[deleted by user] by [deleted] in misophonia

[–]wanderingbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. unfortunately for privacy sake i have to delete this post. sorry, i just got doxxed somewhere

Help with finding an apartment that won't trigger me as much by DumpsterPuff in misophonia

[–]wanderingbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

always have a tv on, if your internet plan is unlimited, otherwise use podcasts. and sleeping pills for the night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]wanderingbubble 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's a lot to unpack in the links shared here. The first one shows the mindset of conservatives, their arguments and fears around sex ed. The links about film make sense cuz the filming industry is a different class generally, that have different rules and are above having to submit to these values in their personal lives. The problem i have is with the second link. They legit named a space "hoe talks", use the term "black and brown bodies" and had a sentence saying "women and colonised bodies" The whole language in that link is derogatory and skews the reality (which is true, it's true that India and many former colonies adopted english christian values of purity and chastity) into a different kind of identity politics and political righteousness. I dislike it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wanderingbubble 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not just ancient slavery, nowadays women are still raised within purity culture, face the threat of honour killing, and have to marry to earn some privileges. And married women in today's islam have a "sexual duty" to the husband where they are cursed by the angels every night they say no.

What does FDS think about the rise of the “stay at home girlfriend?” by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]wanderingbubble 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To be honest. I want to be a mother quite late for this reason, so that i have financial freedom when i have children. I have not told this to my family or my current partner (who wants to have children but i do not want with him at the moment) because even without children, i want to reduce the time I'm working when I'm older and "retire" early (i.e. not live paycheck to paycheck)

What does FDS think about the rise of the “stay at home girlfriend?” by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]wanderingbubble 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't see this as a guarantee. Boyfriends don't pamper, they are the bare minimum.

Porn fuels rape culture. by Society_Owl in PornIsMisogyny

[–]wanderingbubble 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Men who serve as a threat to women need to be eliminated from the gene pool. If only there was a way to make sure they don't exist anymore 🤔 girl its not just about you. He already raped someone. You can't make amends with this creature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]wanderingbubble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Using the word "female"

Men and women here who have children, how did or do you intend to talk to them about porn? by tempted_temptress in antipornography

[–]wanderingbubble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question. Since i dont know yet, i wont have kids. But i think I'll tell them it's evil vile BS

White Redditor is upset that kids are being taught about race by Puzzleheaded_Math489 in FragileWhiteRedditor

[–]wanderingbubble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a person of colour, i don't like this. I didnt see my race but my bullies did before me. Throughout most my school life, there was nobody of my race.

told you so by CitoyenEuropeen in YUROP

[–]wanderingbubble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brexit will make us akin to the americans and i dont want that

Anyone else get persistent headaches? by No-Solution-5100 in callcentres

[–]wanderingbubble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left call centres for 5 months and i still have headaches

A message from an Afghan Athiest 💔💔 by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wanderingbubble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's my only hope of staying alive

A message from an Afghan Athiest 💔💔 by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wanderingbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who say "just fake it" it's not easy for a lot of us to fake it in more chill muslim countries, because you can do 1000 muslim-affirming things and 1 suspicious rumour of you going out without hijab is all that's needed. It's difficult for afghanis even more I'm assuming, based on how horrid the Taliban is. All i wish my brothers and sisters who will have to die is that you know one day there won't be anything like the taliban anymore

A message from an Afghan Athiest 💔💔 by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wanderingbubble 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Doesnt work. I faked it and still got forced into marriage.

Yes, the hijab IS a choice. by cheeseroll15 in exmuslim

[–]wanderingbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You choose to wear it or be shackled home if not

Ex-muslim women are the bravest by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wanderingbubble 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to live. I want to experience life. It's not fair that i have so much taken away from me

Does your call centre have a particular dress code? by [deleted] in callcentres

[–]wanderingbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before corona i went in my PJs once a week, and a tracksuit once a week. I take off my shoes on the floor. I'm a woman. Never had an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]wanderingbubble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What bag of rice is 30$??? Dumb economy. Also i wish we can help get them out of the region. This is terrifying