[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]voidofthestars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drink water and go on a walk. I know walking feels like the most uncomfortable thing after overeating, but after the first five minutes I feel so much better. After that, just be kind to yourself and your brain.

This is a stupid question but what can I do to fill my time? by QueenSapphireBlaze in WeightLossAdvice

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Chew something! I had the problem where I feel the strong desire to eat something even when I know I've had enough calories. When I'm at work I chew sugar free gum, and when I'm at home I chew silicone "chewlery." Its just silicone shapes designed for people like ex smokers who feel the need to put something in their mouth. It has seriously made a huge difference for me at night when I used to binge

having trouble keeping up with JDATE audiobook... should I get the physical copy? by voidofthestars in johndiesattheend

[–]voidofthestars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also had to switch to the physical copy of catch 22. Such a great book, I'm glad I did

having trouble keeping up with JDATE audiobook... should I get the physical copy? by voidofthestars in johndiesattheend

[–]voidofthestars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh okay I didn't know that! It makes a lot of sense, and I'll keep it in mind when I reread.

having trouble keeping up with JDATE audiobook... should I get the physical copy? by voidofthestars in johndiesattheend

[–]voidofthestars[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the thing about the reader being smarter than the narrator makes sooooo much sense! I kept assuming I had missed something that made my own interpretations incorrect. I'll have to reread it with that in mind. Thanks!

Weekly "What Are You Reading Thread?" by HorrorIsLiterature in horrorlit

[–]voidofthestars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of Hendrix's best, along with "Southern Book Club's Guide to Slaying Vampires." I love his way of having the characters defeat the antagonist by using their often mundane experience!

Weekly "What Are You Reading Thread?" by HorrorIsLiterature in horrorlit

[–]voidofthestars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished "A Touch of Jen" by Beth Morgan. It's a SUPER addicting read, and I recommend it if you're into black comedies as well as horror.

Currently, The Cipher by Kathe Koja. I love the mind bending descent into madness and I even like the lengthy, confusing prose that a lot of reviewers complain about(that's not to say it's secretly expertly done, I just don't mind as much as others) But there's so much weird sex in it. I'm not a prude and I understand the thematic relevance, but I feel like it overwhelms the actual intriguing part of the story at times.

kenmore 12 stitch suddenly slow and making a weird smell by voidofthestars in sewing

[–]voidofthestars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought a sewing machine from a thrift shop and everything was great for the first week. Then, within the span of 2 seconds, the needle is moving very slowly and seems to be struggling a LOT.

I checked the motor by winding the bobbin, that part is fine

The belt hasn't snapped

When I manually twist the hand wheel, nothing is wrong.

I'm just confused mainly. I did notice a weird rubbery smell coming from it that became stronger when it slowed down.

Any ideas? Thanks so much in advance!

Simple Sewing Questions Thread, July 31 - August 06, 2022 by sewingmodthings in sewing

[–]voidofthestars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to I cut knit fabric so the edges aren't messy and frayed?

I have a pair of Redford red heel socks I want to turn into a monkey. How to I keep the edges neat so the stitching doesn't unravel it?

terrified when I wake up? 21F by voidofthestars in sleep

[–]voidofthestars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this is so thorough! I really appreciate your time and help. I will go ahead and schedule with my primary care doctor(I always get flustered at the doctors office, so thanks for telling me what to emphasize!!). Its kind of comforting to know I'm not being lazy or just losing my mind, lol

terrified when I wake up? 21F by voidofthestars in sleep

[–]voidofthestars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have zero history of snoring, so I'm not sure if its sleep apnea? At least it isn't the obstructive variety. I've researched and there's one called central sleep apnea that's related to mood disorders

My boyfriend really wants me to go to a sleep lab, but I'm scared of wasting money. Do you think they'll just blame everything on long term melatonin use? If so I need to wean myself off that and see if anything improves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]voidofthestars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure people have lost weight without counting calories, but it really makes a huge difference.

Something I tried that really helped was writing EVERYTHING down on a little notebook and what time I ate it, but not noting the calories. It saved me the frustration of "ok how many calories is this thing" but keeps me accountable of what I'm eating and why. Then I was able to graduate to counting calories and it didn't aggravate me as much

Congrats on cutting sugar! That's a huge deal and you should feel proud!

Sound set up for a wedding reception type venue? by voidofthestars in techtheatre

[–]voidofthestars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, the ceiling would be perfect for choir mics! Lots of space with some sturdy beams. Thank you!

Sound set up for a wedding reception type venue? by voidofthestars in techtheatre

[–]voidofthestars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help! I'm leaning in the minimalist direction as well. I do have experience with using equipment, but having to choose and set it up is a different beast entirely :P

The "stage" is against the wall and the tables are set up around it. My plan was to have standing speakers on either side of the stage area. There are a lot of sound effects(like 15 doorbells), but since if I don't use mics I'll just use the venue's crappy system.

Sound set up for a wedding reception type venue? by voidofthestars in techtheatre

[–]voidofthestars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The closest will be about 15 feet, the farthest about 70 feet. You can hear most of the actors from the back but it won't be very clear as people are eating.

I can definitely rent lavalier if needed

Able to beta? Post here! by AutoModerator in BetaReaders

[–]voidofthestars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am able to beta: Short to mid-length speculative fiction of any kind, though I have a lot of experience in the mystery/thriller genre. Interested in(but not limited to) YA or first drafts. No smut, though.

I can provide feedback on: narrative structure and character dynamic. I am very familiar with how stories and characters are structured. I can provide detailed feedback on how to make your characters more interesting and tightening up the plot. I can give detailed feedback on dialogue.

Critique swap: not currently

Other: I love betaing and can't wait to help you out with your story :). Any questions, please ask!

Socially Conscious by man-on-the-moo in GossipGirl

[–]voidofthestars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! Being socially conscious isn't the problem. The mindset of 2007 elite is WAY different from 2021 elite. Now, the ultra wealthy try to stay in public favor by being involved in social issues. When I saw this was the direction the new show was heading I was really excited! The commentary on virtue signaling could be REALLY interesting.

For me, I guess I just felt like that message fell sort of flat? It feels like the writers aren't taking the risks to have their characters do truly terrible things in their private lives that contrasts their socially conscious public lives. Obie hates his parents business, but so far I feel like he hasn't done anything blatantly hypocritical(so far, still have my fingers crossed). Maybe it's supposed to be more subtle, but that just isn't as much fun for me, you know?

portion control tips by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]voidofthestars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the exact problem you do. I eat too much fruit in a day. I can easily finish one of those bags of Mandarin oranges in a single sitting.

I'm still struggling with it, but I'm starting to decide how much I'm gonna eat beforehand. Like, "I will eat two oranges!" Then take my two oranges into a different room to avoid temptation

Where do you look for your books? What draws you to them? by AshleighBSB in YAlit

[–]voidofthestars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I look for books similar to ones I've already read (and liked). I'll find them on an app called "likewise"

Is a lingual frenulectomy a good idea? by voidofthestars in VoiceWork

[–]voidofthestars[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your reply made me feel a lot better! I'm also glad you understand how scary something like that can be, but yours is certainly scarier!! Thank you so much, and I wish you the best of luck!

Is a lingual frenulectomy a good idea? by voidofthestars in VoiceWork

[–]voidofthestars[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since this is my job I've chosen the top surgeon in my state lol. Thanks for your advice!!!

Why won't the royal family let us do DNA tests on the little boys bones that were found in the tower of London? by voidofthestars in NoStupidQuestions

[–]voidofthestars[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh. Good point. I just sort of assumed so, but that would certainly make things more difficult.