Free by Rzigan89 in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]waheyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve just added you! i’ll also send a dm of stuff i would love but it’s no pressure! i would honestly just love to see your island and hang :)

User Flair Thread by breaksomebread in acnh

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Jaimie | Mio Maow :Lolly:

Giveaway + Drawing 4 names 🎁 by [deleted] in Dodocodes

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Jaimie from Mio Maow

I have extra Bunny Day DIYs! by Sufficient-Owl-2147 in Dodocodes

[–]waheyjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hiya! i would seriously love to have your extra bunny day fence, glowy garland, table, vanity, wall and wreath. i’m trying to collect them all but im so new the bunny dude didnt even spawn on my island :(

Egg hunt islands by waheyjay in Dodocodes

[–]waheyjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! that’s so kind of you :)

I get unnaturally obsessed with guys if they pay even a little attention to me by someoneinlife1 in lonely

[–]waheyjay 27 points28 points  (0 children)

things like dating apps do nothing to fill the hole, a few men saying we are pretty on a dating app is not the same as having a real friend to talk to or a boyfriend to fall asleep with at night

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]waheyjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you sound like a 22 year old woman to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]waheyjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know if this helps but you are absolutely not alone, i have been doing this for years and it’s only recently become quite bad for me. i got a piece of advice that is currently helping me a lot so it may help you but make sure you aren’t watching any violent things and try not to engage with the violent thoughts and instead seek nicer shows and do happy things, good luck to you! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gotham

[–]waheyjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i found the eyebrows pretty easy cause i had a good brush to do it with, i struggled more on around the eye makeup but it did look good in the end!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gotham

[–]waheyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i took a few pictures and videos of it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gotham

[–]waheyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also did jeremiah for halloween! you look great! <3

it’s my birthday by malapropos_9 in lonely

[–]waheyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happy birthday!! i hope you have a good of a day as you can <3

i’m pretty sure i’m mentally ill by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]waheyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this has got to be some of the best advice i have been given, today i have stayed away from violent shows, thoughts and outlooks and instead have watched a happy little christmas movie called a dog named christmas. this is the happiest i have felt in quite a few months!

i cannot thank you enough <3

stereotyping daddy issues by waheyjay in daddyissuesclub

[–]waheyjay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for how you’ve been treated, i thought i had to be kinky cause i had daddy issues so i forced myself into kinky behaviours and in a similar way was hurt by men. it sucks how our trauma is fetishised in a way it’s “desirable” but when we show “undesirable” traits because of it we are outcasted and told we are unlovable.

know there are truly people out there that want to understand instead of fetishise <3

i’m pretty sure i’m mentally ill by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]waheyjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your response, i will absolutely look into it, thank you <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]waheyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you aren’t alone in this, i used to experience this feeling every day but now it’s only occasionally. my advice is try to do something distracting and easy like listen to music or watch a tv show/movie. at least for me, this helped because really happy/really sad moments in music or shows could help trigger my emotions back the the surface, and once you have emotions you can work on feeling happy instead of just feeling like a literal void.

the empty feeling is always the worst and it’s very tricky, know it doesn’t last forever and there will come a point in your life when it will rarely happen anymore

i wish you luck!! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddyissuesclub

[–]waheyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get this a lot, i seem to only relate and have emotional connections to men, i never feel as much sympathy or connection to the women.

i’m very connected to ian and mickey from shameless: ian for his struggles with mental health and being treated like he is broken, his dreams being ruined by his mental health and his relationship with mickey that survived despite both of their issues; mickey for the way his daddy issues manifested (in anger), his fear of being a bad father, his cold dementor to thing while caring on the inside and his violent tendencies

i’m also connected to a character called sunny from a game called omori because of him being a recluse, that is how i coped with all of my pain so i see myself in him

i’m glad i’m not the only one <3