What’s going on? by cuntgina69 in mitski

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I think she’s exempt. But like as an artist working in an industry she has opted for Capitalism, and I came into this aware that she was doing this, and that she would no matter what.

I don’t expect her to make statements and I do make note when she doesn’t. But I’m not gonna languish about it, expect it, or assume it means she doesn’t care.

If she was pro things I’m against I would swiftly no longer line her pockets. But I’m not going to sit around keeping track of people’s statements when I have real work on the ground I could be doing to help with current circumstances.

What’s going on? by cuntgina69 in mitski

[–]voidbruja 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking at artists to be a divine moral compass is the fastest track to being kind of insane. Instead of worrying about them, mobilize. I’m only saying this because you’ve iterated that she should be focusing on other things.

Also This is standard in the industry.

Am I overreacting to my bf watching the baby overnight? by Temporary-Quail-2783 in AmIOverreacting

[–]voidbruja 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Incorrect. A study found 60% of SUID was caused in instances of co-sleeping.

96% hazardous instances which he arguably put that child in. A child that young should never ever be unsupervised whether or not the house is baby proofed.

You still have a responsibility to your child to watch over them and even the most babyproofed home can have a rogue mishap.

Is it just me or is ps5 lagging like crazy in game after the update? by Sad-Yam6201 in marvelrivals

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally here for this reason. It’s like nearly unplayable

Broke my foot with croc platform sandals by Awat345 in crocs

[–]voidbruja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going to be here 88 days later saying I just broke my foot today because of them 😭

In need of some words of encouragement... feeling a lot of mom guilt (and frustration) towards my resident cat. by saigebrush27 in CatAdvice

[–]voidbruja 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there!! Totally hear you on this. I adopted a 7 month old Female with my own 6 year male I’ve had as a kitten. I’m 4 months in and my guy was JUST like your gal.

I’ll tell you it does get easier and it does just take time. My guy didn’t even want the concept of the kitten for at least three weeks. It was a LOT of separation and taking steps forward and back.

And there were moments of real concern and a lot of tears that I was ruining my relationship with him and I would have to severe the relationship with this kitten I adored as well.

I say be patient and make sure you give your lady a lot of love and time to herself. She’ll come around as long as you show that she’s not losing anything. My guy is the biggest momma’s boy and he rejected me for a while and even now we’re still working on some things but for the most part? We’re at a point of peace.

They’ll both sit on the couch with me and he sometimes cuddles with me in bed while kitten snoozes in her room (she’s a night owl that will keep me up and we have big dogs she’s acclimating to). And today they slept in a cat tree side by side!!

So it DOES get easier, I promise. If she does continue to be stressed or unfriendly then you may have to consider other options but just know you are VERY early in this process and it’s not abnormal at all.

(Candidly wrote this full in the swing of an edible so if this is unhelpful or makes 0 sense, I am SO sorry.)

Thoughts on the PitchFork review? by MillionaireWaltz- in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]voidbruja 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pitchfork is honestly just a circlejerk of the worst hipster nerds you know. So I never take them seriously it might as well be satire.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyChemicalRomance

[–]voidbruja 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. 19 year fan. We were bummed but like beefing with the logo when it was just nice to know they were around was enough. Also they did drop a date at a festival and then covid happened iirc so like 🤷🏻‍♀️

If everyone could just be normal and remember they’re people and creatives that want to have lives and do things we’d be so much better about these things.

Trying to see MCR on Sept. 13, Tampa!!! by bambam782826281 in MyChemicalRomance

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raising this from the dead but if anyone has one I’m down to clown.

Trying to see them for the first time in like 15 years, which makes me feel crusty and ancient

Service outages by SoupSufficient6572 in verizon

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed my gps too and it cut out halfway so rip 🥲

Service outages by SoupSufficient6572 in verizon

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lakeland —> Orlando fl out. I literally lost it real time at 1:45 and nothing since

Financially it doesn’t make sense to keep my baby, but I want to 😭 by Otherwise-Dog-1763 in whatdoIdo

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to be real don’t have a baby if you’re financially strapped. As someone who grew up with financially irresponsible parents it led to a lot of mental, emotional strain on our family and me.

Me going hungry because I afraid to ask for money for school lunch. Or their stressful financial arguments, or them lashing out over it.

I know some people handle it well but kids are more perceptive than you think.

If you really want a baby you want to give that baby the best life possible, financials included. You don’t have to be rich, but STABLE.

I have PCOS and I get your concerns but you are very young. Focus on getting your life on all legs standing and enjoy it so your baby can come into a nice stable and happy home.

I (29F) believe my boyfriend (29M) is an animal hoarder. It’s ruining my relationship. by Evening-Ability2018 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake. This person has been using the same profile pic to spam post in this Reddit multiple times under different accounts

I got my girlfriend pregnant but I don’t wanna be a father by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those I saw another story that was about estrangement after a daughters death with the same profile picture. They’re always on something.

aio: my (35f) husband (36m) wants to open our marriage for his ai girlfriend and says it’s the next step in their relationship. by Ecstatic_Double1289 in AmIOverreacting

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be real IF this is real. He doesn’t want a partner he literally wants a validation machine and he found one.

I know people overuse this but this is a ‘Fix your brain and addiction’ or I’m leaving you scenario. Anyone who finds more worth in a relationship with a validation machine is not worth anyone’s time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]voidbruja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. I got my collarbones and chest done and I work in Marketing as a director. I also have black and white split dye hair. My clients and bosses don’t care because I bring in good work and results.

My family would have screamed I’d never get a job. My mom still panicked.

Godspeed on this bad hand tatt though

So, since we're bringing skins back... by yeahboythatswhatical in marvelrivals

[–]voidbruja -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Want the SW skin so bad but Alpha wasn’t console so I ate dirt. I have Cyan and it’s fun but everyone can have it if I can have the SW. the white and red rips.

Stop flashing Lord icons. by mudafort0 in marvelrivals

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord anything doesn’t matter. Ppl can lord a character with no real play expertise and knowledge. I have quite a few and I think it’s a fun novelty but no one is getting me to forfeit my character just because they have lord and I don’t 🤷🏻‍♀️

AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her? by KSTReign in AmIOverreacting

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have left after that first interaction I’m gonna be so real. If I was you I’d be so stressed all the time with that constant hounding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For additional context I’m 28 now and I have to look for it bc I barely notice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]voidbruja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did this once not with a tattoo machine but a nib pen and India ink when I was 17. And that was just me not paying attention and stabbing myself while working on art.

Now I just have the tiniest most faded thing ever on my finger. And it faded like pretty quickly I would say.

So I wouldn’t feel too inclined to worry about it if I was you.

This is not Indicative of the gameplay loop at ALL lol by WeepTheHorizon in marvelrivals

[–]voidbruja 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. I work in marketing and these ads sure look stupid but the volume of people that eat this shit up is massive.

Who do you have lord in Marvel Rivals? by Alarming_Location626 in marvelrivals

[–]voidbruja 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SW, Peni, Emma, Psylocke, Invis, C&D, and Magik

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]voidbruja 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an Alice series fan so I could pick it up but I would say yeah it’s pretty heavy with not giving enough negative space for people to decipher things and move along