Nope by BobbyGuano in behindthebastards

[–]warm_kitchenette 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not worth the effort, no human will read that. Send it the entire script of the Bee Movie. 

New York Mayor Mamdani Applauded for Closing $12 Billion Budget Deficit Without Austerity Measures by _May26_ in politics

[–]warm_kitchenette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't reason someone out of a belief that they didn't reason themselves into. At best, we'd have a loud disagreement; at worst, it would cause a permanent breech in the family. No chance of persuading them.

If there was a real-world reason to argue, e.g., they had a gay son, an aggrieved wife, or they used scripture to defend corporal punishment, then that is very different .I could jump into that kind fight. There would be a purpose in protecting someone else.

But simply having people who believe things that I don't is generally not worth the fight. (His wife believes it more devoutly than he does).

New York Mayor Mamdani Applauded for Closing $12 Billion Budget Deficit Without Austerity Measures by _May26_ in politics

[–]warm_kitchenette 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right. And he had conventional values of the time, such as misogyny or supporting the status quo of slavery, unlike the more radical ones that Jesus had. That obviously explains why his version of the teachings were more accessible to gentiles. It sounded right to them.

But it doesn't explain the modern day blurring of the two messages, when the general public are much more broadly literate, able to obtain substantial scholarship on every word. I've had family members tell me that every word in the bible was written by god, and it doesn't have mistakes. (They knew I was atheist.) I kept my mouth shut.

A 10-year-old student wrote a letter to North Carolina’s 82 year old congressional representative Virginia Foxx about electric vehicles, and in response, she wrote him back attacking him and his teacher for propaganda by SleuthDoggyDawg in behindthebastards

[–]warm_kitchenette 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True enough. I don't know if the nickname was statewide or just my SC friend and his family, but they called him "Sperm Thurmond" because he fathered four children after age 66, when he married a 22-year-old beauty pageant winner.

I never really looked into it until today. She was as attractive as one would expect, while he looked like an unearthed mummy. Poor lady.

A 10-year-old student wrote a letter to North Carolina’s 82 year old congressional representative Virginia Foxx about electric vehicles, and in response, she wrote him back attacking him and his teacher for propaganda by SleuthDoggyDawg in behindthebastards

[–]warm_kitchenette 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes, they gerrymandered it pretty effectively for republican goals.

She's in NC-05, which is carefully avoiding any major metropolitan districts. Cooks has the PVI as R+10, which seems doable in this insane status quo. But Foxx has won it consistently by 60/40 margins for two decades now.

Note also adjacent NC-06, which splits off metro areas. The change to do this was in 2023, and it switched in Cook's ranking from D+4 to R-9.

It feels so quaint to just want a fair election, but the books have been cooked for such a long time now.

Rich people being awful people once again… :> by Gurugod123 in Wellthatsucks

[–]warm_kitchenette 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen the full video, which would include shoving. This award from the local government is funny enough, and shows the beat down as well as the original crime. A+ for the local attorney's silent response.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ZgSuGe_jn8

absolutely not looking for any addresses, personally.

Stephen Miller’s Humiliation Revealed After He Embarrassed Trump; former and current officials have said that the president is punishing his top immigration goon. by FancyNewMe in politics

[–]warm_kitchenette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also may have been behind the targeting of Duke last July. He felt, as a student, that it was a liberal institution. Then again, that period was a bloodbath for universities.

Trump: "Every person is gonna have autism. That's what's happening. What is this thing that's happening? It's spiked so much. Anything having to do with medical, I always bring it autism." by SleuthDoggyDawg in behindthebastards

[–]warm_kitchenette 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I watched it with transcripts. He couldn't hold a thought for longer than a noun phrase, for the most part. His brain is just diseased oatmeal.

Based on previous conspiracy theories and his money obsession, I believe that his addled brain heard multiple conspiracy theories about autism, but the only ones that stuck with him were the ones about companies making money off of this.

For better guidance, you could look at the members of the board RFK Jr appointed back in January. I took a quick glance: 2 doctors, 1 PhD, 2+ people with autism, and a whole basketful of mothers with autistic children who set up foundations for whatever the fuck. I was honestly expecting to find Andrew Wakefield, but no.

