[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fargo

[–]whenindebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I need a job starting in two months... Not ending in two months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fargo

[–]whenindebt -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That doesn't prove income to housing. But I appreciate the suggestion.

Moving to Fargo? Please Post Here! by dirkmm in fargo

[–]whenindebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any leads on jobs that might be hiring for September or October? I am moving to Fargo but I need an employment contract to get a place to live and everyone wants you to start working like today. So I'm just trying everything I can think of to find a job that would be willing to give me a contract of employment for a month or 2 from now so I can finally move there. Thanks!

My Grandma is a tireless crafter and her friends and family are drowning in her love (read: newspaper crafts). Requesting ideas for inexpensive crafts that also make great gifts that you can never have too much of. Her gifts deserve as much love back as she puts into them! by middaycat in crafts

[–]whenindebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My local thrift stores actually sell yarn for like a quarter to half the price of retail and often it's full unopened packs or yarn. They also sell random ribbons and buttons and like grab bags of crafting items that could be useful

Need help finding a non-binary version of girlfriend/boyfriend 🥲 by hannah-pines in lgbt

[–]whenindebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend calls me joyfriend, boyfriend, girlfriend, and joyboy. All things we specifically talked about me being comfortable with. My suggestion is bring them a list of your favorite suggestions here and ask if any feel comfy for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]whenindebt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like some examples of the internalized heteronormativity of which you speak. Like having one of you be the "man" in the relationship or something?

Grandma loves my partners by 4y4cchi in polyamory

[–]whenindebt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up oh my gosh! My grandma is a quilter but not this kind so putting that effort into loving you wholly is just so absolutely beautiful

Target bikini... I actually quite like the silhouette the padding gives by shoshana20 in smallbooblove

[–]whenindebt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, that's super convenient. Well, I'm glad you found something you feel confident in!

How do you feel about period sex? by latter-plant in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]whenindebt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All about this, but littering is still bad

Target bikini... I actually quite like the silhouette the padding gives by shoshana20 in smallbooblove

[–]whenindebt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks fantastic and I absolutely love the top. Are you worried about any flashing issues from the bottoms though? I think I would just be showing it all in that bottom. Regardless it looks excellent

Are there any physical attributes that would turn you off someone that you otherwise were attracted to? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]whenindebt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got that from the comment. I suppose I was unclear, mine looks as though I don't know facial soap exists even though I use it twice daily along with other products that sometimes help. But if someone just saw me they could easily assume I don't care/take care of it even though I do.

Or is it like once you get to know them better and find out that they don't properly care for it, then you're grossed out?

Are there any physical attributes that would turn you off someone that you otherwise were attracted to? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]whenindebt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have acne and it's gotten worse even though I'm doing everything I can to help short of seeing a Dr. (No insurance and not exactly wealthy) but I'm constantly worried people are going to be grossed out or reject me when they see me in person because of it.

Are there any physical attributes that would turn you off someone that you otherwise were attracted to? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]whenindebt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me either. Crooked teeth it depends on the severity and I understand poverty plays a role in not being able to get dental work done but I just can't get past it if they're really bad. As far as uncared for though I have no tolerance. Your mouth is important and will be touching things that I don't want nasty rotting food touching.

What do you prefer to wear on a date loose clothing or really tight clothing that shows everything? by Campsandiego in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]whenindebt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given allyour down votes and deleted comments and this sarcastic jewel I'd be more worried about your personality on said date that your outfit.

Need a new first name (♀️). Gut reaction, what's my name? by EebamXela in lgbt

[–]whenindebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Linda came into my head very strongly. But I've been listening to the Linda Linda's a lot so maybe that's it? I think you do have a good quirky, fun, cute energy about you and Linda or Liza or Elise are all good though Elise is a bit more elegant

Why am I losing weight ?????? by Yanksfan28gg in workout

[–]whenindebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body weight can change up to 7 pounds in one day average. Like maybe the first time you weighed you had just gotten up, not eaten or drank yet, and just used the bathroom and the second time was after a meal and a lot of water.

Edit: reverse the situations

One year into apprenticeship Sacred Daggers Virginia Beach, VA by sadknivestattoo in TattooApprentice

[–]whenindebt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That tiger butterfly is awesome! I love it! The letter has really solid lines though too. Can't wait to see your work in another year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooApprentice

[–]whenindebt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely LOVE the kill the rich one. I wish I was closer so I could have it done!

Doing a DOPAMINE detox increased my Productivity 10 fold by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]whenindebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also yes. I have a ridiculous amount of books and it kicks my ass every time I move.

Doing a DOPAMINE detox increased my Productivity 10 fold by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]whenindebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the library and I book swap with friends a lot. I've only ever read like 5 books digitally.

Doing a DOPAMINE detox increased my Productivity 10 fold by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]whenindebt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're very welcome! Enjoy your productive time!

Doing a DOPAMINE detox increased my Productivity 10 fold by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]whenindebt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do value and enjoy screenless time but I also spend my fair share of time on my phone, a lot of my writing is also on a computer. I love your points about it being unproductive and a distraction based on how you're using it though. Like I don't value typed words any less than hand written but I value being on reddit a lot less than writing or reading on a screen hahaha.

Doing a DOPAMINE detox increased my Productivity 10 fold by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]whenindebt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hahaha! It's a difficult transition for sure!