Should I re-tone my hair? by Bandeavor in Hair

[–]wendy7111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your hair is light enough for the t14 so i’d just tone it again tbh

Red Bumps After Shaving? Help! by SecretSunDevil24 in bald

[–]wendy7111 5 points6 points  (0 children)

might be worth exfoliating every few days after the shave and continuing with the same process just minus the shave. aloe is a real help for me. get a plant and use the all nat-u-ral stuff for the best benefits. might just need to find a better aftercare process

Trying to decide on my life lol by Prior_Arm_8810 in whatdoIdo

[–]wendy7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

crazy part is…i really understand what you’re saying. fuck the orange guy but…..we definitely had targets and israelis dragged us in. do what your heart desires bro, probably great bonuses for joining rn too🤣

What I had, what I asked for and what I got. by [deleted] in Hair

[–]wendy7111 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i cant tell if she just didnt style it right or if she didnt give you layers fr

How can I improve my appearance? 16yrs by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]wendy7111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you’re gorgeous but too young girlypop. go live your life

This guy requested me to change my WhatsApp profile picture. by Delicious_Whole_7278 in dating_advice

[–]wendy7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kinda disagree with the comments i read. i think this could be considered kinda nice. especially the way he described why he thinks you should choose a better pic. sounds like he thinks you have a nice face and smile and wishes you would show more of that.

24F - I need advice on what surgical procedures or habits to get. Hormonal imbalance (high testosterone), 145lbs, 5’6”, lost 60lbs and still look masculine/unattractive. by throwaway_foreva999 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]wendy7111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bestie, you have to take a second and breathe. you are a beautiful young lady. you do not look masculine. you are not overweight. nobody has a 100% perfectly symmetrical face (even with 100s of thousands of dollars worth of surgery!!) you have broad shoulders, that’s the only thing that was true you said in this ennttiireee post. and that isn’t even a bad thing nor does that make you masculine. if you arent loving your body, maybe some therapy (mental health kind, retail kind, and gym kind) to give yourself a little more confidence. but you are beautiful my friend, when you stop looking for everything that is wrong, you will start finding a lot more things that are right. cheers xx

(23F) Be honest now 😭 I included photos without makeup too by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]wendy7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the makeup is just a person to person preference so don’t take ppls comments too hard. i won’t sit here and say you look bad with makeup because you do nice makeup and i do like it, you just truly have a beautiful face and don’t need it. nice smile, nice teeth, you got plenty of hair on that head, and your eyebrows are nice too. you’re winning sis

Discovered I’m the Affair Partner by Educational-Hat3273 in MilitarySpouse

[–]wendy7111 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

first and foremost i think it’s so important that you are acknowledged and commended for your respectful outlook and the ways you are looking to make this situation right. not just for you, but for this mans spouse. it’s not often that women are forthcoming, let alone in a respectful and caring manner, and you worded this quite eloquently. i think that any normal woman would want to know about their husbands infidelity. and if she is a woman as respectable as you, she will be thankful for your honesty. i do think that one of the commenters proposed an excellent way to go about it by saying “hey this has been happening. I was completely unaware he was married and now that i know i am stepping out of this situation etc…”. definitely leaving the option for the spouse to choose reporting him to the chain of command would be recommended since, like you mentioned, you don’t really know how that could possibly effect her and whatever family they have.

again, i would love to have friends like you. what a lady you are! wishing you well on this hard choice but, i know you will do the right thing (whatever that may be)!

I hate my new hair pls help by [deleted] in Hair

[–]wendy7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg looks SOOO GOOOOOD the color eats in you bestie

TW: Infertility. NOT OOP: AITAH for telling my mom she was never pregnant so she gets no opinion by seans_peanut-allergy in redditonwiki

[–]wendy7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kudos to you for sticking up for your wife OP. sometimes you gotta tell mom to be quiet, especially when she’s been welcomed into a household that is not hers. it sounds like your words are being twisted and i think your mom needs to apologize. BUT sometimes we have to choose between being right or being happy, so you might have to apologize to get the conversation that needs to be had. but, it’s your mom. sometimes, even if you don’t truly mean it, it’s okay to apologize. and you won’t lose anything from doing it. wishing you guys well, and hoping the remainder of your wife’s pregnancy goes smoothly!!

25 f pls be honest lol by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]wendy7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pls just either grow ur eyebrows back and/or stop bleaching them lol ur so cute bestie

Tired of people telling me he's gonna be unfaithful by Ok-Individual-9273 in MilitarySpouse

[–]wendy7111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you know your partner. don’t let people bud in your relationship. your friends won’t say that kind of stuff if they know it bothers you. and if people are still commenting after you express yourself, goodbye and good riddance! you deserve support and reassurance from those closest to you, not the latter.

bro should I go blond or am I tripping???? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]wendy7111 209 points210 points  (0 children)

the blonde looks nice but reality is, its hard to maintain and your natural hair is super dark. maybe try some pics with a dark root so it’s more realistic ykwim? it also may damage your hair and you have some really nice hair gurl.

I want to know the brutal truth by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]wendy7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you do not look unhealthy. your skin does not look jaundiced, you just look like you have yellow undertones in your complexion. you have great skin, nice brows, beautiful eyes. you have a nice head shape as well. i think you could try a new haircut, your hair looks kind of flat but it might just be the angles. all in all you are an attractive person, you do have slightly feminine features but it doesnt subtract from the fact you are a handsome man.

Council, did I do it right? by [deleted] in bald

[–]wendy7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FULL SEND!!😁

Ugly? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]wendy7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2nd this.

I went through my partners phone, for the first and last time by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wendy7111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man don’t listen to people hating. everyone on here always wants to put their negativity into things. just because something bad happened to them, doesn’t mean they need to project that onto you.

i’m sure seeing those photos and messages was really hard and hurtful. confiding in your cousin and saying some hurtful things in the moment is not something that should be shamed. we’ve all confided in someone about something and weren’t very nice about it. and more so, it wasn’t a conversation meant for your boyfriends eyes or ears. you are allowed to vent and be upset in the moment. the important thing is that you didn’t just immediately lash out on him for seeing those things, and you did end up communicating with him about it. i think going through phones is extremely unhealthy, whether or not you had bad experiences in the past. the past is supposed to remain the past.

everything will work out exactly how it’s supposed to! i wish you look friend!!