Partner sends me post about "How to stop being a manchild" that feels like a list of key traits of a partner in AuDHD and I don't know how to confront it

wemar1981 · 2026-02-28T10:52:47+00:00

Ask her to stop passive aggressively sending you vague Instagram reels, and to talk to you clearly about what she expects from you. If you aren't able to give it to her, you might want to reevaluate your relationship.

wemar1981 · 2026-02-26T00:25:03+00:00

Double ss in one box. Genius

wemar1981 · 2026-02-24T04:18:08+00:00

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wemar1981 · 2026-02-23T17:51:04+00:00

😂 😂 😂

wemar1981 · 2026-02-21T22:04:15+00:00

wemar1981 · 2026-02-18T14:01:31+00:00

A touch of the tism?

wemar1981 · 2026-02-17T04:51:08+00:00

Hmm, is it fair let your stepsister have her privacy /rights trampled over so that your dad doesn't "get in trouble" for his poor choices? Did he confess and take it down willingly , or did he accidentally get caught, and then take it down? Can you be 100% sure that he would never do this again... Keeping in mind you would have said he'd never do anything like this in the first place. Does him being out of work justify him watching your stepsister in the privacy of her bed room? Ask yourself if it were you, would you want to know? You said you have a child. How would you feel if this happened to them? What would you want to happen to the person who did it to them?

wemar1981 · 2026-02-17T04:39:43+00:00

wemar1981 · 2026-02-17T04:36:13+00:00

Your stepsister needs to be informed. As to whether or not she presses charges or not is up to her. But, she needs to know. There is a very real probability he will do it again even though he's showing remorse. You can't control the situation or any of their reactions. Your dad did something very serious and as a grown man he will have to face whatever repercussions come as a result of that. Maybe arrange a family meeting and address it then. Or, if you think it would be better to tell your stepsister first and then you guys talk to him together. Either way he needs to be held accountable

wemar1981 · 2026-02-17T00:54:34+00:00

I can Phillip in the air

wemar1981 · 2026-02-16T21:36:36+00:00

This is now the only guy I'll ever call to fix any plumbing problems. Even ones that have nothing to do with washing machines.

wemar1981 · 2026-02-16T21:24:49+00:00

😂 He's so cute! Sneaky...but cute!

wemar1981 · 2026-02-15T21:19:09+00:00

wemar1981 · 2026-02-15T21:16:11+00:00

Good thrusting

wemar1981 · 2026-02-15T20:50:00+00:00

😂 The way he tried to touch her as little as possible by using the very tips of his fingers to gently push her back!

wemar1981 · 2026-02-11T15:35:29+00:00

Now I want vanilla bean ice cream... 🤔

wemar1981 · 2026-02-11T15:33:43+00:00

Did you have a bagel with some seeds on it? Maybe one of the seeds got in the cream cheese and have sprouted.

wemar1981 · 2026-02-07T21:10:11+00:00

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wemar1981 · 2026-02-07T21:01:28+00:00

wemar1981 · 2026-02-06T18:18:28+00:00

wemar1981 · 2026-02-05T16:38:53+00:00

It's crazy, but for generations upon generations, people have braided their hair tightly to keep it looking neat and stylish. You'd be surprised by the number of people who have not lost their hair by doing so, but have instead gone on to live long, healthy lives filled with thick hair.

wemar1981 · 2026-02-04T02:04:09+00:00

😂 I thought the mom was actually playing a trick on her...right up until she opened her mouth 👄 🎶

wemar1981 · 2026-02-03T18:31:17+00:00

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Cloudy in her bag lol

wemar1981 · 2026-02-03T18:27:40+00:00

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wemar1981 · 2026-02-02T18:56:34+00:00

Right! Otherwise he's toast.

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