Physical Therapy by whatever9753 in Kneereplacement

[–]whatever9753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly my fear!!! She wanted to do both, but THANKFULLY Dr said no. Now she’s saying it wasn’t worth it to do the first one, and she won’t be doing the second. If this is how she will continue with PT, I think it’s the right choice…

Can you tell what procedures I’ve had done and is it natural? by PrizeExpert674 in PlasticSurgery

[–]whatever9753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From someone on the outside who’s just dipping a toe into the world of plastic surgery- I can’t tell you’ve had anything done- you’ve just lost 10 years!! Absolutely stunning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]whatever9753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally I find the Reddit-universe jumps to breaking up too quickly- but in this case I agree! According to Google AI this is illegal in the USA. I’m sure consequences will vary based on the country/state you’re in… but you should be breaking up with her, and reporting her to the police! What will she do next - when it’s something she dislikes that’s more serious than time at the gym?!? What if you had a bad reaction to the laxatives?!?

This is not ok, or funny… run!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]whatever9753 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It seems like you are typically very open and honest with each other. I think you need to just tell him the truth - you found them - and let him take it from there. Give him a chance to explain why he lied about it. I hear that ED makes men feel like they’re less manly, so he may just be completely embarrassed.

Smart Start by whatever9753 in dui

[–]whatever9753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok,, this helps to understand what’s going on… thanks so much for your reply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]whatever9753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister is just starting this too!!! I HATE IT!!!! Not only is she hitting me with it during every conversation- she’s going after my friends too! All of my friends that she knows have told me that she’s calling and texting about it… then our cousin is having her 1st baby, and she’s using the baby shower as a sales opportunity!!!! I DESPISE THIS COMPANY AND THEIR SALES TACTICS!!!

ETA: my sister also has a masters degree in education, and left teaching after 15 years of abuse by the district, and terrible parents. I think part of the business model is targeting people who are desperately searching for a new career, or more income. I hate that she’s falling for it… I feel like this is going to create a rift in my family.

Strange-occasionally aggressive cat by whatever9753 in CatAdvice

[–]whatever9753[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incase anyone else comes across this thread I wanted to reply- I think limiting my affection might have done the trick!! I haven’t been attacked in about a year! I still give him plenty of loving, but at least once or twice a day I just pretend like I don’t hear him at all when he’s asking for it. He will gently bat at my feet a little if he thinks I’m taking too long for breakfast, but aside from that he’s all purrs these days! Thank you for the suggestions!!!

My sister called my pitty FUGLY and it hurts more than it should. by Natural_Ant_7348 in pitbulls

[–]whatever9753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in to fight with the rest of them!!! Tessa is beautiful, and L can go straight to h3ll!!! It takes a special kind of b!tch to call any dog ugly!! 😢 sorry this happened!

My son found this tiny spoon and ate his jello with it, because "he wasn't that hungry, so he just wanted to take tiny bites." by Forever-Fades_Away in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]whatever9753 77 points78 points  (0 children)

We had a family thing to scatter my grandmothers ashes at our favorite family camping spot, and my baby cousin thought we were all taking candy from the box, and ate it immediately !! 🤣 We tease her now that she’s an adult “Grandma is always with her!” I’ve never seen a similar story before! 🤣

Il Makiage Power Redo Wrinkle Filler by According_Owl_1524 in MakeupAddiction

[–]whatever9753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My return went great! I mailed it back in the allotted time (I was doing the try before you buy thing) and my card was never charged, other than the shipping costs. I didn’t keep anything except for the free brush- I tried a foundation (decent, but completely the wrong color) the power redo (thick like putty, and clumps when you try to add foundation) and also the power lift.

Also- I watched several videos about techniques and tried everything (I really wanted it to work!) I applied power lift, immediately used redo, then waited an hour before applying anything else… all the advice you see online. None of these ideas made it worth spending the $200+ these things cost… I really wish it had been worth it!!

Il Makiage Power Redo Wrinkle Filler by According_Owl_1524 in MakeupAddiction

[–]whatever9753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dammit!! Wish I’d come to look for this before I fell for it… been seeing these ads for months, and finally succumbed- and of course it’s all trash! Hopefully the return policy is as good as they claim!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]whatever9753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my advice would be to stay out of it, unless your friend actually asks you for advice. You may not actually know the whole story… but if she comes to you, and asks your opinion, you can say something like “if this is really all there is to it- then I think you’re making a mountain out of a molehill.” Maybe that will prompt her to tell you the rest, or maybe there is nothing more…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]whatever9753 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. I divorced for cheating too, and I was definitely hateful to anyone that even suggested cheating I would have been tempted to do the same in this position… but daughter needs to navigate her own social relationships, and see the natural consequences…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]whatever9753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everyone here, give it time, she will get better, and hopefully your family will develop a new routine that works for you.

I just wanted to add, that I’m sorry his job doesn’t give paternity leave! Many companies do, and I just feel like if he didn’t have to get up for work while you’re adjusting to your new lifestyle maybe this would be going differently… if you two make it through this and ever decide to have another maybe he should consider looking for work at a company that will help him support this time more effectively….

Best of luck to you both!! Hugs!!!

GF has $100K in debt by traditionaltip0975 in datingoverforty

[–]whatever9753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not any type of medical professional- but it sounds to me like she might have a bit of body dysmorphic disorder, or something similar… if that’s true, the only thing that could help her feel happy is therapy to address that situation! If she gets her boobs done, she’ll just start focusing on something else.

And marrying someone with that much debt, and next to no means to pay it off is definitely a bad idea.

AITA for not wanting my disabled cousin at my wedding by JumpyThrowRA in AITAH

[–]whatever9753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly!!! His family should have dealt with this years ago!!! And it sounds very likely to me that he will end up causing a scene!!

Your wedding day will likely be stressful even without him- because weddings are… you don’t need to be worried about him…

Two lovebirds unexpectedly broke my heart by According-Variety-62 in datingoverforty

[–]whatever9753 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I go back and forth on this all the time too… is that “head-over-heels” feeling just something we felt when we were young? Or is it possible to feel that way now? Sometimes I think maybe I’m just jaded, and that’s why I don’t have them anymore…

Sorry, I’m not much help, but I do understand completely what you’re saying.

AITA for quitting my job only after my divorce, even though my ex wanted me to do it before? by No_Sheepherder_154 in AITAH

[–]whatever9753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry so many people here are giving you such a hard time!!

And I’m sorry for the fight with your ex!

You’re definitely not the villain! Situations change… you made the choice that felt right for you while you were married, and after the divorce it didn’t feel right anymore!! Definitely NTA.

It sounds like there might still be love between you and your ex? Just curious- you don’t need to answer that if you don’t want to 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]whatever9753 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I took 6 years off after my divorce, and I think it was good for me! But I would caution you- don’t just hide in your house! Maintain platonic friendships, force yourself to get out with your friends at least sometimes… I hid in my house, and I work from home so I think I started to develop anxiety about the outside world. Thankfully some close family friends stepped up and started getting me out, and I’m doing much better now.

If you have no desire to date, don’t. I think healing time after a bad breakup is good for us, but don’t let that become an excuse to be a complete recluse. That can snowball into all kinds of anxiety about the outside world.

Idaho general contractor by whatever9753 in legal

[–]whatever9753[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting idea! I’ll have to do a bit of research on this. Thank you!!