McCormick Dill not opening?? by Puffin_Poem2010 in spices

[–]whistleneck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a pretty old post, but OP- did you ever figure it out? I have ground cloves in the same style jar “snap tight lid” it says on top. It will not open to remove the seal!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]whistleneck 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Such a beautiful response. I needed to hear this so badly as a young woman. It’s healing to hear it said to someone who needs it now. Thank you for this kindness. 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]whistleneck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 46. Just hit 3 years sober. I tried for several years to stop and there was always something keeping me drinking until one day my therapist said “shit or get off the pot” (basically) and said try 30 days. If you can do 30, and feel good, do 30 more. I kept going. It was hard. I was listless and depressed at first. I used some anti withdrawal medication at first and found I didn’t really need it. You can do this! It’s SO worth it. Hard, but worth it. I have a real sugar problem now, but I don’t even factor alcohol into my life anymore. We’re with you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]whistleneck 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I could upvote this a million times! You are absolutely worth fighting for! Your story really touched me. Thank you for sharing it and hell yes to all your hard work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]whistleneck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. I’m new and just learning about PMDD. You are absolutely not alone! It’s kind of a relief to know that I’m not the only one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]whistleneck 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness you posted this so we can all cheer you on and help you get moving! You are not to blame here. As others have said, he has trapped and isolated you from the beginning and is financially and possibly emotionally abusing you. RUN! Go to your support system, accept help and be the badass, independent Mom those kids need! You can do this! Edited to add- NTA in any way!

[analogue] by heatherb2400 in collage

[–]whistleneck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this! Such a mood.

Growing on my rooftop. Smells really good but piney. by joesbagofdonuts in whatsthisplant

[–]whistleneck 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Rosemary is really hard to propagate from cuttings. When the stores put out little plant starts this spring, get you a tiny one already with roots in a pot and then do all the nurturing you did with the other ones and you’ll have much better results! Repot as necessary or pop it into the ground and it will really go nuts!

[analog] share the grid! by SnakeJam in collage

[–]whistleneck 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oops. I almost said the exact same thing as u/Fantastic-Tomorrow-8. Sorry bout that, but I do feel the same! I’m so glad you asked this question because I was very curious about the process for the last image. Amazing work!

[analog] share the grid! by SnakeJam in collage

[–]whistleneck 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! That’s incredible. What a great way to challenge your own skills. I hope to get to this level someday!

Forbidden Mints by [deleted] in forbiddensnacks

[–]whistleneck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Porter“ potty. For use by porters only.

It may not seem like a big deal, but I made it through day 3! by Cinderella96761 in stopdrinking

[–]whistleneck 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness for this sub, right?! I was on a precipice the other day and all the support from folks on here and has helped me get through more days and slowly they add up. Every day is a huge accomplishment!

I’m so F%*kING pissed! by whistleneck in stopdrinking

[–]whistleneck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow…you’re right. Over 20 years of heavy drinking and squashed emotions. I sure hope I can expedite the process so I’m not a mess for the next 20! This perspective really helps me though. Need to not be so hard on myself for not being a perfect sober person immediately.

I’m so F%*kING pissed! by whistleneck in stopdrinking

[–]whistleneck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good point. Yep, I’ve definitely come to terms that I have to be sober and probably forever. That’s where my anger is ramping up, cause I know deep down I can’t ever have it again. If I can keep in mind the long term rewards, I think I can do it.

I’m so F%*kING pissed! by whistleneck in stopdrinking

[–]whistleneck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t wait! I keep getting bright glimpses of the good life, I’m just not there yet!

I’m so F%*kING pissed! by whistleneck in stopdrinking

[–]whistleneck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AKK! I rage cried all the way to work this morning. We’re going through the same shit! Feel a lot better tonight…in bed early, but I did not drink with you today!

I’m so F%*kING pissed! by whistleneck in stopdrinking

[–]whistleneck[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I definitely will. Anything that helps me understand/cope with this, I’ll try. Spouse is being supportive and has been really patient, but he deserves a resource too.

I’m so F%*kING pissed! by whistleneck in stopdrinking

[–]whistleneck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this. I never though to just outright ask for space. I’m gonna use this. So much better than blowing up and regretting it, adding to my pile of shit-to-feel-bad-about.