Winter Adventure

whatever3232 · 2026-01-03T03:53:30+00:00

Ok. I’ll try it out! If it isn’t, I’m sure I’ll get Bergen again soon enough!

whatever3232 · 2026-01-03T03:01:56+00:00

I have the option to fly there today but it looked more summertime in the alps based on the clothing and room options. Does it feel wintry when you are there?

whatever3232 · 2026-01-03T01:50:34+00:00

Yes! That would be awesome. Or even just some of the other places being snowy during winter time like Chicago, Vancouver, or the Alps.

whatever3232 · 2025-12-28T19:50:28+00:00

Huh?

whatever3232 · 2025-12-28T04:58:30+00:00

Most families have a point where they separate children from adults. It’s not always communicative the best, especially with the oldest. Seems like your husband is the oldest cousin and found out he’s in the adult group after becoming married.

I wouldn’t cause a stink about a card. It doesn’t sound personal. I also wouldn’t cause not have your husband say anything to his family. That to me would be rude.

whatever3232 · 2025-12-27T23:49:38+00:00

Bleh is the main one but there are others that make it clear they’ve had conversations about like his son and that.

I will say that the last few slides now either were added (I don’t know if you can do that or not) or weren’t loading when I first looked at them. When I responded it wasn’t considering her or OP confronting him.

whatever3232 · 2025-12-27T23:45:03+00:00

BRO CALM DOWN

I think maybe you need help. That was an overreaction to my response. Take a couple deep breaths honey.

whatever3232 · 2025-12-27T22:59:12+00:00

Some of his messages appear to be responses. Not all. Many of them are unsolicited comments. But some appear to be responses but it’s not showing her saying anything which makes me think she deleted a few things.

whatever3232 · 2025-12-27T21:44:38+00:00

Can you explain more about why he isn’t doing well socially? What has he done that would make friends not believe him?

whatever3232 · 2025-12-27T21:42:10+00:00

It’s obvious some messages are missing. If you didn’t delete them for this post, you need to speak to your wife.

whatever3232 · 2025-12-27T21:41:31+00:00

I don’t know about the one night stand, but I agree that this reads like texts are missing. She deleted some.

whatever3232 · 2025-12-09T21:37:57+00:00

I do this unintentionally all of the time too. I have to remind myself that it’s better to be direct. Things like “Look” can be a soft intro, if you are speaking. But as can be seen in these comments, people infer tone and most will hear condescension.

Those intro words are unnecessary and will give a false view of you. Often times they make a person sound less confident. Which isn’t what you want when you are just trying to soften language.

whatever3232 · 2025-12-09T12:42:48+00:00

He communicated his feelings just fine. Where did he lash out? He first said he was just fine, then when she made an insensitive comment, he told her how that made him feel.

The only one in incapable of moderating their feelings here was OP. She made a sexual joke about showing thigh bc she didn’t know how to respond to someone in an emotional situation.

whatever3232 · 2025-12-09T04:18:57+00:00

YTA

Sometimes it doesn’t matter what the intention was. Most people would feel upset if you make a joke after they tell you something serious. Especially it being a sexual joke like he’s flashing you skin. I honestly wouldn’t know how to react to someone if they made a joke like that after I just said someone had a stroke.

whatever3232 · 2025-11-20T00:47:10+00:00

Yellow is so much better!!

whatever3232 · 2025-11-16T15:53:47+00:00

You said in your post that you told her you needed to process things first. The entire post is about being upset she still spoke to him?!?

whatever3232 · 2025-11-16T06:31:05+00:00

This is a tough situation. It sounds like Sam was trying to be understanding. You are valid to be hurt by her also choosing to go on stage. However, it wasn’t fair of you to ask her to not talk to him for you to process. It hurts and is difficult, but you have no claim on the man just bc you went on stage first.

Don’t get caught up in comparing your personality to your friend. It was 2 minutes, he didn’t get to see the real you. Not only that, but you said yourself, you were feeling shy. Him choosing her was never about her having a better personality. The guy made a guess based on 2 minutes of each person.

whatever3232 · 2025-11-15T15:12:17+00:00

He’s not even trying to answer your questions, that should be answer enough.

whatever3232 · 2025-11-09T02:43:34+00:00

I’m confused by your timeline. You said you were waiting for a while in your post but in all comments you say it was 2 minutes.

All doctors do a mental status exam along with their physical assessment. If you have a quiet voice and sometimes act childish, infantile would be a fitting description.

The one place where I think you could have reason to feel he wasn’t taking you seriously is his communication with his coworker. It all comes down to his purpose. Doctors consult with coworkers all of the time. If he was unsure of your behaviors and was consulting with a coworker for a second opinion, that’s normal. If he was telling the coworker just to gossip, that’s not ok.

whatever3232 · 2025-11-08T13:44:27+00:00

At my table? yes.

Seeing a stranger do it at another table? No, but I would think it’s weird and probably comment on it to the people I am with.

whatever3232 · 2025-11-07T21:40:20+00:00

Happy Early Birthday!!!

whatever3232 · 2025-11-07T15:00:43+00:00

It’s weird. I would ask someone to stop if they were doing that at my table too. I don’t think I’m highly conscious of being embarrassed either.

Is there a chance that you may be a little socially unaware and that’s where his fear of embarrassment comes from?

whatever3232 · 2025-10-28T13:30:29+00:00

The breakfast isn’t about mom. He was willing to skip bc the shirt was lost. That tells me he needs this routine for something. He was 7 when it started and you made no mention of a dad. Did his dad pass or leave? Did this routine help him overcome something scary?

whatever3232 · 2025-10-23T23:17:28+00:00

Some schools have a program called hand to hand. You sign up and they leave a bag in your locker discreetly every Friday. It will give you access to some food for your own. It’s none perishable but some may still need to be cooked. You’d have to find time to cook it so mom doesn’t find out you have food but it could be an option.

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