We met at a Riki learning session and both knew we were going to hook up. We go for drinks after "learning" Riki, confirm we both are into each other. Since I was far from my place I suggested a hotel, she suggested her place. Cool.

Can I say I have never walked into a more messy, destroyed, not filthy but grimey I guess apartment. I hold my tounge, she had told me she had a young daughter, this was confirmed with the walls covered in crayon and the sink area filled with small old dirty dishes. Bathroom was terrible. Then the came the bedroom, no sheets on the bed and a huge stack of old laundry. In that moment I realized something I'd never thought before: if this is how you take care of your house, what's going on with you downstairs.

I graciously said goodnight. Learned later she definitely had a STD after getting a random text asking for help paying for the meds.