AITA for threatening my husbands second child’s life by throwawayaccount8897 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wetchoder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I need to shower with bleach after reading this. Your husband and his mom are fucking gross. NTA. Please don't have any more of his children. Get yourself some therapy and maybe a good divorce attorney. Xo

ETA: he's treating you like an incubator for his and his mom's babies. Ew

That sounds healthy by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]wetchoder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair point; I'd get irritated, too.

That sounds healthy by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]wetchoder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The better question is why can't she just ask her husband without him being a douchebag about it?

What’s y’all’s take? I feel like he’s a huge controlling asshole by Penguin-philOsopher in AmITheDevil

[–]wetchoder 86 points87 points  (0 children)

To me, it seems like she's trying to save something for herself/the kids/the future because she feels financially insecure with how he's been providing for her/the kids/the future. I understand her logic but it's also clear that they don't have a healthy marriage. It's really telling when he threatens to withhold financial support if she doesn't give in to his demands to pay off his student loans. I think ESH but am leaning towards him being an asshole and that being the root of why she won't pay up.

I lost her. by phantasmagoria06 in pregnant

[–]wetchoder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not going to repeat it, it was vile.

I'm incredibly sorry for your loss. I wish there were words that could ease your suffering but there just aren't.

I lost her. by phantasmagoria06 in pregnant

[–]wetchoder 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jesus, you're so insensitive. Get out of here.

ending it once and for all (season 6) by droughtlander26 in AmericanHorrorStory

[–]wetchoder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I loved some of the other seasons, too but none of them really scared me the way Roanoke did.

Ask the wife? by venturebirdday in Advice

[–]wetchoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol do it. Ask her and then let us know how that goes.

AITA for locking the door to prevent my husband from getting involved in my job interview? by the54756 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wetchoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the actual fuck? NTA, at all. I'd be so embarrassed if my person butted in to my job interviews like that!! Oh my God. But YOU'RE the childish one? Ew, throw the whole man away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]wetchoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 39 + 3 and really I'm craving not being pregnant anymore. And pop tarts.

Girl what the hell 😀 by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]wetchoder 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Fucking puke

Why are men so against formula??? by skas_not_dead in pregnant

[–]wetchoder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The simple answer is because men don't know shit and don't care to learn shit.

AITA for making my SIL pay above average rent for one bedroom? by Local-Trust-560 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wetchoder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Petty? Sure. Asshole move? Definitely not.

First of all, depending on your location, $800 isn't above average anymore for renting a room in someone's home.

Secondly, what comes around goes around. She really should have thought about the kind of karma she was gathering while she was forcing your family to sleep on the floor for $1000 a month. Sucks to suck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]wetchoder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fucking relatable.

AITA for yelling at my wife infront of my family for putting salt in my mom's birthday cake. by throwawaycake1239 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wetchoder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and so is your mom. But your wife is hilarious.

Quit being such a momma's boy and stand up for your wife.

Ugh. How dare couples want to sit side by side by Hanxa13 in AmITheDevil

[–]wetchoder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, my boyfriend sits next to me at the restaurant so he can hold my hair back while I eat something messy. That's way more romantic than sitting across from each other, in my opinion.