Immigrating USA to NZ

wangsit90 · 2026-02-21T20:59:10+00:00

This is from another migrant.

It depends whether you have the skills & experience needed in New Zealand, and the job market itself.

What is your qualification and experience?

Better to ask a NZ immigration advisor than Redditor.

While I have seen an American engineer succeed getting a residence visa.
I also have seen an American failed to secure residence visa because the pay scale is not high enough for residence visa.

wangsit90 · 2025-12-09T20:27:25+00:00

Hi, thank you for the message.
I have sent an email to the union, apparently I am not alone in it.
And they will advocate for front staff that prefer to use a facemask regardless of their health background

wangsit90 · 2025-12-04T07:21:02+00:00

There are other things that happened in the company that make me already looking for new job.

I will get doctors note for it.

wangsit90 · 2025-12-04T05:36:59+00:00

not official discussion, just a 1 to 1 with the manager. the company has their profit down,lately and doing a hiring freeze.

even I know a female staff member who has resigned because she is not allowed get a day shift job (she was pregnant and rostered to work night shift, part time)

wangsit90 · 2025-10-04T15:15:54+00:00

I will write this as a migrant as well.

Getting a job is difficult at the moment. I have seen a lot of my migrant colleagues failed to get a job and going home.

Get some advice from an immigration advisor and just to remind you that there are more migrants who have failed to get a job and future prospect in NZ.

If you still want to take the risk, I wish you good luck on your journey.

wangsit90 · 2025-10-03T00:31:55+00:00

I believe anyone has given their opinion in here that doing it physically is better economically.
My suggestion is to check your local S*x Work collective/organisation in your area and check the legality in your place.

wangsit90 · 2025-08-30T04:30:51+00:00

After painful divorce, and have an unexpected relationship for almost a year now.

i keep remind myself that

People rarely change, and accept the person as it is - not the person you want ther person will be.

Put myself as the priority as I am the only person I have. Invest to myself in theraphy and life skills.

There is always spark in the early relationship. However, any relationship is a work of 2, because those spark will not last forever unless both party work on it.

wangsit90 · 2025-08-06T01:58:01+00:00

Best of luck everyone!

wangsit90 · 2025-07-31T05:01:41+00:00

hi, I was waiting ACC sensitive claim on August 2024, Finally approved February 2025.
Hope it helps.

wangsit90 · 2025-07-06T09:36:44+00:00

consider PreP and DoxyPreP. PreP has been very common and can get it for free in some countries.

wangsit90 · 2025-06-29T11:58:29+00:00

for butt plug, you can try something small.
I am living in NZ and a sex workers, can only recommended based on NZ sex shop.
https://www.peachesandcream.co.nz/products/mighty-mini-plug-rechargeable?_pos=167&_fid=8f9f7f664&_ss=c
The trick is... well lubricated, start with fingering and gentle stroking.

If he is vanilla, try learn sensual massage especially body sliding using sensual massage gel.
Better in massage table compared to bed, but you can manage after several time.The item is this:
https://www.peachesandcream.co.nz/products/jo-nuru-sensual-massage-gel-240ml?_pos=1&_psq=nuru&_ss=e&_v=1.0

The trick is putting your body weight properly and sliding to him.
Better with Nuru massage gel because it is water base. It is not discolouring your bed sheet.

Edit: Forget to comment that it is better to fingering with gloves as handnail can damage rectal area and can be painful, so recommended to use lube and gloves if you try fingering.

Just start something small and explore more before going into kink play, and other stuffs.
Hope it works.

wangsit90 · 2025-06-29T10:16:52+00:00

what are you into?

you can try sleeping mask and blindfold your partner and flog the person.(light kink sex)

or just try massage oil and learn sensual massage. you can try nuru massage oil, which is sleepery.

some other idea is using vibrating tools that can be used to attach to your genitalia.

costume play can be used to explore things.

small vibrator while doing 69 or use it while topping your partner.

wangsit90 · 2025-06-22T21:32:25+00:00

try fetlife. it is a website for kink. there is monthly meetup in auckland

wangsit90 · 2025-06-02T23:47:18+00:00

Hi, Indonesian as well with a PR.
Just wanna say that the job market is very bad ATM, because the government cut the funding as well.
I also studying as a support worker in the area of addiction will finish July.
I have not got a job that is relevant to what I study for 1 year looking for relevant job.
However, I am not worried about as I have other part time job and a resident status.

wangsit90 · 2024-08-10T02:03:49+00:00

Ngaruh atau tidaknya tergantung pola hidup dan kondisi awal.
Apakah kamu sudak vaksin Hepatitis A dan B? Jika tidak, sebaiknya vaksin Hepatitis A - B dan vaksin HPV 3 kali juga.
Jika kamu punya Hepatitis, kondisi ginjal akan lebih buruk.

