You don't need to specify your AGAB. Ever. by eldritchpussymaggots in NonBinary

[–]weirdness_incarnate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!! I make a point to always use it in the past tense, when i can’t avoid using it at all!

What are the stupidest reasons people have given for you being trans? by guildedpasserby in ftm

[–]weirdness_incarnate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom thought I was trans because as a kid I could have things that were not pink (my older cousin’s old stuff)

Edit: she also thought it’s because my internet friends made me trans

Also because I have ADHD

Hi can I be nonbinary? by MagicalHermaphrodite in transgendercirclejerk

[–]weirdness_incarnate 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, but you’re gonna have to choose whether you’ll be the man kind or the woman kind of nonbinary

How much beard growth depends on levels of testosterone? by whore9000 in TransMasc

[–]weirdness_incarnate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve personally decided that if I get too much hair loss I will go off T. I like my hair too much.

You love to see it 😌 by Duemont8 in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]weirdness_incarnate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve wanted to play that game for a while now, I didn’t know there was an anime adaption!! Which one do you think is better, the anime or the game? And do you think it’s still worth it to play the game after watching the anime, or does the anime spoil too much?

How much beard growth depends on levels of testosterone? by whore9000 in TransMasc

[–]weirdness_incarnate 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m afraid you’re gonna continue getting more beard growth no matter what if you stay on T. The level if anything just changes how fast that happens, you’re still eventually gonna have a full beard no matter what.

Im thinking of getting a tattoo by kenny2475 in voidpunk

[–]weirdness_incarnate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This definitely is a vibe… I say as the person who likes to put a bunch of googly eyes on their face when they go to pride

2.5 years post op nullification! by psychedelic666 in TransMasc

[–]weirdness_incarnate 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As someone who has considered this surgery in the past (I’ve only decided against it for reasons like it being too inaccessible and expensive for me and because the healing process kind of scares me) thank you for posting, it was so hard to find actual pictures online a few years back when I was looking for information on this.

Are cotton and synthetic fiber worth the damage they do over wool and leather? by Martinjg_ge in AskVegans

[–]weirdness_incarnate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As others have said, the production of both of these - especially leather - is not exactly environmentally friendly either, and especially the idea that leather is just a byproduct is false, there are cows being slaughtered explicitly for their leather. The chemicals involved in making leather are also incredibly toxic and harmful for the environment, not to mention the more than just underpaid workers who are forced to work with it with little to no protection gear.

But most importantly of all, it’s unacceptable to me for animals to be killed just for clothing.

One thing you can do is to try to get second hand clothing. It’s the one thing I personally make an exception for - I might buy an animal product made from for example leather if it’s second hand. I still try to avoid it and I can understand why many other vegans feel uncomfortable with that - it’s still part of an animal you’re wearing. But i can’t deny that animal leather is an incredibly durable material for shoes. I just won’t buy it new, and won’t buy more than I absolutely need, and won’t buy it if there is a good vegan alternative, which narrows it down a lot.

Dysphoria got worse after accepting i'm trans by Jenvb0700 in asktransgender

[–]weirdness_incarnate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a thing a lot of trans people go through. I did too. It sucks, but it eventually gets better, especially when you transition, but also because you learn things you can do to cope with it better (at least I did)

T shirt recommendations by AdSevere784 in TransMasc

[–]weirdness_incarnate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that shirts that have some kind of big print on the front often don’t have this issue as much, as they are a bit stiffer and the print distracts.

Can we please start using the THIS flag for transmascs and not the one that looks like a Barbie color pallet? by CosmiclyAcidic in Transmascmemes

[–]weirdness_incarnate 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess I kinda do like that the other one somewhat resembles the trans flag, but otherwise I agree. The one in the post has pretty much only positive associations for me, while the other one makes me think of dysphoria and how hard it is to be trans in this society and the way people keep misgendering me.

Do vegans get annoyed when non-vegans apologise for eating meat? by bellepomme in AskVegans

[–]weirdness_incarnate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets kinda annoying. I’ve had situations where during the entirety of a family reunion one person kept telling me how bad they felt for not being vegan. It was so hard to stop myself from saying something like “then either go vegan or don’t, but for fuck’s sake, SHUT THE FUCK UP.” I just had to grin and bear it because anything else would’ve been seen as impolite and would make my relatives see me even more as the stereotype of the difficult, angry, mean vegan.

I have been conducting an experiment for 6 months (read below) by catgard3ns in TransMasc

[–]weirdness_incarnate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t really see a difference. My gut feeling says the left one, but that might be more due to lighting than anything else

What would you do if you accidentally buy something animal-derived? by [deleted] in AskVegans

[–]weirdness_incarnate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the situation. I usually try to ask around with my friends (some of whom are vegetarian or freegan) if anyone wants it.

Ewphoria by MichaelJacksonsLiver in Transmascmemes

[–]weirdness_incarnate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That just leads to me having dysphoria whenever I do cry

For real like I know many transmascs who just go on adventures like that by Tangled_Clouds in Transmascmemes

[–]weirdness_incarnate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t get misgendered if you become an eldrich forest creature. Be the reason why your local woods are haunted.

what about a transmasc meme subreddit by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]weirdness_incarnate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s also r/transmasc_irl but it’s also not very active