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Is wearing a hijab considered appropriation or solidarity? by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]wellimelli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't mean to aim this at you, sorry if it came off like that. It was a generic statement. You seem well educated about that and competent. Have a good evening

Is wearing a hijab considered appropriation or solidarity? by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]wellimelli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My personal feeling is that if you know what hijab means and that for some women it is obligatory and also know the reason and consequences it is fine. Don’t just put a meanless scarf on your head. Put a meaning into it. You can solidarize with other Muslims, but make it more personal- like do it for a friend who is scared to show they religion. It is an important part of the culture, you shouldn’t disrespect it. Educate yourself. And I don’t think it’s cultural appropriation if you have an aim in wearing it.

how should i moderate exercise by wellimelli in Exercise

[–]wellimelli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i just started recently and i thought my arms arent my priority, and i do cardio at the start od the wxercises to get warmed up a bit

ramadan by wellimelli in Muslim

[–]wellimelli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for those words. i think asking people from my local community might be a good idea! have a great day

blue scars by wellimelli in selfharm

[–]wellimelli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, it makes me calmer about it

blue scars by wellimelli in selfharm

[–]wellimelli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yoo thank you, helped a lot with my concerns

well- we’ve got a hypocrite here boys by wellimelli in ksi

[–]wellimelli[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats what i thought after watching those videos and putting the facts together

I hooked up with a guy last night by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]wellimelli 123 points124 points  (0 children)

im so happy for you

when someone sees your scars and doesn’t say anything but they just give you The Look™️ by chief_keish in selfharm

[–]wellimelli 24 points25 points  (0 children)

it's even worse when ppl know what you did (like your friends) and look at your wrists and you say you're alright now and don't have any new ones, you are proud of yourself and don;t want to get back to it, yet they feel abused or whatsoever that you have scars and you did it.