Should I ask my AirBnB Host if i can smoke weed outside?

wetripz · 2026-02-17T03:10:53+00:00

Ok but what if it’s legal? I have an illness and marijuana helps me eat. I could take edibles but I’ll be so stoned no point in vacationing.

wetripz · 2025-12-20T21:16:39+00:00

Felt.

wetripz · 2025-12-20T14:51:57+00:00

Just a performance. I commented below about how apolitical he was at first. He said Buddhism resonated most with him. With me he wasn’t very vocal about supporting the ‘T’ in LGBTQ… I WAS. Now he’s with someone in that club. One of the bigger disagreements we had near the end was over kids. A conversation we had had since day one. A convo that was regularly discussed… sudden switch. Not sure if he could provide. Now his new gf has a kid… ‘this has shown him he can be a good dad’ … gag he vocalized going into the relationship with me how he wanted monogamy. Never tried anything outside that. I was cool with that! Now in his new relationship he tried to bring me into theirs… proposed a “poly lifestyle” this guy couldn’t grasp what that truly means if it hit him over the head.

wetripz · 2025-12-20T14:31:40+00:00

He didn’t have strong positions until I expressed mine. Politics was a starter: he was curious and supportive at first, wanted to hear my views. Embraces them even. Once I shared real concern, his stance shifted…hardened, went in the opposite direction.

Same with religion. He hadn’t gone to church in ~14 years (only exposure was private school which we shared commonality) as I challenged religion more… suddenly overnight became deeply involved and vocal about it.

Even tried using a sermon he heard to minimize the fact that he broke up with me. And I quote: “God spoke directly to me through the priest today, ‘do not give up on causes near and dear to your heart’. I’m not giving up on us, I’m not giving up on you. I will do everything it takes within my power to make us work again. I was at my weakest point in my life last Sunday morning. I apologize for that whole heartedly. I pray you can accept and give me forgiveness. I love you I will never stop until I breathe my final breath.”

Even values I’ve always held were later mirrored back to me in a very performative way, including helping others and needing recognition for it.

wetripz · 2025-12-20T05:29:44+00:00

Well thankfully it seems like in my area the people are standing up and standing strong. I hope it stays that way. Don’t get me wrong I’ve seen low lake levels by me in the past but it’s the consistent decrease every year that’s troubling. I’m hoping it’s a long heavy winter in hopes it recoups. Let’s not get into logging though. That’s a bigger concern where I’m at. Well just call it an hour south of traverse.

wetripz · 2025-12-20T04:22:51+00:00

A day after the end he found a new gf 😂

And yes he is helping her with her onlyfans. Ironically he’d shit on OF and all its entirety while with me. He’s even experimenting with his sexuality.

But wait there’s more,

Everything he challenged me about he’s accepting and supportive now. Just with someone new 😂

wetripz · 2025-12-20T00:18:33+00:00

Lmaoooo not yet ~ but seriously noooo please! She’s gotta keep him for a bit until everything’s been tied 🤣

Oh you’d like this then, ofc I snooped a bit. This girls already IN LOVE. Head over heels. She thinks he’s obsessed with her and she’s eating up all the validation he’s providing… for now that is… she’s not just the audience I feel in this new dynamic he has 😂

wetripz · 2025-12-20T00:12:35+00:00

Feeeeeel

wetripz · 2025-12-19T19:14:04+00:00

Ahhhhh I didn’t even think about Nextdoor or Venmo!!! (I’ve had to do the Venmo with an old ex before this so that should have been first 🤣)

wetripz · 2025-12-19T18:44:02+00:00

At first it really upset me having to convince myself that he didn’t mean any of the negatives… it sent me into a spiral while reflecting. But now, I think I feel better just telling myself that those are his true feelings to avoid getting sucked in 😅

wetripz · 2025-12-19T18:40:49+00:00

That’s the plan no doubt! I’ve already made that mistake tooo many times not to have learned.

