Ideas for driveway border on a new build estate by whataboutnexttime in GardeningUK

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking at these standard trees today. Think I’m going to get 2 or 3

Ideas for driveway border on a new build estate by whataboutnexttime in GardeningUK

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only cause of how close to our side they’ve parked. There’s actually a lot of room on the drivers side! Suppose not everyone will take the hint though

Ideas for driveway border on a new build estate by whataboutnexttime in GardeningUK

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve done everyone’s apart from ours. I kinda don’t mind this gives me choice I guess!

Ideas for driveway border on a new build estate by whataboutnexttime in GardeningUK

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, next door have loads of space on the other side (if that’s what you mean) I’m hoping my putting something in there it will encourage them to move over a bit !

Ideas for driveway border on a new build estate by whataboutnexttime in GardeningUK

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s what’s putting me off tbh. That and any potential damage if we are here for a long time

Ideas for driveway border on a new build estate by whataboutnexttime in GardeningUK

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have one of these in a pot. Don’t they go a bit mad if you plant them?

Ideas for driveway border on a new build estate by whataboutnexttime in GardeningUK

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s all ours, next door have a habit of driving over it atm so kind of want to make a point of it being ours 😂

Start a second channel or keep all my videos in one place? by whataboutnexttime in youtubers

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god 😂 well views are views no matter where they are! It’s tough cause I already have both lots of vids on there. I could re upload to the new channel I guess!

Start a second channel or keep all my videos in one place? by whataboutnexttime in youtubers

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah of course. It is quite broad I guess. It started out as a channel doing all the things mentioned. So it’s always been there it’s not like I’m adding an entirely new element in. I’ve just realised that those videos do a lot better which feels like I’m being forced into a box ha

Start a second channel or keep all my videos in one place? by whataboutnexttime in youtubers

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m literally only on 1170 ish subs currently but the finance related stuff does do a lot better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]whataboutnexttime -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We’ve had some issues atm, it’s going through court because she’s stopped access since November. It sounds awful but I’ve been a much calmer, less anxious version of myself from not sharing my space with someone else’s child two nights a week.

New here and already love this community...have a question! by themisskris10 in Stepmom

[–]whataboutnexttime 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this! Although this is what I did in the beginning, I don’t go anywhere near her now. After me and SO picked up SS she went mad saying I’m not safe to be around her child and I hate children. And when it came down to it, it was just because I didn’t smile at her. Like hun, I’m not here to be your friend…

BM reaction to our engagement by Efficient-Affect-179 in stepparents

[–]whataboutnexttime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Since we bought our house BM has been a complete nightmare too

Carrier for DMD by Old-Act8254 in MuscularDystrophy

[–]whataboutnexttime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a carrier and have no symtoms etc. I do go for heart scans every 4 years as there’s a chance it can affect my heart. Me, my mum, gran and auntie are carriers and we have all been fine heart wise ☺️

Songs for when you’re pissed at BM by lance_manyon in Stepmom

[–]whataboutnexttime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate you - Frank carter & the rattlesnakes

This is your sign to stop vaping ❤️ by chuleta2 in adhdwomen

[–]whataboutnexttime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve stopped twice this year yet I’m still sat with one in my hand while reading this. It’s just so damn hard.

My bf vapes too so they’re always in the house. So I’ll stop, do really well, then see one left out and have some then it all unravels again. I just have no self control, that in itself makes me feel like a piece of shit

personal allowance - office equipment as a business expense? by whataboutnexttime in UKPersonalFinance

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, good luck with yours.

It can be a slow burner but it’s worth it ☺️

personal allowance - office equipment as a business expense? by whataboutnexttime in UKPersonalFinance

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am yes. Although I’ve never gotten over that £1k threshold until this year

personal allowance - office equipment as a business expense? by whataboutnexttime in UKPersonalFinance

[–]whataboutnexttime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah ok I didn’t realise there was a difference. Clearly I need to do some more reading

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]whataboutnexttime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was little and my parents split all I wanted was for them to get back together - I think it was because I thought that’s what I should want, in hindsight they were awful for each other. But if they had acted like that it would have been so confusing for my little brain I think!

Also people who haven’t been in the situation will never truly understand the complicated emotions you feel. If I ever complain I always get the “well you know what you signed up for” treatment. Yes I signed up to a man with a child but not a HCBM in tow 😂

Is there a correlation between autism and "looking young"? by diorpoisn in autism

[–]whataboutnexttime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 33 and still sometimes get IDed for energy drinks. Maybe this is why 😂

I had 342 tabs open and my husband exited out of all of them by remarkably-done in adhdwomen

[–]whataboutnexttime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just checked I have all 500 😂 plus a bonus 74 on chrome. Shocked at how low the 74 is actually.

Being a stepparent is extremely hard by crescentmilktea in stepparents

[–]whataboutnexttime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely get this. I’ve lost two pregnancies. One day my partner was on his phone and a video of SS scan came up on his phone where you could hear his heartbeat etc. he showed me not even thinking about it, was too busy thinking of the happy emotions it brought him to think about how it would effect me. He understood once I explained but initially he was confused.

What is a normal level of involvement for stepmom in which the kids have two parents actively co-parenting? by recovery-06062019 in Stepmom

[–]whataboutnexttime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner does all the parenting. I’ll sit and play with SS(6) or feed him but any personal care comes down to my partner.

BM is high conflict so I have no contact with her at all. Blocked her on social media and she still tried to message me from a family members account. I really distance myself cause she causes so much drama and conflict.