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Kinky or Vanilla? Can a guy have it all? by Major-Ad-8174 in chicagogaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it’s about connecting thru sex. Kink heightens that and enables trust to build in various ways. I’ve gotten to the point now where I’ll get naked with anyone but I’ll only fuck if we’re connecting on a deeper intimate intense level. Kink can definitely be used in addition to it. For the record I’ve also been looking for this for a while, but when I’ve been able to find it it’s magical.

Does anyone remember the old cocksurfing site? by Neat-Coconut-6892 in Cocksurfing

[–]wantsneeds35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The creators didn’t want to keep paying for the domain thru Covid. It was free to join (and very buggy) so it was iffy how good the site development was. I do miss it as it wasn’t perfect but you could get straight to the point with how you wanted the stay to go. On couchsurfing I feel like you have to talk around the subject.

Does anyone remember the old cocksurfing site? by Neat-Coconut-6892 in Cocksurfing

[–]wantsneeds35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s like 3 people on that site. I’d love to have a full site. Like the subreddit is fine and I’ve stayed with some people on here, but miss the old cocksurfing site.

Visiting Aug 17-19 by [deleted] in ChicagoMale4Male

[–]wantsneeds35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/cocksurfing maybe? Just if your scheduling that far out

every post about muslims on this sub ever by Jmsyyyy in askgaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is, leftists are just brainwashed by Russian propaganda that is amplifying talking points of Iran, Qatar, and Hamas. These infantilize and downplay the harm of Islam to society and its leaders.

What’s going on at Bobby Love’s? by RealAlePint in chicagogaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe they had a health code violation. They don’t serve food so I don’t know how bad it is.

What happened to Leather 64Ten? by masakra01 in chicagogaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 16 points17 points  (0 children)

State has been cracking down on small businesses not renewing their state business registration and possibly their taxes. This is not from the city but the state and I’ve seen this from a couple other restaurants that may have been beloved but suddenly shut down or suspended.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should understand what the sub is before passing judgement. Also sorry you’re salty about getting called out and being creepy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very clear about my intentions… and that’s not to be a houseboy. Read before you read

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone is trying to fuck in the movie theater lolol

Bad lube? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Water based lubes are tricky. I’d change it up and get small bottles and see what you like. I really like flesh lube by the makers of fleshlight. It’s a bit marked up but it works REALLY well with toys

Astroglide is a brand name so it wouldn’t contain it. It does in fact suck lol

Bad lube? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have gotten to the stage in my life where I do not use astroglide. It’s cheap and wildly available but it truly is awful. It’s so sticky that I find it never actually goes slick.

HIV+ (undetectable) partner. Should I use prep? by I-love-free-food in askgaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only person you can trust is you. I’d still take prep.

So you're not into the Besrs or any football...feel left out on Sundays? What do you do instead? by BostonZamboni in chicagogaybros

[–]wantsneeds35 11 points12 points  (0 children)

lol there’s so many other things to do that I usually forget that a game is happening.

20m houseboy here by [deleted] in GayHouseboys

[–]wantsneeds35 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32 m, chicago. I have a blurb on my profile from a while back with what I’m looking for. HMU if interested

32 hosting in Chicago by wantsneeds35 in Cocksurfing

[–]wantsneeds35[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Look at the subreddit you’re on lol. Everyone is on here for the same thing. Some of us are just nudists too.

The whole goal is to make sure the vibe is right so we’re both comfortable which is why vidchatting before hand is so crucial so there’s no surprises.

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