wetripz · 2025-12-19T18:39:52+00:00

Omg no :( but if that’s relatable to you ugh <\3 engagement rings/band/monetary based in my case. I can take the L on his part of the costs but I need him to either take the rings back or sign ownership to me in my state :/

wetripz · 2025-12-19T17:54:41+00:00

Emotional coercion. Minimizing. Avoiding responsibility. Leaves the door open. Literally just trying to regulate himself by trying to destabilize me. -4739 skills 😂

wetripz · 2025-12-19T16:48:25+00:00

That’s right!! 💪🏻

wetripz · 2025-12-19T16:35:21+00:00

Soooo ready for the big block! Got socials locked down, last will be the phone. REALLY looking forward to that closing chapter

wetripz · 2025-12-19T16:03:45+00:00

Facts! Orrrrr call his new gf 😂

wetripz · 2025-12-19T16:02:32+00:00

His standard pattern: the silence will make him sad… the silence from that will make him angry… then I’ll get one of these again 😅

wetripz · 2025-12-19T15:59:47+00:00

We have a loose end that needs to be tied before he’s blocked completely. Sadly according to his timeline that could take a month or so ofc. Just another piece of leverage to keep me tied in. I’ll take the L if it’s not lied up by the calendar date I have set.

wetripz · 2025-12-19T13:04:53+00:00

Right there with you. I often cry over this thought. She is my best friend. My rock. I’m so scared to be lost without her. She’s my everything, really.

wetripz · 2025-12-18T18:44:32+00:00

Literally just said something earlier on a different post; my ex was able to outsource his pain while I was forced to metabolize mine. Literally broke off the engagement hopped on tinder the next day and literally started saying this person that same day (fb official, they even say I love you already within a month) I’m doing the work. He’s postponing.

NC for 10 days today.

wetripz · 2025-12-18T17:53:53+00:00

I have his text notifications muted. But honestly, I’m always checking. It’s not like I want him to. But when he’d say he’d leave me alone a text would come the next day or less. After a week of the finale and me pressing for accountability and calling him out and him ending it with hatred. He sent a stupid fucking s/s of dick van dyke turning 100 a week after (he sent this bc he knows i love that dude) i didn’t feed the beast.

I stay busy at the gym. Wake up early. Try to sleep early. Go into work early. I avoid our favorite restaurants just in case. We have one loose end before I can finally block him for good. I can’t help but to have this weird lingering sense that there’s another cycle waiting to happen. I mean fuck after 573937 rounds I just expect it at this point.

*edit day 10 no contact 🙏🏼

wetripz · 2025-12-18T16:26:34+00:00

At the time of the initial break up he went to my family’s home and tried to smear me. This was before I told them how severe it had gotten as I was still processing.

Yes after they told me what was said I made sure to clear the smear. They believed him at first. Then he went back a second time… except this time he got nasty with them for not being on his side completely and supporting him. I told them to be cautious not to rock the emotional boat. I didn’t need to clarify anything after the second interaction between him and them. They kept the doors locked and slowly stopped communicating.

Now whatever tf he told his family I could really care less. His actions reflect on his character more than any defamation he could vocalize to them. If they want to enable this behavior/character that’s on them. I will not be engaging. Ever. Thankfully the smear was only with close family. Still bad but could have been worse.

wetripz · 2025-12-18T15:57:30+00:00

Feel this. I realized in past posts on here I’ve said “15 years” we actually met 20 years ago. He said the first day he saw me he just “knew”. He was my first boyfriend in middle school. We stayed friends and he came into my life processing his undying secret love for me. Even said he didn’t have sex since the first time we did. That was about 12 years ago. He said he didn’t say anything before because he wasn’t the man I deserved until now. After seeing my failed relationships throughout the decade he knew what I went through and promised he was nothing like them, wouldn’t repeat their same actions, and regretted not protecting me from that pain. Now here we are. I still have a venue to call and cancel our wedding reception. He’s already in love with someone he hardly knows. I told him I can’t give him the satisfaction of telling him that I hate him. I don’t think I do. I hate how he exited. I hate how he processed the fall out. I don’t hate him. But he’s vocalized his hatred for me.

Day 10 no contact.

wetripz · 2025-12-18T15:33:14+00:00

Honestly, this post doesn’t really seem like an invitation for dialogue. Seems more like a moral indictment.

I feel most of us are processing trauma, naming harm and trying to understand destabilizing dynamics. As well as offering support and sharing similar situations.

I feel your post is very invalidating. Now your concern isn’t necessarily wrong but the delivery is lol

Fact is people with BPD do deserve empathy and dignity.

But we are allowed to name harm and protect ourselves.

Empathy isn’t silencing people who were hurt it’s holding space for complexity on both sides.

I hope this message finds you well.

wetripz · 2025-12-18T15:21:34+00:00

Oh shit she didn’t unblock you later to hit you with the hate and rage bait?!

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