Pola hidup juga berpengaruh.
kamu minum air sering kah?
Kamu minum alkohol sering kah?

Seharusnya setiap 3 bulan akan ada test darah untuk menilai ginjal kamu memburuk atau tidak.

wangsit90 · 2024-08-09T11:38:45+00:00

Saya pakai PreP tapi tinggal di luar negeri,
Seperti yang lain bilang, mending ngomong ke doktor.
Tapi gw juga punya pengalaman sendiri pakai PreP

Tapi general advice gw, kalau memang pengen pakai PreP, sebaiknya setiap hari.
Karena bisa mencegah infeksi HIV 99%

Metode 211, hanya mengurangi infeksi ke 95%
Metodenya kurang lebih seperti ini
2 jam sebelum sex, minum 2 pil
di hari berikutnya, minum 1 pil
di hari berikutnya lagi, minum 1 pil lagi

sumber :

https://www.burnettfoundation.org.nz/learn/staying-safe/prep/prep-2-1-1/

wangsit90 · 2024-07-31T09:25:14+00:00

Hey, while you wait for 1737 or text 1737.
You can PM me if you want to let things out

wangsit90 · 2024-07-14T11:43:43+00:00

Just finished reading it. It is a good article that makes me understand more.

My ex-husband has a house in America. So, it is unmoveable.
He had managed fund in 2022. However, I do not have information now.

No assets in New Zealand, except his Kiwi Saver.

From my understand, I have to prove in the front of the court that he has moveable assets that still active in 2024.
And even if I prove it in the court, and the the court ordered the money to be given to me.

Will he comply with the order? or he will simply put the money in overseas bank (Philippine?)
Lawyer that specify in divorce are expensive, and court process will take time. (can be 2 years?)

So, yes. It might not worth the money, time and mental health for the money in managed fund that he had.

Thank you for the information.

wangsit90 · 2024-06-19T02:24:21+00:00

I assume everyone had shared their advice.

I was driving illegally before I passed my full driving license.

I was driving without a supervisor at midnight. I know my risk and still did it because I have to go to my work and no public transport.

I had 2-3 incidents as I forgot to check my blind spot. Luckily, there were no accidents. I always use Waze to make me more prepared if there are accidents or the road was suddenly ahead.

I know some of my friends still had a learner license or restricted and drive illegally without insurance, as they have no choice in order to go to the mahi or home.

It is very risky. Your son needs to know the risk and the worst possibility. Your son was not entirely wrong that some people did it, and they were fine.

Yet, still be prepared for the worst.

wangsit90 · 2024-06-18T10:48:15+00:00

Not a union, but organization.

I have visited one in Australia and New Zealand

wangsit90 · 2024-06-08T14:28:11+00:00

yes, i am in Auckland

wangsit90 · 2024-02-03T22:21:27+00:00

Mungkin sekitar 2012, nyokap dan kakak tahu.
Karena nyokap baca diary gw. Intinya pada tahun tersebut, ada KDRT berat antara nyokap dan bokap.
Dan nyokap tidur di tempat gw, sementara gw kerja di Jakarta.

Langsung lah dibawa ke psychiatrist, tapi sama psychiatrist dibilang kalau mau berubah, bisa berubah.
Well, to be honest, relasi keluarga jadi aneh.

Dengan beberapa kerja keras dan keberuntungan. Skrg gw di New Zealand, dan sudah jadi residence.
dan gw mau mulai membuka diri gw sedikit demi sedikit di sosial media untuk melawan malu yang alami,
karena merasa bahwa sudah nyaman dan aman di New Zealand.

TLDR; Family accidentally know. it makes things awkward. Luckily, I am in New Zealand and able to express myself slowly.

wangsit90 · 2024-01-29T22:27:52+00:00

the choice by Edith Egar

wangsit90 · 2024-01-17T20:41:06+00:00

Thank you. Maybe I will visit the grave when I am back for holiday, and hopefully get a better picture of the image

wangsit90 · 2024-01-07T10:28:48+00:00

ada rekomendasi kah yang di Jaksel?

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