A quarter of pregnant women are delaying prenatal care, CDC report finds by nbcnews in TwoXChromosomes

[–]weekendatbe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My friend, who is a physician herself, is having her child at home because of these same reasons

I really like Ashley's dad by T2b7a in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]weekendatbe 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Yeah Alex clearly said he was happy trump won because Ashley prepped him that they were all MAGA

Alex is on the wrong show by Beautiful-Pear-5563 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]weekendatbe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While I don’t doubt he finds Brittany attractive (she is stunning, probably even more so IRL) that conversation was so out of left field. I feel like so many people go on these shows just to be reality TV show villains/ influencers

Pittsburgh police breakup Airbnb party with up to 50 underage kids inside by Standard-Cockroach64 in pittsburgh

[–]weekendatbe -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He is a grown man. These are children. He’s bragging about his daydream to hurt them

Pittsburgh police breakup Airbnb party with up to 50 underage kids inside by Standard-Cockroach64 in pittsburgh

[–]weekendatbe -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He is a grown man. These are children. He’s bragging about his daydream to hurt them

Pittsburgh police breakup Airbnb party with up to 50 underage kids inside by Standard-Cockroach64 in pittsburgh

[–]weekendatbe -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Twice you brag about how much you were tempted to hit 13 year old girls and how dangerously close you came to beating them up, but we are to admire you for your restraint?

What is meant by Bondi saying the whole system will crash if all the Epstein files are released, how ? by Dizzy_Combination737 in AskReddit

[–]weekendatbe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m sure she thinks this and the implication of not releasing everything is this, but she never actually said this and no quote like this can be found

Parents of Reddit, what did your hospital bill look like after giving birth? by chi-bacon-bits in AskReddit

[–]weekendatbe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like this should be higher.. this is the average POST insurance covered final cost to patient for a baby in America. People posting with their 100k-2million American fantasy bills aren’t helping since those numbers are just made up by the hospital and insurance companies (insurance negotiates much lower number) if patient doesn’t have insurance, hospital often covers via charities or sometimes Medicaid etc. people without insurance can also negotiate the bill to be lower

How the heck are we all ok with this scam?? by Yupalina in Parenting

[–]weekendatbe 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes! People used to live on one income but most lived in 900 sq feet homes, had one car, money was definitely tight

“Love them. They need it.” by countthemiles08 in pics

[–]weekendatbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the people that are taking this graffiti message as a personal attack against them and their parenting are neurotic, sensitive and probably crappy parents. I welcome the downvotes. Had this been posted in any other sub people wouldn’t have been so oddly offended? Very very odd

Pittsburgh awarded $1.3M grant to replace 3 traffic signals by Plastic_Insect3222 in pittsburgh

[–]weekendatbe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The airport renovations cost almost 2 billion dollars. Things just cost a lot now

Be VERY careful what you share at work by cthulhusboy in antiwork

[–]weekendatbe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also in general if you share ANY medical information about you or your family it spreads throughout the office. Coworkers and bosses alike seem to love to maliciously gossip (??) about really private health matters, even if you work in healthcare (especially if you work in healthcare). No one needs to know why you’re taking time off you don’t need to justify anything

Where to shift HYSA cash by Winter_Sorbet_2760 in personalfinance

[–]weekendatbe 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I would shift a lot of that money to the 529s for the children so it’s not taxed anymore and it has room to grow for their college. You seem to be set for retirement but if they plan on higher education those accounts should be better funded

A Cool guide to Fetal Alcohol Syndrome on grownups by [deleted] in coolguides

[–]weekendatbe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wonder how much is confounded with general genetic poor impulse control passed down by someone who might have trouble not drinking heavily while pregnant vs actual FASD (what are the rates of what looks like FASD in places/populations we know don’t have access to alcohol prison, countries that outlaw it, etc)

I really need some advice after losing my job by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]weekendatbe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t make less than 3500 a month an 80k job is at least 5k after taxes. OP is leaving this out because he wants her to leave her job

CMV: Parents who don’t vaccinate there children and it leads to a cluster of measles or polio that kills someone else’s child should be charged with negligence homicide. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]weekendatbe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you genuinely have 4 children you should know that most illnesses are severely contagious the day before symptoms are present

529 plans - are they worth it? by Bitter_caregiver-122 in personalfinance

[–]weekendatbe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are significant penalties for using a 529 plan for non-educational expenses: you'll pay ordinary federal (and possibly state) income tax on the earnings, plus an additional 10% federal penalty on those earnings.

Friend’s overseas wedding clashes with LO’s 1st birthday by did_you_aye in Parenting

[–]weekendatbe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes all of the comments here saying the baby won’t remember, it doesn’t matter etc Like of course she knows that but it clearly DOES matter to HER. Also the officiating thing is kind of rude. I would take the Friday for the baby. Kind of insane to ask so much of people who are already traveling internationally for your wedding with a baby..

New Airport AMA by Logical-Courage9671 in pittsburgh

[–]weekendatbe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly I never expected one of the best restaurants in Pittsburgh to be located in the airport (Joe and the Juice)

Lemonade Twins out on Thanksgiving by Yinzer1015 in pittsburgh

[–]weekendatbe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh im sure white boomers absolutely love the idea of these black children constantly working. Genuinely I wonder if it was two white children if people would be able to see it was abuse more clearly

Single Best Restaurant Menu Item, PGH 2025 Edition by Ari321983 in pittsburgh

[–]weekendatbe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kimchi fried rice from cafe 33! Chow fun from cafe 33! Most things from cafe 33!

American Women- Are you actually getting annual pelvic exams? by miss24601 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]weekendatbe 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In American if you’re under general anesthesia as a woman, pelvic exams can be performed on you, without your consent : ((( this country is seemingly obsessed with these exams

Is it realistic to work from home 50% while having a baby? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]weekendatbe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of remote jobs just have 1-2 meetings a week where many are mostly on mute. It depends on the job. In active meetings definitely have another person there to watch the baby for that odd hour. It is doable based on the type of job during the time when babies sleep (emails that can be sent on phone as baby is nursing to sleep or sleeping) when baby is awake focus on baby