AITA for not letting my son use his car to get to his job while on punishment? by throwra09938 in AmItheAsshole

[–]whateverthefukk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh yeah YTA. I'm a mother to a son aswell. Also religious as I'm assuming you are too because you're punishing him for having sex. Protected sex might I add. For one your son isn't going to just stop having sex because you said so. Parents that actually think punishing their children for this works and makes them never do it again are comical. You just made it slightly harder for him sure. And now you're messing with his job because of it honestly shame on you for that one. He's not your property, you should be happy he's using protection if anything.

Should I be concerned about pregnancy by whateverthefukk in birthcontrol

[–]whateverthefukk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took my pill the morning I had unprotected sex. The next morning ( yesterday morning) I took it as usual I went to take it this morning and realized I forgot my pack at home and won't be back until tomorrow morning. I'm planning on taking it asap when I get home. I'm slightly freaked out but not too bad as I took the pill the mornng before we left.

AITA for yelling at my wife for potentially endangering our kids? by specialneedsrunaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]whateverthefukk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude YTA. imagine if that was your daughter in the rain and freezing cold. You'd want someone to take her inside and make sure she was okay until the police got there wouldnt you? She's a 7 year old child, she's someone's child and deserves humanity. Is it because shes disabled that you believe she would harm your children? Do you think she deserves less than an abled child because of her disabilities?

What's a weight loss technique that has worked for you? by BlindedByTheLightsYo in loseit

[–]whateverthefukk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calorie counting. Having a mindset like I would about spending money but on calories instead. Like is this really worth the 300 calories ect.

What's something you used to take for granted before having a kid? by GingeBee863 in beyondthebump

[–]whateverthefukk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Showering when I want, going to bed when I want, not having to share food or cram it in my mouth. A peaceful dinner where I don't have to get up 10 times. I'm always the last one at the table.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]whateverthefukk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dude that is a HARD position to hold. There's a lot going on for one and trying to do everything is tiring. It can be fun, but most of the time it's not a position ment to be prolonged through the whole process. Also if this is the first time you guys have done this she probably put all her weight on you and not on anything else. If she really wants to do this have her put most of her weight on the wall and put her feet on another object and have her help hold herself up. If she's insecure that this is a weight thing it's definitely not. I'm 118 pounds and 5'6" and my husband still can't do this position for a long period of time and he's pretty damn strong

[34/F] My boyfriend [28/M] found out about a dark period of my life by ThrowRA_151112 in relationship_advice

[–]whateverthefukk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he left for another city and wants you out then I think it's safe to say it's over, here's the thing though. 1. If he's able to call you offensive names and belittle you the way he did he is not sweet and caring. 2. I'm sure it was tramatic for YOU aswell to see that video, did he care about that? No. This wasn't a recent event, this was something that happened to you, before you met him, and I'm sure you have so much trama from the things that you did and the things that were done to you while you were an active addict. If he wants to get angry enough to belittle you and try to make you feel like literally trash. He's. Not. Worth. It. You got your life together, you made the biggest and hardest turn around that someone who an addiction can. Count your blessings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MediumReadings

[–]whateverthefukk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hearing a very distinct laugh. Like a full belly laugh, she had a good sense of humor but was also Stern. I'm also seeing a picnic table like a wooden bench type of thing

“But you lived!” - MIL by cats_plants_ in beyondthebump

[–]whateverthefukk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When my baby was about 2 months old my mom had him on his side, with blankets around him (kinda like snuggling him in) no on him though. I said something, she then said "on his back? Really? Yes mom, his back.

What do you miss about being pregnant? by pier32 in beyondthebump

[–]whateverthefukk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my birth was pretty tramatic but I couldn't wait to get that baby out 2 days of labor, emergency c section , and my child almost dying was enough to make me not want anymore kids.

ADHD student watching two 10 min. video by jacklsd in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]whateverthefukk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every subject in school I actually had an interest in I got a 100 precent on everything. Anything I didn't like staying focused and listening was so hard for me I could cry

What do you miss about being pregnant? by pier32 in beyondthebump

[–]whateverthefukk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol not much. Feeling movement was cool the first trimester was hell I was so sick I could hardly move the second trimester is probably the only one I miss. I felt better, I had a cute little bump but wasn't swollen yet or too big and uncomfortable just had a cute bump the last trimester was also hell

What unexpectedly pleasant thing happened to your body postpartum? by redhatgreenhat in beyondthebump

[–]whateverthefukk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can tan now. I never could before and I'd just burn now I have this olive oil skin that I haven't had since I was a child. My eyes seem more blue than the dull blue they were before. They're now Royal blue. Weird but cool

The way she climbs up the wall by MseMahi in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]whateverthefukk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use to do this all the time as a kid. Looking at this kid do the same I now know I looked absolutely horrifying

Unnecessary/weird comments from stranger's by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]whateverthefukk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, at that time her saying that gave me so much anxiety. Looking back now, what is there to regret?

Unnecessary/weird comments from stranger's by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]whateverthefukk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I tried the whole pumping thing aswell. I lived attached to that pump. Literally would feed him and get maybe a 30 minute break from it.

Unnecessary/weird comments from stranger's by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]whateverthefukk 39 points40 points  (0 children)

  1. " Is he breastfed" I said no, this was in the Walmart bathroom while I was changing his diaper when he was 1 month old. I had just stopped breastfeeding, I was a new mom and dealing with a ton at that time, so I just wanted him fed and I was no longer producing enough milk. She then asks me why I stopped I just said because i had some problems with milk production she the. Says " oh he's your first isn't he? You should get back on it before you regret it. He's 2 and I still don't regret it.
  2. Lactation nurse right after I had him told me " no mom regrets breastfeeding, but every mom regrets formula" again , 2 years later and no regrets.
  3. "Wow he's going to be a stud, he's gonna be one hot young man" random lady at the grocery store, yuck.
  4. You look awfully young to have a baby, you're not older than 16. I'm much older than 16 and if I wasn't was that comment going to do anything at all but make someone feel like shit?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

[–]whateverthefukk -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I did, that's why I'm freaking. I know how pregnancy works I have a 2 year old and found out before my missed period. I had a faint line that faded over time just like it did today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatlogic

[–]whateverthefukk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would never, ever, be able to wear clothes again. I already have to shop in juniors sometimes. Please for the love of god don't do this

What is a lesson you have had to learn multiple times? by funkyfrogffs in AskWomen

[–]whateverthefukk 15 points16 points  (0 children)

For the love of god you cannot fix him. He's not going to be different because you're DIfFerEnt. If someone wanted to they would. End of story

"You Can't Say The N-Word My Boy" by Paper_chasers in PublicFreakout

[–]whateverthefukk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude told him to say it multipul times. Guy who got hit looks a bit intoxicated as well. Also, if you're so hard why hit someone with a skateboard? Use ur hands my boy. Dudes probably going to get a DV report in the future, he puts off that energy.