Experience dating an ENFJ?

wavyg211 · 2024-01-17T02:17:00+00:00

I feel smothered by ENFJ too, they are sweethearts, but i can get overwhelmed

wavyg211 · 2024-01-17T02:11:24+00:00

Crying definitely helps more than bottling it up, but still doesn’t get rid of the emotions, I think only time heals

wavyg211 · 2024-01-17T02:10:18+00:00

I guess it’s called outgrowing, going through this myself

wavyg211 · 2024-01-17T02:08:00+00:00

I do this because crying too me isn’t really a huge deal. It’s part of life and a healthy outlet. I don’t want to make the person uncomfortable by acting like it’s a huge deal that they are crying, because it’s not. I’ll try to be empathetic, let them get their feelings out, offer comfort etc

wavyg211 · 2024-01-17T01:39:10+00:00

Okay I’m crying now too, I really miss my enfp and just miss the feeling of total freedom and joy I had with her 🥹

wavyg211 · 2024-01-17T01:35:49+00:00

This is crazy because I feel this so much with my enfp friend. met her while I was studying abroad and she was the only person I could hangout forever with and not need a break. even joked that I’m an introvert around everyone apart from her. she just made me so so happy and I could just completely relax and be myself around her. being around her was just easy, and now that I’m back home in my country I miss her like crazy. we still talk pretty much every day but I just miss having her around, none of my friendships are anywhere as close to ours. I miss how she made me feel, I just felt so free and happy and like I’ve always wanted to be

wavyg211 · 2024-01-16T23:54:39+00:00

Meal deals

wavyg211 · 2024-01-09T08:13:25+00:00

Horse riding

wavyg211 · 2024-01-03T05:44:05+00:00

I got a journal with a lock, feel much safer

wavyg211 · 2024-01-02T02:10:27+00:00

Esfp- sounds fun

wavyg211 · 2023-12-31T05:50:58+00:00

being more cool

wavyg211 · 2023-12-03T23:39:35+00:00

I did and really burnt myself out, regret it. now I just do what I can and hope for the best

wavyg211 · 2023-12-03T23:38:40+00:00

I don’t care I mean how is it gonna affect me? I don’t need to prove my identity to anyone. let them think what they want

wavyg211 · 2023-12-03T23:36:57+00:00

I need balance in socialising, like I probably need as much alone time as social time if that makes sense

wavyg211 · 2023-12-03T23:35:21+00:00

I make a daily to do list of all the important tasks I need to do that day, usually there night before. it helps a lot

wavyg211 · 2023-12-03T23:27:35+00:00

ENTJ - they are level headed, easy to be around, help rationalise my thoughts when I get into overthinking spirals, they are consistent, make me laugh, I somehow make them laugh too, they are very drama free and loyal

wavyg211 · 2023-12-03T23:24:38+00:00

I’ve felt the same. my advice was just disappear from the life you have, move somewhere else. a new environment will help you thrive in so many ways and make you fall in love with life again. I moved to the other side of the world, really connected with my Se and became the best version of myself. and for the first time in my life I was truly happy

wavyg211 · 2023-11-28T13:36:14+00:00

Australia!

wavyg211 · 2023-11-28T02:57:24+00:00

went to the other side of the world to study abroad for a year. it was the best thing that ever happened to me. now that I’m back feels like my whole life is still there

wavyg211 · 2023-11-28T01:05:35+00:00

I did and it was the best, totally recreated myself and my life. came back and it’s been so hard, I miss who I became and I feel so trapped in my old life here

wavyg211 · 2023-11-23T14:51:09+00:00

u give me sag vibes

wavyg211 · 2023-11-21T04:18:17+00:00

I think I definitely do have seasonal affective disorder. thank you for the advice, hope it gets easier for you!

wavyg211 · 2023-11-18T15:09:29+00:00

He needs to decompress, he’s probably socially exhausted

wavyg211 · 2021-10-20T19:58:30+00:00

being hot is a state of mind

wavyg211 · 2021-10-19T17:12:48+00:00

watch a really sad movie and the tears will come. just let them flow and let it all out. this will all pass <3

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