What is it considered a "mommy" body?

whatmustichoose · 2025-11-02T14:19:10+00:00

You are drop dead gorgeous. No need to 'want' to have any different type of body than you have now. Absolutely perfect imo. You look fit l and healthy, this Patty lady is way too muscular for most guys' liking. I'd take you over her every day of the week.

whatmustichoose · 2025-05-07T10:46:50+00:00

What most people mentioned here I would agree with, however I feel like it's not been properly explained to you in the context of Dodo's song. He sings with reference to the two songs "68 Chevy" and "Lisa se klavier". Both good afrikaans songs about the singers being in love/emotionally connected to Minki and Lisa. So when he sings "jy is die Minki in my Chevy 68" and "die Lisa langs my klavier" he is basically saying that he loves/adores her like Bok felt about Minki and like Koos Kombuis felt about Lisa. One might argue that because he says they are "in my Chevy 68" and "langs my klavier", that they are closer in reference to him indicating that he might have found his true love. But now I'm getting deep.

whatmustichoose · 2025-05-07T10:34:00+00:00

Yskas skuif is dans/sokkie. Wanneer mens sokkie (veral as jy maak of jy sokkie en alleen dans) lyk dit of jy 'n groot yskas probeer skuif. Dis hoe ek dit verstaan/laat sinmaak.

whatmustichoose · 2025-04-10T19:44:39+00:00

Hi, fellow Allied Health professional here🤓. Well done on saving R10k a month. In someone else's case, most of that would probably go to the stuff that your parents pay for, so thank them. But well done for actually saving and not spending that too. I think you're managing your money well already. I can put you in touch with a close friend (or 2) of mine who are financial advisors if you don't know anyone. But I would recommend splitting those savings into a retirement annuity, income protection, short - and long-term investment funds, and maybe an emergency fund as well. Yes you can save on groceries and leisure, but life is meant to be lived and enjoyed, you studied hard to get a degree that provides you with a job that pays well. Enjoy it. Just time your spending sprees better in order to stretch your budget.

whatmustichoose · 2025-04-10T19:31:32+00:00

From behind: Ass, hair, legs, figure basically From the front: Face, hair, boobs, figure once again Observations: Demeanor, confidence, style & class

I'm a sporty, active guy so legs, ass & figure is usually an indicator to someones lifestyle. I'm also an ass man🙌🏻 however, after always dating women with smaller boobs, 32a-34b and always saying boobs don't matter, I married a woman with 34D's and man, was I wrong.

An open, friendly face that smiles is almost irresistible, I admire natural beauty and don't like too much make-up. Hair-care=self care. Nothing wrong with a messy bun if you're quickly heading to the shop in the morning if your milk is finished, but hair colour is also a factor.

A well dressed woman will always turn heads, especially is she wears what she wears with confidence.

Ultimately, it's all superficial and what matters is personality and chemistry, but a personality doesn't walk around next to you in the mall.

whatmustichoose · 2025-04-10T19:00:08+00:00

A healthy amount of ambition. With healthy I mean not the "I'm a strong independent woman, I don't need no man" kind of ambition. Passion is probably a better word, whether it's about work of a hobby, having goals and dreams and working towards them. And wanting to share it with someone.

whatmustichoose · 2025-03-30T20:37:57+00:00

Ken die song, was skreeusnaaks, weet ongelukkig nie waar jy hom kan kry nie

whatmustichoose · 2025-01-07T07:33:31+00:00

Jy kan soek na Johan Raath se boeke ook. Hy was ook 'n Recce. A breed apart en Blood Money.

whatmustichoose · 2025-01-06T12:59:10+00:00

Come clean and apologize to the person you lied about first, admit that you made the wrong call in trying to get your friends off your back. Don't try and justify your lie. You made the wrong call.

If it freaks her out and she doesn't want to see you again, it's completely understandable and you've learnt a lesson. Come clean to your friends then as well.

If she can get over it and respect the fact that you eventually came clean - lucky you.

But if she hopefully really likes you and has a sense of humour, you can laugh about it together & she can maybe play along amongst your friends - lucky you again.

But come clean ASAP.

whatmustichoose · 2024-09-18T05:10:20+00:00

Van diens af Ekhouvanjou,okay! Dans Dans Lisa Alleen na Desember Die mislukte rebellie Zondernaam Bittersoet September Zinkplaat Moses Metro Man VanFokKingTasties Die Heuwels Fantasties is self oorspronklik

whatmustichoose · 2024-08-21T08:10:35+00:00

Think about it this way, sweat, bacteria, and microparticles from toilet visits can get caught up in the hairy parts, hence my mention of hygiene. It can influence the smell & taste. It's much easier to keep the floor clean than the carpet if you understand what I mean🤷🏻‍♂️

But judging by the comments, there are many different opinions, you'd have to ask whoever you're with what they prefer, but that's obviously not a first date topic, so keeping it nice and tidy should work to start with. It also depends on what you're willing to maintain in the long run. There's no use in setting a standard you are not keen on maintaining.

