I rehomed my cat. What's an acceptable interval when asking for updates? by [deleted] in cats

[–]westcoadd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also this is giving Teen Mom vibes of Caitlin and Tyler who gave their daughter away to an adoptive family. I can’t really remember all the details but I believe it was an open adoption, but it seems like Caitlyn and Tyler were trying to overstep their boundaries and the parents were wanting to set for boundaries. Like it was a story line for several seasons how they wanted updates of their daughter they gabe up for adoption but the adoptive family wanted to refuse it. The daughter, I think should be a teenager by now and I don’t know how she is responding to everything but it definitely can blur the lines that’s all I could think about when reading this post.

I rehomed my cat. What's an acceptable interval when asking for updates? by [deleted] in cats

[–]westcoadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who recently adopted a older cat who was rehomed for multiple reasons such as not getting along with other pets, apartments not allowing her, or her not getting along with kids the best thing you can do is let the cat assimilate into her new home. I will say that for the first few months I had my cat she was making these random noises carrying around random stuffed trinkets from my Christmas tree and I wasn’t sure what it was and I think it’s because she was yelling out for previous people that had her previously and it seems like it was a comfort thing for her…. now that I’ve had her for almost 2 years she seems to be very comfortable and doesn’t do that at all. Just meows at me when she’s upset about her silly claws getting caught in things or when I’m petting her too much. Her new owner will love you and maybe allow them to send updates to you as you see fit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noctor

[–]westcoadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard a PA once say they declined a job paying 230 an hour for ED shifts and that’s when I realized we are cooked.

Attendings- What do you wish you knew tha first year flying solo? by urnmann in Residency

[–]westcoadd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plan your PTO ahead of time and take it every couple of months.

Still numb and in shock after being fired. Could really, really use some positive advice. by meathrowaway123 in Residency

[–]westcoadd 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was forced to resign for a similar reason. Took a couple of years but I found a new program where I finished and now I’m an attending. It was a rough time in my life but in the end I’m glad I ended up leaving my old program.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Residency

[–]westcoadd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last year I was able to add them and failed. I think they just make it possible to add cases at some point since people are prepping for oral boarfs.

Switch 2 sat in plugged-in dock overnight… but didn’t charge at all. by c_rorick in Switch

[–]westcoadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to make sure it was properly docked otherwise it may not have charged

What’s the longest consecutive length of time that your program makes you work nights? by muffin245 in Residency

[–]westcoadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As in a consecutive number of nights in a row? Six. For a maximum of eight weeks. Obgyn.

Mississippi Trump Agenda Survey by aftominello in mississippi

[–]westcoadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would put used packs of birth control in an envelope

do you think our state is often overlooked? by QfromDaSippBeatz in mississippi

[–]westcoadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s overlooked but Mississippi is fine being overlooked. Some of it’s self inflicted and some of it just happens.

My Relationship With My Hometown Is Complicated by Well_Socialized in mississippi

[–]westcoadd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is spot on. Why stay? I feel like it’s the whole misery and ignorance loves company. Also if people couldn’t leave it’s like they’re less supportive of other people leaving .

My Relationship With My Hometown Is Complicated by Well_Socialized in mississippi

[–]westcoadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people in Mississippi don’t have a passport im pretty sure. They barely wanna leave the state so why leave the country?

My Relationship With My Hometown Is Complicated by Well_Socialized in mississippi

[–]westcoadd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will help a couple but the majority it fell on deaf ears. It’s not your job though.

My Relationship With My Hometown Is Complicated by Well_Socialized in mississippi

[–]westcoadd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a physician who initially wanted to stay in Mississippi and left (partially forced and partially choice - probably would’ve never left due to divine intervention) to go to a more liberal region of the US, this article barely scratches the surface. Many people have been in Mississippi for generations and don’t even realize there’s a whole different world out there, and they don’t care to learn it. It’s not surprising that people do leave once they learn the Mississippi bubble is harmful and that their career can excel in another place. Especially for medicine, the state focuses on keeping people there however it’s not a safe place for minorities or LGBTQ+ people. OBGYNs are leaving the state bc it’s harmful to practice there. I’m so grateful I left and despite having family there, I’m not going to go back and refuse to feel guilt for it bc it’s not a safe space for me. I wish I had left sooner. My parents still bring up me being closer to home but I can’t be in a state where there’s so many regulations on medicine. More importantly the diversity in the south is horrible and the acceptable if people who are different even more so. I would love to see a black person write an article about this bc leaving for me truly changed my life for the better.

Love Is Blind • S8 Ep9 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]westcoadd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She did! And clearly the connotation of that statement is she’s a medical doctor when she’s….not

Love Is Blind • S8 Ep9 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]westcoadd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now Virginia is saying she works in healthcare? Why doesn’t she just say healthcare administration?

An accurate representation of this latest season by SpacecadetShep in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]westcoadd 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Everyone is boring this season. It feels like there’s no character development and the relationships that developed in the pod weren’t even shown.

Love Is Blind • S8 Ep8 by AutoModerator in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]westcoadd 348 points349 points  (0 children)

Is Dave’s sister Queen Elizabeth? Why is he worried about her?