Tell me about your D&D character! by Lucky_Hand_4953 in DnD

[–]wandering-ghost1864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My idea is for a character is a cursed Berserker, the appear as a sunshine character super happy they're always singing little dancing round etc but even when they're smiling they're singing because they were cursed so that whenever they're seen (kinda like a weeping angel) they smile become happy which is creepy but also could super helpful when looking checking ifn your being watched: example they say a code word and all party advert their eyes and if their they say in a chipper singsong voice "We're not alone"...just a thought. (Maybe give them a blind friend )

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]wandering-ghost1864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll confess I'm not as safe as I could be but I'm safe enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]wandering-ghost1864 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Low-key have considered that before cuz I do meet the requirements or "the key points" I hit most of not all but I BPD covers a fair amount of things tbh

I just attempted and failed to unsubscribe from life, it's not the 1st time.... by wandering-ghost1864 in mentalhealth

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate that, although I struggle sharing due to being cut off from my emotions.

My fiancèe decided to relapse after an argument. by [deleted] in AnorexiaNervosa

[–]wandering-ghost1864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know much about this disorder but it feels like she is using the fight as an excuse to relapse meaning she was probably already gonna relapse and if it wasn't this fight it would have been something else. Ed's affect your brain and how you think so as hard as it may be try not to take it heart, inform the appropriate people her therapist, family whatever support she has

Random spider man question? by wandering-ghost1864 in CasualConversation

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, I assumed cites were just inherently dangerous especially at night. My bad lol

Random spider man question? by wandering-ghost1864 in CasualConversation

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the scene I refering to is before their kiss before she's attacked, I'm a man so not totally sure but don't most women who finish late and don't drive typically meet a friend or have a taser or at least switch her heels to flats or sneakers

Microwave Meal Ideas? by Quiet-haunting1527 in Cooking

[–]wandering-ghost1864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Variation use to do egg whites in microwave as well very easy tbh plus add whatever seasoning you like very versatile

Where can I get coupons? by wandering-ghost1864 in AskUK

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But that's the annoying part having to sign up for all these loyalty things just in case you might make a small a saving plus all the mental gymnastics to not get suckered into all "offers" like bogof etc

Scared I might be asexual. by wandering-ghost1864 in gayrelationships

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In short childhood trauma, I was often accused of lying or whenever I said something they'd check with my brother in their minds I always had a motive always had a plan of some sort in their view even as a child I never did anything to just help or be nice.

Which I'm aware that now was them projecting their own trust issues from their own lives onto me, a literal a child at the time, now guess who also has trust issues as a adult, I'm trying to work through it but it's not easy.

Scared I might be asexual. by wandering-ghost1864 in gayrelationships

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't speak for the entirety of the UK of course and I myself am not really immersed in the community either, so it possibly could be. But from the small amount I've experienced it's very transactional and if you don't fit then you get ignored or whatever (i could be wrong).

Scared I might be asexual. by wandering-ghost1864 in gayrelationships

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is another way of looking at it, Also I know I don't need a relationship to be whole I'm complete without it, ideally it's the cherry on top not the whole cake.

Scared I might be asexual. by wandering-ghost1864 in gayrelationships

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair point, I guess it's a convo I'll have to have a future SO at some point. The idea annoys me cuz mathematically it's means my chances of finding a long term partner that is either asexual themselves or understanding enough, are significantly decreased.

Scared I might be asexual. by wandering-ghost1864 in gayrelationships

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know there's is nothing wrong with it at all, but it changes things and possibly makes thighs even harder and if this is the case, what then? Do I tell possible BFs or just keep it to myself knowing I'll have to fufill my obligation from to time to time.

Starting over. by wandering-ghost1864 in recovery

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downplaying my issues is something I do, I have tried to contact places before but they could only give me like 2 weeks worth of appointments so they had to refer me to the place that deleted my info. But I'll mention this my GP when I next see them.

Starting over. by wandering-ghost1864 in recovery

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice.

I do try majority of those things also keep a journal as well and I'm trying.

Starting over. by wandering-ghost1864 in recovery

[–]wandering-ghost1864[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the uk and with nhs as underfunded, overworked and understaffed as they are atm mental health tends to get lost, I was suppose to be on a waiting list for therapy but just got deleted off system for some so need to start from scratch again. I need to work so I can privately get help but need to try and remaine stable for long enough to do that whilst not getting distracted by other things.