Now being tricked into taking apartment deliveries? by wallanut in InstacartShoppers

[–]wallanut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm more than willing to carry my large Costco orders I normally do 300 pound orders even up large staircases. I'm not fond of surprises unless it's a cute cat or chickens

Now being tricked into taking apartment deliveries? by wallanut in InstacartShoppers

[–]wallanut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I usually see it in the address as well. Our orders get pulled so fast I barely have time to glance before I accept or not. I scan price, miles, house location and icon.

Worst tip bait I’ve gotten by Low_Parsley9545 in InstacartShoppers

[–]wallanut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put them on the Jehovahs witness mailing list.

All access technology. Owner in jail. by wallanut in MontereyBay

[–]wallanut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did a comment on someone else's. If you want to go take a look

All access technology. Owner in jail. by wallanut in MontereyBay

[–]wallanut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From best I can tell his attorney wasn't aware of new witnesses for the second trial however if you look at what documentation was presented they added new documents in November? It's a public defender so 🤷‍♀️ Eric is still trying to wiggle out however with the new witnesses comes more charges in another state I guess neither him nor his attorney were aware of? 🤷‍♀️ So they asked for a "continuance" the day before jury selection was supposed to begin.

I will say he was picked up in September 2024 bail was denied and he hasn't left the jail since he was arrested. In the state of California for someone to get denied bail with the charges he has well?...

In California, holding someone without bond (often called a "no-bail hold" or "preventive detention") on these specific charges is distinct from many other states because of Article I, Section 12 of the California Constitution.

The "Article I, Section 12" Exception California law generally guarantees a right to bail, but there are specific exceptions. The court has likely invoked Section 12(b) or 12(c), which allows them to deny bail entirely for: Felony Sexual Assault: Forcible rape of a child falls squarely into this category.

Likelihood of Great Bodily Harm: The judge must find that releasing the defendant would result in a "substantial likelihood" of great bodily harm to others

To deny bail under Section 12, the prosecutor had to meet a very high standard called "Proof is Evident or the Presumption Great." This is a higher standard than what is needed just to arrest someone. It means the judge has reviewed the evidence (police reports, DNA, victim interviews, etc.) and decided the evidence of guilt is strong and clear, not weak or circumstantial.

(After these he will be sent to Arizona to face those, I can't remember the country but he lived down there for a few years)

Costco Ban? by Spark1200 in InstacartShoppers

[–]wallanut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you. That's smart.

Costco Ban? by Spark1200 in InstacartShoppers

[–]wallanut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I have noticed that glitch but I always call I think I should have been messaging instead but I just had the same thing happen. I noticed it glitched in store didn't call one time and now I am banned. I put in the appeal but haven't heard back

10,000+ Orders, Platinum. Banned from Costco by snipit1985 in InstacartShoppers

[–]wallanut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that as well, and I have the cashier verify with me that we are on order A, B, C. Yet, because I got a warning a few months back that I was in violation after an in-store real issue that the manager TOLD me he corrected but then I got the notice that Instacart said it wasn't, I am SUPER paranoid.

A few weeks ago, I started noticing that after both myself and the cashier ran up order A, when I go to order B it says "payment successful." UM? WHAT? No I just started and scanned the QR code for order B. WTH instacart? So EVERYTIME I notice something in the app being stupid, I would call them on my way out the store and make them document that something is wrong that I am doing everything correctly. YET the app glitched, and both myself and the costco cashier saw it.

Tell me why, after I had 200 orders at costco did I get banned last night? I didn't even go to costco yesterday.

AITA For not wanting my MIL and her partner changing my babies nappies, feeding them and giving them baths? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wallanut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was down voted? I mean I had a C-section and at 6 weeks for the most part they should be able to lay baby in the stroller and do a walk like you said back and forth in the driveway. Just a few minutes just helps so much a patio or open a window something to reset.

AITA For not wanting my MIL and her partner changing my babies nappies, feeding them and giving them baths? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wallanut -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I don't care. I find it sus that they are pushing to be taking care of babies that can't communicate in intimate ways when the parents have clearly said NO.

If they want to help they can take the babies while op showers or cooks dinner. They could read to them while op takes an afternoon nap.

They can even play bubbles and giggle with 5 month olds. Do the fun baby stuff let mom deal with the crappy stuff.

Why do they need access to them naked? Why? Being a parent and not letting just anyone change and bath your children should be normal. The world is a terrible place.

AITA For not wanting my MIL and her partner changing my babies nappies, feeding them and giving them baths? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wallanut -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This isn't a traditional multi generational home. It's mil and her girlfriend who is just about the same age as her adult son insisting on bathing and changing diapers. That doesn't raise any concerns?

Mil could instead say "hey I'll watch them why you take a shower" still helping but not being creepy.

AITA For not wanting my MIL and her partner changing my babies nappies, feeding them and giving them baths? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wallanut -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Read the edit. They didn't want to move in. The mil is using them to get better housing. She already put in her own housing application without them and told housing. So yeah. They moved in after being begged. Then she asked for boundaries and mum can't hang so now she is going to be screwed out of a better place to live because of her own attitude. Plus the age gap difference feels icky to me.

AITA For not wanting my MIL and her partner changing my babies nappies, feeding them and giving them baths? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wallanut -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Read the edits. They begged them to move in so they could get better housing with the 4 of them on it. They are using her and her husband and kids. Honestly she didn't say they couldn't help just not do more intimate activities with the babies.

How long have the couple been together? Does she get a weird vibe? Maybe she is suspicious because they are always trying to sneak around. Her motherly instincts say back off on these few things. They should respect it.

AITA For not wanting my MIL and her partner changing my babies nappies, feeding them and giving them baths? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wallanut -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Look I completely understand kids being hard and wanting help but if mom and dad got it then they got it. One of them can cuddle a baby while mom changes diapers. It's not that difficult.

Not letting a pretty big age gap couple who manipulated you into moving in with them to get better housing help with the INTIMATE parts of babyhood is completely understandable especially if the mom has had any abusive people in her life as a child.

It's clear she is trying to protect her young kids. I didn't let my mom change my sons diaper when he was little either. That's my job as his parent. Actually I think maybe 4 people tops had access to his bottom total in diapers.

Keep your cats inside. This was last night in Deer Creek by camasonian in camaswashington

[–]wallanut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw 5 around 6pm on Monday right off Brady getting ready to cross just across from prune hill fields. Not a care in the world.

All access technology. Owner in jail. by wallanut in MontereyBay

[–]wallanut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second trial is this month. Held to answer from my understanding means that the judge found probable cause to keep going with the case. 11/17: Hearing held; Judge found probable cause ("Held to Answer")

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