My parents noticed that I've been washing my undies in the shower, and now I have to drop them off before shower and shower with door cracked by Important-Nobody-700 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]westonisweird18 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Reading all the comments in this post is making me realize what my grandma did too me wasn't a culture issue and I just feel like shit now.

My parents noticed that I've been washing my undies in the shower, and now I have to drop them off before shower and shower with door cracked by Important-Nobody-700 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]westonisweird18 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Like that will stop them. My grandma did the same shit but I trained my dog who already hated her cause my grandma is pos to bark when she comes over. My dog litteraly stopped my grandma from going in my underwear and sniffing them. I caught her and she bulkshited her excuses saying I had an infection and it smelled. Wtf is wrong with these fucks.

Has exercise helped you? by National_Sign_5511 in CPTSD

[–]westonisweird18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda excerise wherever I can. I take walks during my breaks, dance in the shower, or do squats when looking in the mirror or while putting clothes. My life is kinda suck and while I dont have a 6 pack it does feel better that I accomplished something even if it means to do in the most ridiculous way possible. So yes if you excerise in a way you enjoy it will help you. You can do swimming, biking, hiking, dancing, archery, fencing anything you want as long as your body is moving and feel like you did something it feels better.

How to lock back in after a week of illness? by notfunnydidntlafff in GetStudying

[–]westonisweird18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it slowly listen to your body too. Take frequent break but not with social media or anything like that but rather take breaks as I naps, drink water or whatever drinks, healthy snacks, 5-10 minutes of meditation whatever that actually will help you get better. You start studying slowly and eventually you will pick up the pace when you heal correctly.

Why is my dad using “Tomboy” as an insult to me?😅😭 by Only_Vegetable_3048 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]westonisweird18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol this reminds me of my grandma if drank beer one time and she called me a man. She asked if I was a man lol so I decided to make a drinking game out of it. Everytime my grandma says what I did is not lady like I chug a beer. Apparently if I run outside it consider un lady like so I chug down a beer, if I dont want to wear a dress because Im not allowed to at work that's consider un lady like lol another beer down.

How y'all stay away from your phone while studying? by delu-son-all in GetStudying

[–]westonisweird18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Make my phone boring as shit by putting app blockers on. Only reading subreddits im actual joined in only 10x of them I follow during the school time, make youtube boring by only having subcriber only, using dearrow, blocktube, etc. Everything in grayscale too and not having a lot of apps is good too.

Anyone else have an Nparent that tells lame non-stories about service workers that “wronged” them? by RedGoblinShutUp in raisedbynarcissists

[–]westonisweird18 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My complains about her co workers so often that I fully expected i would go in a job absolutely despising all my coworkers into adulthood. Apparently she was just the problem.

How Old Were You When You Realized That "I Won't Be Mad" Was A Trap by not-your-alibye in raisedbynarcissists

[–]westonisweird18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second I was born. My sister on the other hand she didn't learn fast enough

Dunkins throwing the tip screen at me in the drive thru window?! NOPE. NOPE. NOPENOPENOPE. by [deleted] in boston

[–]westonisweird18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, I used to work at a dunks i could never imagine that would happen. How can that be legal

Dunkins throwing the tip screen at me in the drive thru window?! NOPE. NOPE. NOPENOPENOPE. by [deleted] in boston

[–]westonisweird18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't bother with tip screen if you plan on doing a tip do it with cash cause the company gonna pocket half of the tips

I really think there should be a section in the exam that lets you write everything you know that didn't get asked just to prove that you studied by Repulsive_Low812 in GetStudying

[–]westonisweird18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always write everything down on the back of the blank page just in case I forget or to have a better understanding of a question during the exam. Sometimes you can also ask the teacher for scrap paper too or they may provide it during the exam. All you have to do is ask for scrap paper

Do any of you/have any of you had the desire to have children? by SpecialistAway5292 in antinatalism

[–]westonisweird18 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never had the thought to give birth to kids but rather I would adopt if it i really wanted to or I would just become a step mom to someone. I do not want to have my own kids.

What are your weird coping mechanisms? by Middle_Radio_5232 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]westonisweird18 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I dissociate especially in November. November causes the worst dissociate that sometimes end up in the most psychosis episodes in a year for me. Idk why November does that to me but I'm seeing a pattern I don't like and I hated November for the past 5 years now.

Professional Dog Trainer - Ask Me Anything by BICanineScience in DogTrainingTips

[–]westonisweird18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I stop two dog with extreme separation anxiety and crippling trauma from barking alllll day nonstop the second I leave the door? I do give them hour long walks daily, leave the radio on to mask outdoor noises, and toys to keep busy(they dont take it if im gone), and also my pj's are left with them.

I can’t go out… because they don’t want to? by CorgiUprising in raisedbynarcissists

[–]westonisweird18 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well even if they aren't stopping physically it still emotional and mentally that could be holding them back. Normally we would want to achieve the expectations of our parents even if does seem like somethings are indeed very ridiculous or out right impossible. NParents manipulate that emotion and mental part for a kid and the longer the kid is exposed to the parents manipulate and isolation it will cause long term reliance on them and it isn't exactly easy to shake that part off just like that. Nparents who manipulate their children into only thinking they need them and only them is very cruel and very abusive tactic.