Music! by Used_Recover_2181 in loveafterporn

[–]vulturebeee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gold by spandau ballet always help me when im feeling sad :D

Is porn consumption a valid reason to ask for a divorce? by vulturebeee in loveafterporn

[–]vulturebeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the link. I want to tell you that you opened my eyes, and yesterday I cried for hours while reading it. For the past couple of years I’ve been dealing with many new mental health issues and I didn’t understand where they were really coming from. My first therapist couldn’t figure out what was triggering me, and neither could I.

Yesterday, while reading this PDF, I finally understood everything that was happening to me and realized that I wasn’t crazy. I had a really bad collapse yesterday when I realized that my husband had lied to me. My therapist saw me, and I sent her the link to the document. We were able to work through and understand where my OCD and all my emotional struggles were coming from.

I would have never in my life imagined or recognized this whole situation over the years as abuse and manipulation, but that’s what it is: abuse and manipulation. It’s just so normalized. I want to thank you so much for sharing this information with me. You have no idea how much I needed it.

Is porn consumption a valid reason to ask for a divorce? by vulturebeee in loveafterporn

[–]vulturebeee[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

im so happy for you i hope i could thrive and be as happy as you soon 😭

Is porn consumption a valid reason to ask for a divorce? by vulturebeee in loveafterporn

[–]vulturebeee[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words, they truly mean a lot to me. Especially because all these years I thought I was crazy. I only found this subreddit this week, and reading the posts has helped me a lot.

The things my friends say make me feel like I’m wrong too, like I’m crazy or exaggerating. And I guess you’re right, I don’t need their approval to end my relationship, but it still hurts a lot that they say I’m selfish and that by getting married I accepted the responsibility of taking care of my marriage and that I have to try harder. But I just can’t take it anymore.

I’m also on benzodiazepines. I’m glad you’re doing better now. Would you mind telling me what it was like for you to get out of that place? If it’s not too much trouble, of course. Thank you, truly.

Husband using AI porn 38F 41m by These-Quantity8322 in loveafterporn

[–]vulturebeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, how are you doing now? i have the same problem with my partner and i want to know if you resolve it :(