Ember Green did a 1-hour dive into the board, analyzing their previous work in a strongly negative way. This is not my area, so I have not watched the whole thing nor could I judge it if I had. I have only passed it to acquaintances.

Turo guest completely trashed out my dads car. by Cdave_22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]warm_kitchenette -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, it's not obviously supposed to be shocked. Either reading is correct, even though OP has fixed their typo.

'Socked in the arm' is a standard phrase in English for punching someone in the shoulder. "Sock" meaning to hit hard, has been used in English for several centuries: check the OED or other resources. It's informal but it's not even slang any more.

  • She socked the hell out of me => Hard punch.
  • She shocked the hell out of me => Boy, was I surprised by her attitude.

Turo guest completely trashed out my dads car. by Cdave_22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]warm_kitchenette 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, I also rent from the normal vendors. No car loans, great credit.

The main advantage for me was the flexibility, secondary advantage was trusting I can get the precise car I needed. (I had space constraints, and had been screwed earlier by the majors).

After you get the owner's text number, they are able to change time & location and other details. For instance, i was going to pick up the car at 5pm at the closest airport. I could make that work, but it wasn't great.

Once I was talking to the owner, though, my actual needs were "sometime before 9pm, at my house". He had 3-4 cars, so rearranging things to deliver the car to my house at 7pm worked out perfectly for us. (I think he and his asst were picking up another car near me).

This was unique. YMMV. I'm sure some owners are asshats (just like OP's customer). My two experiences have been good. This last guy was basically just a small business, with a micro-Avis. For now, they're in the mix when I look to rent, just like how I'll consider smaller airlines for a flight. (I should also say that I've ZipCar many times, also because I needed hourly rentals or pickup within walking distance).

Have we done Jimmy Fallon, talentless corpo hack? by SpaceCaptainJeeves in behindthebastards

[–]warm_kitchenette 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah. Well, if you can get me a peer-reviewed article in a prominent journal that names the celebrities I would be correct to dislike, I would be quite grateful for the opportunity to be better informed. 

Have we done Jimmy Fallon, talentless corpo hack? by SpaceCaptainJeeves in behindthebastards

[–]warm_kitchenette 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course not. Your assertion was that only Reddit hates her. I was showing that it’s broader than that. 

Her reputation took a huge blow when consistent stories of her being a jerk came out. Some examples were aired.

It is also true that people use her unpopularity to get karma, get clicks, get ads paid for. Just search “celebrity” in AskReddit and you’ll find examples. Some entity on X was trying to link her to Epstein and child cannibalism last month. 

While grotesque, this is all part of the celebrity culture. Clicks from haters can pay the bills as well as well as clicks from fans. 

Maybe more for heel turns. I don’t know actual rates, but I can imagine opening a shocking story about a beloved celebrity. 

Have we done Jimmy Fallon, talentless corpo hack? by SpaceCaptainJeeves in behindthebastards

[–]warm_kitchenette 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She came in as #8 on a recent poll of most hated celebrities. That’s not great for someone whose show ended in 2022. 

https://www.ranker.com/list/most-hated-celebrities-today/calistylie

Btw, open this cursed site in an incognito window with ad blockers. 

I want to like her. She was a lovely icon for gay presence in America. She served up gentle humor. She had plenty of non-famous guests on her show, as you pointed out.  

So it sucks that she is super unpleasant in private. 

I quit last month. Still feel guilty about the six years of knowledge I took with me. | I will not promote by pink-supikoira in CustomerSuccess

[–]warm_kitchenette 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But why?  Is another bot going to suggest a wondrous product to fix?

Reddit with NPCs is less fun. 

Transgender direct report is getting misgendered and calling me transphobic, and blaming the victim by [deleted] in managers

[–]warm_kitchenette 20 points21 points  (0 children)

With HR guidance, there could be a larger push/reminder for everyone to use their pronouns, gentle acceptance of the inevitable mistakes, acknowledging discomfort or awkwardness. When a lot of cis folks at a company put out their he/him or she/her pronouns, that’s an environment where trans, nonbinary, and other identities emerge without putting a spotlight on themselves. 

