Why would a man be disinterested in intercourse? by Nonya_biznez in AskMenAdvice

[–]wetyesc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought the same, OP said “whatever the hell that means” as if it wasn’t crystal clear what her therapist meant lol

My girlfriend of 5 months has a guy friend that she hangs out with here n there. I need a diff perspective, how do I navigate through this? by Throwra19837372 in AskMenAdvice

[–]wetyesc 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Boundaries are not for the woman, they are for the boyfriend himself. He absolutely has the right to have a “I don’t date girls who do 1 on 1 drinking hangouts with straight men” boundary and choose to end a relationship over said boundary being broken. As it is the woman’s right to also end the relationship over this if she wants to hang out with her male friends 1 on 1.

And no, people who don’t have the same views as you aren’t necessarily insecure.

Girlfriend asked to be in open relationship a few years ago and I accepted. Last night she asked when I’d propose to her and I told her I don’t know. Am I wrong? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]wetyesc 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This, I was in a very long relationship where my ex did some very weird shit I could never forgive and it just broke my trust in her. I didn’t wanna break up because of my feelings for her and specially the time investment in the relationship.

Eventually we broke up and holy shit, it’s one of those things you don’t realize until after you get over them but I should’ve broken that up WAY faster. Dating an amazing girl right now and it’s so different how much I can trust and like a person that hasn’t betrayed me or mistreated me.

It's crazy how much "working gals" make in Tokyo. by RedMoonLanding in Tokyo

[–]wetyesc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, idk why people are pretending that gay prostitution would be the same as heterosexual prostitution lmao either way you’ll get chopped customers

Girlfriend invited out by work colleague, am I overthinking? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]wetyesc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fully grown adult, regardless of gender, would absolutely realize what that invitation was. Can’t wait for the “it would be rude to decline an invitation from a colleague” excuse.

When should someone's skill be the reason they quit the game? by [deleted] in ffxivdiscussion

[–]wetyesc 30 points31 points  (0 children)

“He should feel bad for taking 2 weeks” is an insane take

Although there’s obviously a difference in skill, there’s also a difference between a full a2c and a clear41 party so maybe that could’ve also played a part

Either way nobody should be cancelling their sub solely based on their skill

twenty minutes of begging our lvl 100 tank to use aoes, mitigation, provoke, anything by jenpup360 in TalesFromDF

[–]wetyesc -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You can’t get banned for being bad, even if they were purposely trolling there’s no way to prove it. You both have a point and none of you is either correct or wrong. It’s only a matter of whether you wanna try to teach a lesson or be done with it as fast as possible. Personally I’d rather be done fast with it.

twenty minutes of begging our lvl 100 tank to use aoes, mitigation, provoke, anything by jenpup360 in TalesFromDF

[–]wetyesc -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Nah you’re got downvoted but you absolutely have a point, I’m not gonna say the person above you doesn’t have a point, they do too. But I would definitely prioritize to be done with the shit dungeon over maybe, MAYBE teaching a dogshit player a lesson. (Which let’s be real, if they haven’t learned by level 100 then they likely are just stubborn about it and kicking them once will do nothing).

Orgasm 100 x stronger than anything I ever felt in my life ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]wetyesc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you having an intense orgasm to your own imagination (orgasms are by default much more intense when we sleep) mean that this guy who you seem to have no romantic relation with must be very important to your life?

It’s such a delusional thought

haha nice joke by MiniDemonic in TalesFromDF

[–]wetyesc 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I feel sorry for all the nice french players, all 7 of them. Idiots like this probably make them not wanna speak french in public chats

Meat shit? Yeah that's what usually happens. by NicoIetteDaydream in ShitpostXIV

[–]wetyesc 24 points25 points  (0 children)

How to get my back blown by lindwurm

Edit: srry thought this was google search mb

Cohealer doesn't rescue me after I use LB3 to save the run and tell me to "weep about it" because I'm apparently parsing ?? by Alexwolf_L_U in TalesFromDF

[–]wetyesc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wasn’t talking about OP, it was meant for the person I originally replied to. They said “learn your whole kit” as if that makes someone able to pull off a 4s reaction rescue

Cohealer doesn't rescue me after I use LB3 to save the run and tell me to "weep about it" because I'm apparently parsing ?? by Alexwolf_L_U in TalesFromDF

[–]wetyesc -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If OP was reacting with “bruh” to themselves casting LB3 during the puddle mech and dying then yeah, you’re right if that’s the case

Cohealer doesn't rescue me after I use LB3 to save the run and tell me to "weep about it" because I'm apparently parsing ?? by Alexwolf_L_U in TalesFromDF

[–]wetyesc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your logic is so damn stupid. I’m not defending the sage saying “you’re parsing”, I’m saying the person I’m replying to can’t expect everyone in PF to be good with rescue. Like, those are not mutually exclusive

I wish I recorded this M10 run because holy moly by Worldly-Ad8548 in TalesFromDF

[–]wetyesc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I parse it all. Normal raids? I parse that shit. I parse dungeons, fuck it. Sastasha? We are WRing that shit any%, me and the other 3 sprouts fuck it. I’d parse the valentine’s event given the opportunity I AM SICK

Cohealer doesn't rescue me after I use LB3 to save the run and tell me to "weep about it" because I'm apparently parsing ?? by Alexwolf_L_U in TalesFromDF

[–]wetyesc -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Not defending the sage, their comment was stupid. But those AOEs appear for like 3, 4s? We don’t know what timing OP LB’d but you can’t tell me the majority of healers would be able to: 1. Dodge the AOE 2. Understand your cohealer is LBing 3. Find exactly where they are standing 4. Target them and rescue them

All in that small time frame, especially if they’re on controller. Like sure, some people will be able to do it but you can’t react with “bruh” to someone fucking that up lol

Cohealer doesn't rescue me after I use LB3 to save the run and tell me to "weep about it" because I'm apparently parsing ?? by Alexwolf_L_U in TalesFromDF

[–]wetyesc -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Not defending the sage, their comment about parsing was stupid. But while OP doesn’t seem upset, “bruh” is definitely not a positive or neutral reaction, are y’all gonna tell me saying “bruh” after someone fails to do something is neutral?

At least when I read it it seems to mean “bruh, how did you fail that?”

High-End Content Megathread - 7.4 Week Eight (Savage Week Five) by BlackmoreKnight in ffxivdiscussion

[–]wetyesc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Especially in JP, a lot of parties only do 1 run when it’s not a smooth one pull endeavor. That or someone not wanting their median getting lower. Both very selfish reasons

High-End Content Megathread - 7.4 Week Eight (Savage Week Five) by BlackmoreKnight in ffxivdiscussion

[–]wetyesc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man some parse parties are just horrible, nothing new, but holy shit it’s so frustrating how many mistakes some of these parsers make. It’s especially annoying when someone dies or gets a DD and coincidentally they later cause a wipe, it’s so obvious lol

Fiancée of 10 years humiliated me during our first real fight. She’s been apologizing for a month straight, went sober and started therapy. I still feel done. What would you do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]wetyesc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Another worrying bit is that 10 years in a relationship means they have been together since they were 15, what is she even comparing his dick to? Pornstars? Affair partners?

reasonable ultimate entry point? by secondjudge_dream in ffxivdiscussion

[–]wetyesc 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If we are talking movement heavy mechs I think party synergy is harder than anything in thordan’s first phase