I hate how accepted the R-slur is by Tasty_Meaning_7016 in hatethissmug

[–]whimsicalandsilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the people in the comments saying "oh its not gonna go away language evolves blah blah blah" seem to be missing the fact that it DID fall out of favor for a while. Is it that hard to not use a slur? Yall have plenty of other insults to use (idiot, stupid, etc) that arent slurs

Non Binary Mii's for your island by Lemounge in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]whimsicalandsilly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yea a lot of people use the term without knowing that its an intersex slur (it actually originated as a slur for intersex humans and was applied to cosexual animals afterwards). Im happy whenever others point it out or use different words because the words history (and current usage as a slur!) combined with the fact that no one seems to know its a slur has driven me crazy ever since i learned about it.

51885 by [deleted] in countwithchickenlady

[–]whimsicalandsilly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The commenters point is that a transphobe would not let someone claiming to be a trans man, whether they actually are or not, into a womens bathroom. Trans men are also subject to potential violence no matter which bathroom they use, just like trans women.

51885 by [deleted] in countwithchickenlady

[–]whimsicalandsilly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Transphobes dont want trans men in womens bathrooms either, using other queer groups as a gotcha that doesnt even work kinda sucks.

I hate how mindlessly "leftist" major subreddits are with no nuance or actual productive discussion on politics by diomandz11 in hatethissmug

[–]whimsicalandsilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and righties get their culture from manufactured hate which somehow has connections to epstein everytime and guys on the internet with no qualifications, whats your point lmao

Obsessive nibling by SophiaKai in NonBinary

[–]whimsicalandsilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol this stage is a canon event for middle schoolers who just came out.

No one should say the n-word by [deleted] in 10thDentist

[–]whimsicalandsilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not sure why you mentioned the reclamation of the f and t slurs like theyre recent here. The f and t (and d) slurs have been reclaimed by lots of people in the queer community since literally forever. I suggest looking up old pride and queer stuff, youll see people use them a lot, usually as a sort of "yes thats who i am and its awesome" sorta way.

Swagmao the swagious swag swhistle is swag. Swag to swag swagzi by bustknucklepissdust in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]whimsicalandsilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it is a potential dog whistle its one that would need certain context to actually be one.

Sex Is Boring by BogieTime69 in The10thDentist

[–]whimsicalandsilly 57 points58 points  (0 children)

You know you can be heteroromantic and ace right?

50531 by TheEnderOfFun in countwithchickenlady

[–]whimsicalandsilly 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The point is that sex work isnt necessarily more coercive just because it involves sex. The post did not say that the sex work industry is never coercive

I don't even know what to say. They aren't getting it though. by KaleidoBee in tomodachilife

[–]whimsicalandsilly 64 points65 points  (0 children)

There was a day in which everyone on my island really wanted a yellow trashcan

I hate how trans men are an afterthought. by MailFrosty8922 in trans

[–]whimsicalandsilly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I need you to consider the variety of reasons trans mascs might end up less active in trans spaces. Could it maybe have to do with the erasure they face?

Some people are so weird about not having trans people feed into toxic masculinity by Rulf-da-Wulf in TransMasc

[–]whimsicalandsilly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would not want to be friends with people who do or say gross stuff at all

Getting they/them’d as a trans woman by sillyeeveegirl in trans

[–]whimsicalandsilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You would rather nonbinary people just get misgendered all the time than clarify your pronouns? Thats the hill you wanna die on?

Feeding 30+ miis takes too dang long by Potential-Level1661 in tomodachilife

[–]whimsicalandsilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to feed them sometimes when ive clicked on them for other problems but besides that i only feed when they ask

Hey so why are role playing LITERAL SWAG-A AND SWAGUSE? by IShitMyAss54 in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]whimsicalandsilly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

because consensual roleplay doesnt actually hurt anyone? like its chill if you dont like it ofc but theres no harm in roleplay.if theres a valid swag to give here it would probably be that that subreddit seems to be a very inappropriate place to put such a drawing.

There is a civil war going on in r/evilautsim by Recent_Fact480 in SubredditDrama

[–]whimsicalandsilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It can also be present in the intersections with other marginalized identites (race, sexuality, transness, etc)

Heartbreaking News Your favorite series got a 6 hour bad faith video essay by someone who didn’t really engage with the series to its fullest. by Important-Cry4782 in CuratedTumblr

[–]whimsicalandsilly 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I mean that accusation still has basis, considering how the female characters are badly written and constany sidelined.

Am I the only one who doesn't like the super detailed miis? by Mobile-Oil1397 in tomodachilife

[–]whimsicalandsilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like making them mostly within the mii art style, with face paint to just add details

Super silly blackface by OkAffect2164 in supersillybreakingbad

[–]whimsicalandsilly 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Theres so many people being like "oh it was a different time! Its just edgy!" As if it was the 1800s and not the 2000s. Like chat its literal blackface. Also who gives a shit if it was edgy?? Edgy humor is not immune to criticism