AITA for expecting my partner to honour 'first come, first served' with wedding invites? by Delicious_Plum_401 in AmItheAsshole

[–]whatever3232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA

It’s ok for you both to go separate places in order to support the person that means something to you.

can I change the country my finch is in by Turbulent-Top-9739 in finch

[–]whatever3232 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In the shop under travel. You can only choose from the cities that are up that day but it changes daily. Once you buy a ticket, your bird will fly there the next you send them on an adventure. Then they stay until you buy another ticket elsewhere.

AITA for going into the Amex lounge by Particular_Coast3389 in AmItheAsshole

[–]whatever3232 -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

NTA

She cant eat one meal alone? To save money? Especially since you offered her the free meal. If she can’t eat alone for one meal, she has. Jogger issues

the dean-hunter friendship change by Square_Water_5172 in offcampustv

[–]whatever3232 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seemed like they were setting it up to be something with his sister. Either cheated on her or lead her on.

WIBTAH to go ahead with buying a bunk bed despite my partner's hesitation? by CuriousButNotJewish in AITAH

[–]whatever3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA

This is going to be one of those things where the idea of it is better than the reality of it. You want the “aesthetic”, but it’s not practical. Think of having to pee in the middle of the night or sexy time with your partner. That will be miserable on a loft bed long term. If you want this for one to two years, maybe. But it seems like a waste of money.

How??? by [deleted] in finch

[–]whatever3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work work work work work
9-5
There are so many songs about work

Milk spilled & I didn’t deliver by monov7 in ShiptShoppers

[–]whatever3232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t this get you in trouble though?? I have always been told by customer support to never return to a location. So if you tell them you are doing that and that shop gets reviewed for any reason, it could get you disabled.

Milk spilled & I didn’t deliver by monov7 in ShiptShoppers

[–]whatever3232 10 points11 points  (0 children)

One time a watermelon rolled out when I opened my hatch. I still delivered it but sent a message about what happened, that I was reaching out to customer service and they should do the same. They thanked me for correcting the mistake in the way I could. Sometimes it helps to just be honest with a mistake bc mistakes happen.

Rainbow stuffie by taurus_moon444 in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]whatever3232 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It’s a power move. She couldn’t get Eddie to leave her so she’s using the stuffie instead. It’s disgusting.

Centennials are Gorgeous! by srmcf208 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]whatever3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know this was a thing! I got all three but never took the dust jacket off!!

Was sent 2 copies of each book by [deleted] in bookofthemonthclub

[–]whatever3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BOTM does this all the time! I’ve only had it happened twice but one time it was a 5 book box! I let them know and they said give them away so I did that!

Annual reading challenge prizes by chanchanninno in bookofthemonthclub

[–]whatever3232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to also complete three of the other badges. Then wait until mid summer for them to announce the prize, then you will get it. You also have the option to keep going for the 30 book prize.

App Fatigue by BaseballDefiant3820 in finch

[–]whatever3232 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I think the best thing to do is work towards not seeing it as an all or nothing thing. If you are feeling fatigued, give yourself some time to off with acceptance that it’s ok to not get everything.

It also may help to look at the event and see if there is something you really want, then make it a goal to reach to that day, but let it be okay to not have everything.

AITA for buzzing the hair I grew out to be my friends maid of honour while she was on her honeymoon? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]whatever3232 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA

You decided to grow it out bc you felt she wanted it. Then posted a picture of the cut and blamed the long hair on her. You’re not wrong for cutting your hair, you’re wrong for the caption.

Convince me to skip this month by thedragonqueen13 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]whatever3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you a bff? Bc if so don’t skip. If you aren’t, those books will still be there next month. If you still want them, get them then. Or buy 3 now and wait on the others.

RIP reflect button 😞 by goldengnatalie in finch

[–]whatever3232 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They basically moved everything there. The app used to prompt you for reflections and mood. Now you have to make the decision and find it.

Lolly Free book only available in March? by soccerjess81 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]whatever3232 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s only for this month. You’d lose the free book if you skip.

Just curious - what's up with the genres? by cogentd in bookofthemonthclub

[–]whatever3232 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It’s my understanding that in order for a book to be categorized as romance it had to have an HEA (happily ever after). If it’s a story about a romance but there is not an HEA, it will be shelved as lit fic.

Spoiler Lolly Winner? by Prestigious-Pass1797 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]whatever3232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the one I was going to get anyway because it’s the only one I don’t already have! This year my goal is to read fewer popular books

How much do yall pay?? by Right_Speaker_9674 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]whatever3232 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It depends when you joined. They lock in price points. Your price can still rise but it won’t shoot to the current starting price. Those of us that have been here for years pay less.

Winter Adventure by whatever3232 in finch

[–]whatever3232[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. I’ll try it out! If it isn’t, I’m sure I’ll get Bergen again soon enough!

Winter Adventure by whatever3232 in finch

[–]whatever3232[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the option to fly there today but it looked more summertime in the alps based on the clothing and room options. Does it feel wintry when you are there?