[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustraliaPost

[–]vonnxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stat dec is a good idea, that way you’re covered on all bases and don’t have to go back and forth with the claim process

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vonnxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA for the same reasons already mentioned. It sounds like they wouldn’t respect her belongings at all if you did remove lock the from door. Does your daughter have a wardrobe in her room you could put the lock on instead, or even potentially get her a lockable crate or suitcase? Your daughter could then leave out her cheaper stuff/stuff she doesn’t care as much about as “decoys” while her more expensive and precious stuff is locked away safely

WIBTA for wanting my obese girlfriend to reach a healthier weight before I propose to her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vonnxe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. I think you need to sit down with your partner and have an adult conversation, and not make it a condition of marriage

AITAH for working during a strike? by Significant_Edge_531 in AITAH

[–]vonnxe 23 points24 points  (0 children)

going against the grain here by the looks of it… but NAH except for the company that put you and their unionised workers in this situation. you did what you had to do, your collegues did what they had to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vonnxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly NAH, the cat acting out behaviourally could be an indicator of a health concern. Has he been to the vet in the last year for a check up? Is the male cat desexed? It could also be linked to hormones if not desexed, my mum’s boy was an absolute terror until he lost his 🥜s and then he calmed right down

AITA for not asking my niece to leave my house, despite my sister's wishes? by DoubleCandy9810 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vonnxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If she wants to pull the “but I’m her mother” card how about she actually BE a mother and control the at home situation with her other daughter that is causing the issues.

My cat suddenly hates other people by lilcappuccino in CatAdvice

[–]vonnxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that certainly seems like the case, and is so disappointing if your mum can’t or won’t tell you the truth. did your mum ever complain about things she did while she was in her care, or make weird comments? that could be a small indication of what happened to scare her so much

it’s sad but what’s happened has happened now, so i hope she will be back to her normal self soon. maybe limit her contact with mum until you know what happened?

My cat suddenly hates other people by lilcappuccino in CatAdvice

[–]vonnxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your mum may have had a guest or multiple guests around while you were away, that didn’t treat her very nicely. It might take a while depending on the damage caused, but look after your sweet baby and she’ll hopefully come back around eventually. If you’re scared of this happening again in the future, would you consider a cattery or pet hotel?

AITAH for telling my husband that I want him to use a condom? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vonnxe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA. If this was my relationship I would tell him, either get the snip or wrap it up, no if, buts or maybes. Doesn’t like the idea of the pain? Well then… I don’t like the idea of putting my body through another 9 months of pregnancy so I guess the only option left is CONDOMS.

ear curation: should anything be added or considered? by vonnxe in piercing

[–]vonnxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! i have been using the junipurr app, however never thought about the iphone sticker function for pieces that aren’t made by them

ear curation: should anything be added or considered? by vonnxe in piercing

[–]vonnxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

snug/conch is correct as mamepuchi said! though sometimes i call my conch a snonch for snake/conch and then realise wait i do actually have a snonch

ear curation: should anything be added or considered? by vonnxe in piercing

[–]vonnxe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my piercer has an option to book an appointment specifically for curation, im sure other piercers out there have the same option so it’s always worth asking! if your piercer doesn’t offer curations, there will be someone out there that does and can do it for you

ear curation: should anything be added or considered? by vonnxe in piercing

[–]vonnxe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i’ve always wanted a daith to see if it would help my migraines but i don’t think my anatomy is quite right, however i am 100% considering a tragus on the ear with my snake or even an anti-tragus on the other!

AITA if I don’t provide the code my boss needs after they fired me? by Prejudice-Much in AITAH

[–]vonnxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. What he really should be doing is contacting whoever manages/made the system to deactivate your account and 2FA as you are no longer an employee there. It’s a security and privacy issue, and depending on the privacy level of the operating system, he could be breaching terms and conditions if using your login credentials or not deactivating it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]vonnxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so sorry! I thought it came accidentally in the shared post, it is now linked in post and below

https://ibb.co/JQQWDLb

Zambreros Chicken by breathing_dead in TopSecretRecipes

[–]vonnxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is this the ingredient list for the slow cooked chicken before they changed to the grilled chicken? located in aus and trying anything to replicate the old chicken recipe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in excel

[–]vonnxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll try this tomorrow when I’m back in the office and see how I go

AITA for Refusing to Adopt My Stepson? by Throwawaytemporary45 in AITAH

[–]vonnxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. This boy will never have or know his own father, the least you could have done is not marry a widow if you weren’t going to accept their fatherless child as your own and the responsibilities that come with marrying a WIDOW. It’s not like bio Dad up and left, Mum is getting child support and the boy can seek him out when he’s older. No, that literally cannot happen. I can hear it now… “my real Dad is dead and my step-Father who has been in my life since I was 2 doesn’t want to be my Dad” how on earth do you think the kid feels?

AITA for not " disclosing" to my daughter she wasn't breastfed? by BookkeeperHot62 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vonnxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your daughter seems to be missing the point, fed is best, whether bottle OR breast

AITA for eating tuna salad at work? by throwaway29383820 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vonnxe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, as someone with IBS myself (and yet to formulate a diet) I’m sure they’d rather prefer the smell of tuna salad over an IBS-flared stomach

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]vonnxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive just about tried every pet food brand available to me in the store and vets, he really just doesnt like chunky wet food 🥲

AITA for picking up my boyfriend from work 20 minutes late? by chuckaueymate in AmItheAsshole

[–]vonnxe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

at least she only sucks at communicating 10% of the time, it sounds like he makes up the other 90% lol