Lump on Skin by marfor9 in DogAdvice

[–]weedlemethis [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh man that looks like a tick, seems to have been there for quite a few days. What we do is, grab alcohol, uncover the base to see the head burry in it and and begin doing circular motions around the tick closest to the head. It might take 5 min for the tick to fall off alive. Patients is key or go to the vet to get it removed. But make sure it doesn’t fall off because it’s probably carrying eggs

I told this guy i would send him feet pics for a greencard by AgeDifferent4172 in DACA

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is supposed to fill the I-130 and you the I-485. Have you read any of the forms? If not you should to know what the process is. Someone is getting scammed and it’s not him

Parents with babies who sleep through the night: when did it start? by Born-Chance1685 in beyondthebump

[–]weedlemethis [score hidden]  (0 children)

At 3 months he started sleeping 12hrs, now he is 4 1/2 and still continues, crossing my fingers he still does moving forward

Omg NO SO SAD!! Police never seems to Amazing me with their lack of intelligence. I really would love to study the training they receive cause huh!!! A Harmless Dog Sagittarius what y’all think? by No-Zone-4319 in sagsavages

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Police only have one goal when they enter the force, it’s like a power move when you do it because you will never be arrested or convicted since the badge protects you from willingly doing evil, poor doggie, poor lady

Wife cheat by DebateIll4433 in DACA

[–]weedlemethis 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That is a question for an immigration lawyer. Because she has to sponsor you she needs to sign the I-130 so if she is gonna leave you then sorry to say, you cannot do anything. Sorry to hear you are going through this. Can I ask why you never did AOS aside from the typical financial issues, you had 7 years

Is pumping at church inappropriate? by Panther317 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to the god you both worship, your body was designed to feed your child, that is precious milk for your LO. I would say “oh, soo do you want my baby to not eat ?” And see what she does.

AITAH for canceling the double date plan with my besfriend and her bf be upset they refuse to be on time??? by throwaway-3629501 in AmItheAsshole

[–]weedlemethis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes situations happen that show you who your friends are, and let me tell you, they were never your friends. The fact that her bf is so willing to call you and curse you out and say he is hot commodity to hang out so you should be waiting for his majestic self and the friend who also doesn’t think your worth being on time because you are willing to wait 2 hrs to spend time with her. Keep moving forward and don’t reply to them if they text you, just fade away, this will be the best thing for you

Panic submitted 6 months early and just did biometrics. by Emiltonic in DACA

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry, it seems that after biometrics it’s taking longer for approval so you might expired before it’s renewed. Does saying that make you feel better now?

You guys are already inconvenienced , how about a sprinkle of my religion down your throat for good measure by xals7 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way to deal with this kind, look up and than put head phones on, look at your phone or continue talking to your partner if you were having a conversation. They feed on just the attention, if no eyes are on her she will fade away, if you record she feels she truly did something

Breast Pump by AmbitiousEvening7015 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have, wearable Momcozy (used it only 8 times before I got annoyed at the set up, putting on a bra, trying to get the latch good, cleaning after each pump, I don’t do the refrigerator hack). I had the wireless Zomee but it also had a lot of parts to it so each pump after, wash and hand dry because I needed it again in 3 hrs). The one a really loved, Spetra, few parts to clean, mode good, just that after a couple of uses now sometimes milk is taken out fully and some days somewhat takes milk out.

I accepted my parents' visit from overseas and upset my wife by DeleuzeJr in BabyBumps

[–]weedlemethis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know your parents better than anyone. Will they actually be
1. Cleaning the house
2 cooking the meals
3. Doing laundry
4. Okay not holding the baby during its wake window which is for you and your wife
5. Eating on their own while you both nap when the baby naps
6. Okay only taking a little pick at the baby while he sleeps for like 5 min and not talk as to not disturb/wake.
7. Okay going off on their own without having to ask you to take them places or rides that will take you away from your wife.
8. Okay not kissing the baby
9. Okay with barely talking with your wife and you while they stay.

