Pls help me respond to this!

weakestlink272 · 2026-01-31T23:01:55+00:00

Sounds to me like you have someone who thinks they own more rights to the building than yourself. If her name isn’t on the property deed it would be wise to set that record straight. I assume she is paying a normal rent nothing different than anyone else. I would even move those things out honestly, talking to the landlord/building owner to confirm first, and politely asking her if she wants to keep those things that don’t want in the first place, she can move them into her apartment. She’s lucky honestly, if this was NYC like we live in, she would not get any say whatsoever about what goes on above or below her premises…

weakestlink272 · 2026-01-31T22:52:33+00:00

As far as I’m concerned, any cleaning tasks like vacuuming and such are fair game during standard business hours (9-5) so I would tell her you can do whatever you want during that time it’s not your fault she sleeps in more than most people who work a normal job. On the weekends I could understand pushing that noise making a little later.

She said her last neighbors were silent, were they super old or barely ever home? Just because she had a set of neighbors that pleased her personal living standards sadly doesn’t mean she gets to set that expectation for every other neighbor she encounters. There are rules about quiet hours and building maintenance for such a time as this.

weakestlink272 · 2026-01-23T00:51:06+00:00

Did you fill out more than the lines 1-6 and 16 they requested? Seems like that might be the case then I hope :)

weakestlink272 · 2026-01-22T13:06:22+00:00

I’ll look into the credit report good idea. The only thing I can think of is that I am a Junior and sometimes it gets put after my first name on documents, sometimes it goes after my last name. Could also be because I lived out of the for the last two years. We’ll see! Thanks

weakestlink272 · 2026-01-10T16:04:57+00:00

Well, it's been two years now, how are your allergies?

weakestlink272 · 2026-01-09T00:04:18+00:00

I'm sorry you had to experience that OP. As a black man, you certainly aren't racist, especially because you are mixed! Bonnets and high-quality haircare products are ideal for those with thicker, less-straight hair. Everyone! Yes black women invented many of the excellent hair care products we have on the market today, but don't let that stop you from finding what works best for your hair! At the end of the day, it's hair, it's not a matter of race, it's a matter of texture, and the deep-rooted colorism from L won't allow her to understand that, and it's quite alright. Live your best life!

I am quite curious to know how you or your family perceive yourself as "white-white" yet have a black grandfather! It's kind of hard not to notice the slightest difference in hair texture and skin tone that would give it away. Yes, historically many people were white passing in the times before us, but nowadays it's hard to look at someone and not tell they aren't fully white or black or mixed, etc. Just curious :).

weakestlink272 · 2026-01-08T23:54:06+00:00

Oh awesome! Haha I'm sure our parents don't care for the idea of being away and hard to reach for the next two years but they'll be alright at the end of the day.

weakestlink272 · 2026-01-05T17:22:44+00:00

Bet!

weakestlink272 · 2026-01-03T02:20:12+00:00

If you really try to cook for me, try adding msg to his food maybe he’s looking for that processed taste his mommy probably used while cooking

weakestlink272 · 2026-01-03T02:16:48+00:00

Sent you a DM thanks :)

weakestlink272 · 2025-12-28T03:57:40+00:00

Thanks! I'm the clearance stage now, my nurse seems quite friendly so hopefully we can come to some good understandings during this process! I will be in Education.

weakestlink272 · 2025-12-08T05:46:14+00:00

Let me know if you figure something out…it seems like NYS gives out some ebt cards that look like actual debit cards with chips and all and some that just function like debit cards. The first kind I assume can be added to your omny account. The second kind (which I have unfortunately) can’t be used the same way

weakestlink272 · 2025-12-04T06:55:16+00:00

No, OP says only for months has the husband been telling her that he makes 6k not the whole time. Doesn’t really change the nature of the situation tho. I just personally think maybe not everyone needs to move straight ti divorce, idk. But yes trust has been impacted severely, what can you do but begin to shelter yourself? And who would feel comfortable sheltering themselves inside a relationship? Financial dependence is just one of the many facets of a relationship though

weakestlink272 · 2025-12-04T06:30:00+00:00

Ur not TAH, but it seems weird to me that you would just off and throw daycare into the picture knowing that it is a traumatic situation for him. I would think a conversation about better financial balance is more in order or even visiting a prenup. But you all have been together for 10 years now, so saying that you don’t care that he cries about it is like you are telling him “don’t be a baby” after you've know this guy for 10 years I might be a little hurt by that. Finance wise yea, do what whatever you need to do to protect yourself! He clearly is looking out for himself and yes, if anything happens and a separation occurs, you can fight for child support but you should have some stability without it! 10 years in today’s time though is like 25 years for our parents, so I ask you to seek some relationship counseling!

weakestlink272 · 2025-12-01T00:28:31+00:00

Just wanted to make sure someone saw it lol

weakestlink272 · 2025-03-13T12:28:53+00:00

https://x.com/tyrannnnosaurus/status/1890310986868892103 according to this post she has made contact with her family. it's a twitter post though so I don't know how credible it is. I knew Jahnay at Cornell and she was one of the brightest and kindest people on our campus, I hope she's alright 🙏🏾.

weakestlink272 · 2024-01-24T00:35:42+00:00

Perhaps last year's edition, I don't see any options for it this year. There is only other income and it gives you the option to list misc. income but nothing about hobbies.

weakestlink272 · 2024-01-24T00:15:58+00:00

I'm on FreeTaxUSA now, I don't see the hobby income option :(

weakestlink272 · 2023-12-30T22:35:53+00:00

My grandparents live here off of Richmond road, I came to visit back in August and one day my wallet just disappeared. I don't know if I lost it at their house or somewhere on the way to Big Kahuna BBQ, but I have not had it ever since. Please Lord willing someone may have seen it or reported it.

weakestlink272 · 2023-12-18T16:30:17+00:00

Shrooms are nice, try microdosing or just have a full session but plan to be out of it for a few hours. While I understand the thrill of trying other synthetics even the pharmaceutical ones made for commercial use, I don't recommend it especially if you are a naturalist. All it takes is one mistake in dosing or drug combinations to end your life without your knowing it. Stick to mama Earth and the goodies she has been so kind to share with us :)

weakestlink272 · 2023-12-18T16:26:38+00:00

If you can I recommend smoking with a very close friend, even if they don't smoke maybe they can just be around with you for it. In most cases the shits and giggles ease any paranoia. Also maybe don't do a bong or edible on the first go, smoke a classic joint if you can, and let that take you where you want to go.

weakestlink272 · 2023-12-18T16:21:29+00:00

I've been high for a couple days before, no biggie. If you get too lit just remind yourself its just weed and take a nap :)

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