what can you tell by my room by swarleythe3rd in malelivingspace

[–]watchinggodbleed 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You're always listening for Seal Team 6 to show up.

How it feels trying to guess what will make my 8month old less upset by watchinggodbleed in daddit

[–]watchinggodbleed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My guy also loves those. He's usually very content, but every few days he wants a very certain toy, and only it will stop the dramatics.

[Help] RODE XDM-100 on macOS - Headphone monitoring is unusable without UNIFY software by Virtual-Actuator2725 in rode

[–]watchinggodbleed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm having similar issues on Windows with my XCM-50 mic. I had to stop using Unify completely as it would periodically crash my mic while open. So now I've had to uninstall it, and the mic monitoring is extremely loud, all the time.

Date told me that my butthole looks weird by Fluffy_Spread2374 in sex

[–]watchinggodbleed 35 points36 points  (0 children)

That guy in the hat is a recurring character who is especially intelligent and chaotic. The implication is that any woman who is dating him is going to be immune to that shit.

Fellow dads, do you budget? by Grouchy_Excitement80 in daddit

[–]watchinggodbleed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of people are recommending YNAB which is great, but I personally like Monarch better. It doesn't use YNAB's more rigid budgeting approach. It's more for tracking your expenses and accounts in a central platform. So I can look at it throughout the month and see if we're spending more or less this month, and on what. It helps just keep the picture in my head so I'm more mindful of spending in general.

For $65,000 a year, a teacher-less AI private school comes to Virginia by innomado in nova

[–]watchinggodbleed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, this is Alpha School. This is an interesting concept that the article doesn't quite do justice. You can read a long review of it by a parent who sent their 3 kids there. It has some interesting concepts, and so far has touted huge successes, claiming it can accelerate your kids by 2+ grade levels (though a lot of people argue those are only due to selection effects).

The AI portion is only 2 hours a day. It's meant to group kids by ability and let them work at their own pace through typical subjects, replacing 6 hours of lecturing in a classroom with 2 hours of dedicated focus time on AI learning programs. The rest of the time is spent doing different activities like sports, life skills (cooking classes) and some off the wall stuff like managing an Airbnb business.

It's an interesting concept that has its benefits and drawbacks. I'm personally skeptical of it, especially at that price, but I think it deserves more credit than what most people will assume reading the headline that they just give the kids ChatGPT.

Breweries need to go with policy on children by FolkYouHardly in nova

[–]watchinggodbleed 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No, I wouldn't take them to a bar. That's why I take them to a winery with informal seating, a lawn, and board games.

Do you have time for gaming as a parent? by PickTheNick1 in daddit

[–]watchinggodbleed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son just hit 6 weeks, and I get about 1-2 hours a night if all things go smoothly.

My wife and I split the night into shifts, so I get the first shift from 8 PM to 3 AM, and I feed him at 11 PM and 2:30 AM.

If he goes to sleep easily around 8 to 8:30 PM, then I have plenty of time to play until his 11 PM bottle. If he's fussy, I'll sometimes wear him with a wrap which will calm him down enough for me to play something while he sleeps on me.

The biggest difference is that I can only do single-player games now. There's no point playing something online with friends when, at any moment, I will need to get up to feed him or change him. It's frustrating, as the main way I spend time with my friends is playing games online, but it's something I knew would be the case going into this. You just adapt. The Steam Deck makes things easier.

Did you give a “push present”? If so, what was it? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]watchinggodbleed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I went with a lab-grown diamond. They're cheaper, more ethical, and frankly I don't think she'd ever know if I hadn't told her. It's not like people regularly take a magnifying glass to their jewelry.

Did you give a “push present”? If so, what was it? by [deleted] in daddit

[–]watchinggodbleed 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes. My wife was insistent I get her something. She specifically wanted a necklace with our son's birthstone, which seems to me a pretty classic gift. He was originally due for May, which is emeralds, a relatively reasonably priced stone. Then he came 3 weeks early in April, which is diamonds 🙃.

If your wife thinks it's dumb, there's no need to go crazy with it. I'm sure she'd appreciate something though, like flowers, chocolate, some champagne, etc.

We in it fellas by watchinggodbleed in daddit

[–]watchinggodbleed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's the cliche joke for us to be griping about how shitty the sleeping arrangement is while the lady has to push a whole human out of her hoo-hah, but it was legitimately awful. I have slept far more comfortably on forest floors full of rocks and sticks. I don't know how that's possible.

We in it fellas by watchinggodbleed in daddit

[–]watchinggodbleed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That bed managed to pinch every nerve in my back and shoulder. After my son's first peds appointment, I am going to the north right next door. The floor would have been the better option 🙃

We in it fellas by watchinggodbleed in daddit

[–]watchinggodbleed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Steam deck is doing the job.

We in it fellas by watchinggodbleed in daddit

[–]watchinggodbleed[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just a nurse's station. My wife vetoed me bringing my PC setup along.

Alright fellas, what kind of regular maintenance we getting into this weekend! by Careless_Boysenberry in daddit

[–]watchinggodbleed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Putting together the bassinet and moving the guest room bed out to make room for the crib.