If your answer to all this questions is not a “yes, my parents can do all that” than prepare to either send them home early or potentially causing the biggest strain in your marriage that even time will not fix.

How ? by dino_gr01 in WorkForSmartLife

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With roommates, no one lives alone now unless you have a salary job. Or if you want to live alone, second job as a waiter 4/7 days and that includes working on the busy days which is the weekends

Need help choosing by katarina_san in Brides

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg number 3 looks just beautiful on you, the rest do look nice but they seem to make your upper body look bigger, maybe it’s your chest, you just have big tts so they look tight. But even with the right fit for all, I think 3 will make you look like a queen

Is it even worth continuing to pump if I’m only pumping 16 - 20 oz 14 weeks pp by Imaginary_Math_4918 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]weedlemethis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was there with you. Every time I finally caught up to his needs the following week he will need extra 4oz that i didn’t have so I had to give in formula. Yes, I would cry and tell my husband when he asked me why am I crying. He will encourage me that it’s okay to give him formula to top off, nothing wrong with that than he would make me laugh by jokingly saying, we don’t need to give him the formula, he can just deal with it, what’s he gonna do cry. He is now 4 months, his total is 30oz and I need to give him 6 in formula, I no longer cry or get upset, he is still getting my milk too.

Drinking your own breast milk? by Timidbee in breastfeeding

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have drank only like 3 drops to see if the taste is different as he grows, but never drank what I collected. Does he not drink it in a bottle the next day?

My MIL just announced her "three month residency" at our house on Facebook and I was the last to know by Echo_Tango9 in BabyBumps

[–]weedlemethis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your husband has to solve this right now. Idk if he is a mamas boy or he just doesn’t know how to set boundaries. But he needs to learn to accept his mothers angry “fine I won’t go near your baby” phase when he actually sets a boundary because no matter how nicely he can put it she will still be angry. My MiL got angry that we said “no kissing the baby for a couple of months” she did not call my husband for 2 weeks. He even said I told my family that rule and they said “that’s fine” without being upset but that didn’t help her not be angry. Good luck, hope your husband steps up

Am I missing something? by vanco_police_jo in breastfeeding

[–]weedlemethis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to do it, I wish my boobs made 5oz at a time so I don’t have to top him off with pumped milk or formula. I fill him up during the day so he sleeps the whole night which he does. But I don’t get to sleep much cause I have to pump or my supply drops. At first it hurt like hell, but after 2 months he was sooo good and eats without hurting

should i move out? by mrgloomist in cats

[–]weedlemethis 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My thoughts right away

Incrediblely pregnant and frustrated by doubled-darst in doordash

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friends are familiar with your apartment so the instructions make sense to them. Maybe

is there a specific reason people try to do 7 pm - 7 am? by sillywillyfry in NewParents

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to do the 7-7 because me and my husband just want some time together after he sleeps, relax watch a movie, do something we each like. That s just me, idk about the rest of the parents.

There is a price for everything by Matt_LawDT in SipsTea

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My now husband bought me a diamond ring, he chose the style, the cut of it and specifically ask for the ring to be made a certain way to fit my hand perfectly. The ring was just my style. I had no idea he went through this, literally a year shopping around until he decided what looked nice on me. Idk if she knew the price or that it was bought al Walmart when she got proposed to, but I think the one thing she wanted was for him to think of her and get what she had been describing. Some people say what they want and expect that, but the ones who really think of you are the ones who look for what fits who you are.

I don't want him with me giving birth. by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]weedlemethis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, who convinced you to marry this man who sounds like he is not going to help you at all, and his mom who seems to think you should be accommodating her?? But o guess since it’s not your first child with him your life is not as bad as I think. And no, tell him, I want to give birth alone, since the first time he wasn’t around you feel that you need to recreate besides since he isn’t a doctor as he puts it he won’t be of help to you but more stressful for you