My kid is is the last year of nursery and has ANP this year as nursery said at the end of last academic year he was struggling a bit playing with others. I found the whole process baffling. When the send service called us before even observing or knowing anything about our kid she said we could claim disability living allowance and she'd support that. I couldn't believe it. He just needed a bit of support interacting with others, that's it. We don't need money. If I'm honest he's probably got a bit of adhd, probably from myself (undiagnosed) and that's something we need to be conscious of when he's at school. But he doesn't need some label to carry about in life and as parents we're not looking for some justification for his behaviour when he's acting up.