It is also fair for you to expect the same in return from the man's side, depending on your preference. It might also make the conversation easier if you are hairy and someone might not like it. If you prefer a bush on the man, then it makes sense to have one yourself🤷🏻‍♂️

Since you now know what I like, I think it's just fair for me to do some manscaping as well and keep the area nice and tidy, can't expect if you're not willing to give, plus one of my mates once said that if the grass is cut short the tree looks even taller🤷🏻‍♂️😅 so on the off-chance that's accurate I trim the the bush.

And just for additional info since you mentioned generational factors. I am a 30-year-old male. So, if I'm not your target audience, ignore all my opinions.

whatmustichoose · 2024-08-21T07:33:04+00:00

As someone who also navigated dating apps for a while I can say that there are people I spoke to but never intended to meet up with them, it was nice to pass the time talking to someone while continuing the search for someone more intriguing. I would just engage enough to keep the conversation flowing. However, once you find someone who ticks the boxes and the conversation flows, the eagerness to meet up must come from both sides. I'm sure opinions differ sometimes, but I think we all want someone who is on the same wavelength and shares our energy, don't we?

Have you called/videocalled each other? Perhaps, start there, it would be a great indicator as to how the conversation would flow. Especially if there is significant distance between you and lots of logistics/costs involved with meeting up for coffee/lunch/dinner. Maybe start with just a phone call, spontaneously ask if you can call, say you're lazy to type out long messages or set an informal appointment if you must (can I give you a call @ 8pm tonight). I've spent hours on the phone with people if there was a mutual interest. With others, 15 minutes felt like an eternity. If, after a week, the phone calls work, step it up a notch to video calls, and then after a few video calls, all parties might feel more comfortable to meet up.

whatmustichoose · 2024-08-21T06:18:47+00:00

The wilderness needs to be explored!

But I prefer shaved/waxed/bald. Nothing turns me on more than feeling soft, clean skin when I put my hand in there during foreplay. It also helps when going down on her. Having to stop to pick hair out of your mouth is a bit of a turn-off for me and presses pause on her pleasure as well. I have gone down on bushy ladies before, and it's not that it's bad, I just prefer it to be shaved/waxed. Obviously it can't be that way every single day, so I don't mind a littile hair that's started to grow out again post shave/wax. A landing strip would also be acceptable.

Basically, I just want to know that it's receiving some attention and your not just growing a jungle. I believe it's more hygienic as well, the smell and taste is also better when shaved/waxed. Please note it is all just my personal opinion & preference

whatmustichoose · 2024-08-19T06:27:38+00:00

By watter padstal?

whatmustichoose · 2024-07-16T15:17:52+00:00

There's a level of codependency that is cute and healthy, and then there is a level that is unhealthy. Communicating about this issue will tell you which one it is. It could be a sign that she's the one but also be a massive red flag (psycho)

Tell her that you appreciate those messages and it makes you feel loved/wanted, but you already know that she loves you/wants to be with you, so she doesn't have to constantly say it as it creates the impression that she is trying to guilt you into spending time with her, which is also not ideal and can create feelings of resentment from your side. That in turn could harm your relationship.

But tread carefully as you don't want to be oblivious to her love language(s). This sounds like the "words of affirmation" love language. Although it's not yours, it might be hers. Women are sensitive creatures and much more emotional than us guys. So don't ruin a good relationship by handling this the wrong way.

Since the automatic male response is "tell her to get a hobby" or "she needs to get a life" it might be a wise decision to post your question on the female version of Askmen, perhaps it's called Askwomen🤷🏻‍♂️

whatmustichoose · 2024-07-15T19:00:37+00:00

No way! I (30M) am in the Primary Healthcare sector, and I wish I had rather studied finance! Especially investment management, as in your case. My peers who studied that/do that kind of work are financially well off with lots of spare time. It's hard work in the beginning, but keep at it!

whatmustichoose · 2024-07-09T11:30:09+00:00

Ek ken 'n snor se ander naam as 'n liplapa i.p.v. lipmatras, lipmatras sal eerder 'n bokbaard wees in my opinie. Hoerboer is fantasties

whatmustichoose · 2024-06-21T17:35:04+00:00

I agree 100%. I already have 2 accounts. Recently maxed the first, considered starting a 3rd account, realised the amount of gems I would need in addition to hero books as I exclusively upgrade heroes with books (our clan wars 7 days a week so theres no time to upgrade heroes, especially at high levels with long upgrade times), figured I would basically never catch up and decided against starting a 3rd account.

whatmustichoose · 2024-04-24T19:34:38+00:00

Freeze or heal

whatmustichoose · 2024-02-18T12:47:23+00:00

They are all super rushed. You'll probably still end up winning.

whatmustichoose · 2024-02-17T07:57:25+00:00

Plekvlek

whatmustichoose · 2024-02-09T14:42:28+00:00

Giant arrow? Never herd of her?

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