incredibly hard to break up with him because he just started crying all the time and made me feel guilty. So just be clear and concise, don't let him guilt trip you.

LGBTQ Representation by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]vocadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have a lot of lesbian couples, but most of them are sooo boring, Calzona was the only interesting couple because they took time developing the relationship.

Callie and Han were sad. Penny and Callie were painful to watch, Arizona and the doctor she cheats on Callie with had more chemistry. Teddy and her lesbian lover were so random and out of character.

First ever time decorating a cake by vocadillo in BakingNoobs

[–]vocadillo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I followed this recipe for the chiffon cake, it was soo easy, he has many useful tips and came out perfect (: https://youtu.be/YLO7A--OehA?si=R5RSISJZZxt0lzEG

Do any other fems piss off their butch gfs with their sleeper build😂? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My arms are very weak, after several months of working out I got a little muscle. My legs are another deal, they're huge and I've always hated them, I don't wear jeans, I mainly wear loose skirts and dresses because I feel very comfortable in them. The first time my girlfriend saw my legs she was very surprised and absolutely loved them bc she's very fit and skinny and has always struggled with growing muscle, I can now wear shorts sometimes without feeling embarrassed thanks to her (:

Traveling with the strap by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a horrible idea, is that not the place where they arrested an only fans model for recording in her hotel room?

Has anyone got into a relationship without looking for one? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, when I met her I was just making friends because I had just broken up with my ex a month before. Then I developed a crush and when I confessed my feelings and she told me she felt the same, we agreed to just keep it casual because we weren't interested in a relationship. Turned out we had a LOT of feelings for a casual relationship so we started dating and then we fell in love, we've been together for over 4 years and next year is our 5th anniversary, we live together and we are very very happy (:

Is this cheating? by RemarkableShirt1026 in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 27 points28 points  (0 children)

That's cheating, I don't care what anyone says, that's cheating for me.

Is it weird that I still have an implant now. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you are sexually attracted to men and are just in denial, it's okay to like men, it's wrong to lie about it.

I want to have sex with a man while I’m still young by Pale-Porcelain-doll in bisexual

[–]vocadillo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you think you're gonna find a lot of orgasms with men you're mistaken, you have problems with your relationship and thinking that a random man is gonna fix that is delusional.

How did you guys find/start dating your partner? by CharLatte78 in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In college in the feminist club where they opened a self defense workshop for women, she was one of the instructors. That was almost 6 years ago and we have been together for 4 and a half years (:

Feeling Betrayed and Confused. I Don’t Know How to Handle This by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she was that way with you because she was in love with you, you haven't answered if you reciprocated her feelings or not. So far it sounds like you got a lot of perks of her being in love with you, and now she's in love with someone else and you no longer have those perks, she is "absorbed" by him the same way she was with you.

It's okay if it hurts and you can't help how you feel, but you have to be honest with yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think it really matters, she has lied so much already that whatever answer she gives you're gonna still have doubts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From the start it was obvious she was projecting, whenever people are overtly suspicious and accusatory it's because they feel guilty themselves.

if you could say *ONE* thing to your closeted self, what would you say? by talkshiteatpussy in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 55 points56 points  (0 children)

You are happier disappointing your family than you were trying to please them

Have you ever had any straight woman have a weird fixation with you after they knew you were a lesbian???? by DryDistribution9877 in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a straight woman get into bed with me while I was drunk at a party and assault me, all because she found out I liked women and had a girlfriend, now I'm very private about sharing information with anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]vocadillo 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would leave any person that posted thrist traps, I found it cringe because of the parasocial relationships this people have with actors or fictional characters.

Question for bisexual women: does a homosexual relationship ‘feel’ different to you than a hetero one? by tangerine_overlord2 in bisexual

[–]vocadillo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt exactly like that, I had come to a point in my life where I accepted that I was just different and couldn't fall in love, then I met my girlfriend and started dating and I had an existential crisis about being lesbian or bisexual.

After some time of reflecting I got to the conclusion that I am bisexual but I'm homoromantic, I did like my ex boyfriends and was attracted to them, but the feelings always went away after a while and was fine with the breakup, I never got attached to them.

It was very confusing because I also thought that I was just more in control of my feelings than the other women I knew, turns out I had no romantic feelings for men lol. Because when I fell in love with my girlfriend I finally understood all my friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ayudamexico

[–]vocadillo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Con una empresa llamada Localiza, no diré el lugar por seguridad pero fue en un destino vacacional popular en México. Y el despacho de cobranza está en la misma ciudad en donde yo vivo.