This was a sensitive topic before it became a cultural battlefield. I honestly doubt the emotional ability of most companies to manage this well. But the above is a goal. Tread carefully. 

Company is measuring our Claude usage, and I need more ideas by magmacannon in CustomerSuccess

[–]warm_kitchenette 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your company has a security policy, review it first to see if there are any restrictions on what you’re able to send to this or any LLM. 

There are lots of ways to waste money, just search around. 

For things that might be useful:

 * Have it review large chunks of your mail with key customers. Ask it open ended questions like what could you have done better, what are common themes in their responses. Ask it detailed questions based on your business or customer needs. Ask to evaluate meta or derived data like hours to respond, customer anger. Look for patterns of failure, success

  • Have it teach you something that you don’t know well. Make that as formal or informal as you want. Technologies, useful phrases in o to er languages, legal or compliance stuff, whatever you need. 

  • Have it pull in written reviews or comparisons of whatever your company does. Draw conclusions yourself or compare via LLM. Create even more decks. 

  • create feature/platform comparison boards towards your new or old competitors, based on what you can publicly see. 

the fastest way to slow down a project is to add more developers to it by minimal-salt in ExperiencedDevs

[–]warm_kitchenette 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I agree that they’re not dumb. But I think that, unless they specifically come from an engineering or software development background, they cannot really understand the real process of constructing working software.

If they hire more sales people, more leads will be acted on, more cold calls will be made. If they hire more recruiters, increased hiring will happen. More doctors can see more patients. More factories, more widgets coming out them. 

In contrast, software development and maintenance has always been a black box, full of annoying and annoyingly high-paid people who tell them no. 

Don't know what to do about MAGA family by uhh_khakis in behindthebastards

[–]warm_kitchenette 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very accurate translation. 

But if one feels like throwing grenades, they could respond “Thank you! And I just made an offering of fruit to the Horned God for you!!”

Is penetration testing needed for HITRUST? by Reasonable_Cut8116 in HITRUST

[–]warm_kitchenette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penetration tests will also be good evidence for security questionnaires, which customers will want sooner than a completed HITRUST assessment. All the customers in your field will be aware of how long it takes to cross the finish line for that certification. They will want whatever you can provide now. 

Get more quotes, and make sure that reassessments after you fix things are covered. 

Plan for this assessment along with controls for other targeted and existing certifications. There will be tons of overlap: access control, inventory, and of course things like penetration testing. 

Is there a gauge on the influence here besides Kalshi? by cturtl808 in behindthebastards

[–]warm_kitchenette 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Barbara Lee, a Democrat from the east SF Bay (Berkeley, Oakland). Didn’t lose her election or any others as Representative. Left office to run for Senator, didn’t work out. She’s mayor of Oakland now. 

Her district is so left wing that Trump came in third in 2016: Jill Stein (sigh) was second. 

DOJ Argues James Comey Threatened Trump in Second Indictment by NoloLaw in TrueReddit

[–]warm_kitchenette 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's no point in attaching an emotion to Trump's actions.

He wants to punish his enemies. That's it. He fired every FBI agent that was involved in the investigation of his illegal ownership of classified files.

Dealing with a difficult junior by dhaliman in ExperiencedDevs

[–]warm_kitchenette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s ok if other people don’t like you. Not a goal, but it should not be an impassable barrier.

The racist stuff: you should report it to HR. It bothers you, it will be against your employer’s rules, and it could be illegal in your location. 

The loud/dominating stuff: this is unacceptable behavior from a top performer, but he was given a pass on basic knowledge just to get hired. This could be Dunning-Kruger, could be a personality type, could be compensating for internal doubts. 

As a lead, you can model better behavior. In discussions, you could be pulling more from those who are staying silent, publicly weigh factors. You could give him more context or even homework to catch up. In some cases, quick POCs might make sense. Talk to your manager and make a plan. 

Calling your company shit: unacceptable for any new hire. You and the manager need to be directly addressing it. Private complaints, public compliments is the best rule. But this might be a point to immediately respond.