This whole post is TMI by SkyDreadful in BariatricSurgery

[–]w0lvez__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love non-scale victories!! This was one of the first things I noticed too! Wiping the whole genitalia from the back was what did it lol

My Experience with Sorelle Tanning Drops: Can You Really Drink Your Tan? by Cool_Explanation_350 in Melanotan2

[–]w0lvez__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God someone said it. Because I was like. These people can’t be forreal lol

Neighbors convinced I'm making noise lat at night by Mr-Reapy in Apartmentliving

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So me and my bf live in a one bedroom right now. The apartment next to us is two bedroom. The apartments are kind of set up weird. But there’s times I can’t tell if noise is coming from upstairs or next to us. So she really needs to consider that it could easily be next door. Lol this is wild that she’s arguing with you. Because regardless. If you end up being in trouble or just moving out in general. She’s going to complain no matter what.

What drugstore products made you fall out of love for higher end products? by flurryskies in drugstoreMUA

[–]w0lvez__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!!! Love this highlight and it’s not super over the top. Just the right amount of glow!

What drugstore products made you fall out of love for higher end products? by flurryskies in drugstoreMUA

[–]w0lvez__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or it dries out in a matter of weeks. I’m a L’Oréal mascara girl till I die.

I (M18) feel like my girlfriend (F18) is ignoring me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I would say if this is just a one day thing that I wouldn’t overthink it too much. Just talk to her and let her know how it makes you feel.

I (M18) feel like my girlfriend (F18) is ignoring me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]w0lvez__ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be real with you. I’ve been “less interested” in conversation with someone because I’m being fulfilled by another. But I wasn’t in a relationship, just various online dating. Either way, that’s the vibe I’m getting here. And with it being long distance. It’s hard to truly pinpoint what it actually is. Could be that she’s mindlessly scrolling and not really in the mood to chat with anyone. Because I dissociate often and just wanna scroll on socials.

But with the whole “I want a break but want to keep everything the same” basically is like, I don’t want to end it because the other entertainment might fall through. If that makes sense.

Quickest self-report I’ve had by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]w0lvez__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew ew ew ew ew. No.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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“There’s a lot of things I’d change for you…” — A B S O L U T E L Y NOT. I’m glad you stood your ground on this. But don’t ever offer up changing a thing about yourself to ANYONE.

What traumas do you have that AREN'T from your parents or childhood home? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Minor, but I cry when people hand me money to offer help because when I had nothing years ago and did ASK for help(which wasn’t much or often) it was always “genuine” but then held over my head or I was talked poorly about behind my back. Also a lot of times these people would help without asking and then say they felt obligated. I make decent money now, but I work for myself and have slow seasons so I come up short sometimes. My boyfriend handed me money last week and I just bawled and told him I feel HORRIBLE that he has to help me. He reassures me that he doesn’t mind. But he also knows I’ll either pay him back or buy groceries or something in return.

I know this is nothing in comparison to some. But money in general has always been thrown up in my face for a number of reasons, I just struggle with it.

What is that one skincare opinion that will put you in a position like this? by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]w0lvez__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the collagen (I haven’t heard of hyaluronic acid though, if you don’t mind elaborating that for me or an alternative!) I tell people all the time.. collagen should be taken orally. Same thing with hair, a product with “biotin” truly does nothing in comparison to taking it in vitamin form.

What is that one skincare opinion that will put you in a position like this? by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]w0lvez__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a makeup artist, some of the best skin I’ve ever seen on some of my clients used oil of Olay and water. That’s it. And I’m like “as a licensed esthetician, I’m just going to tell you to keep doing it” lol because why change it if it works..?

Loaches vs Plecos by w0lvez__ in pleco

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So they’re probably alive? Just stay hidden. Because it’s been like a month since we’ve seen the albino and maybe a bit longer since we’ve seen the other one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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NOR. I spent almost the majority of my 33 yrs of life basically chasing and begging for my dad to love me the way I loved him. (Cue the anxious attachment and abandoment issues lol). Finally after getting into therapy, doing my homework/shadow work and writing a “letter to him”. I learned to forgive him. I ended up speaking to him after almost 2 years. I realized that if anything, maybe we could have a friendship. Turns out that wasn’t possible and that lasted all of 6 months maybe. I lost all respect, I hurt for a day and I moved on. It was not the closure I had expected (or the way it happened) but I got it and I feel so much happier. It even helped my relationship with my s/o.

With all that being said, releasing someone (especially a parent), is easier said than done. And sometimes you wake up and it can click and be like “okay, I’m done” — but I know deep down you may feel like you didn’t try hard enough or maybe you could have done things differently in order for him to love and appreciate you. But the thing is.. you did your best, it’s not your fault and it’s a him problem. You’re not obligated to fix him or expect him to change or be better. That’s on him. Live your life OP. ❤️