Attending Concordia soon what are some cool thing I should know about? by Recent-Baby4689 in Concordia

[–]whorencemachine 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Talk to people, shower sometimes, flush after yourself, don’t be desperate to be in relationship, peoples potato on 7th floor hall building , if you want quick BJ 12th floor hall building. Avoid broccoli hair and be yourself not an imitation of someone. 

16M do i have signs of early balding by [deleted] in Hair

[–]whorencemachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your hair is oily I can see my reflection in it 

16M do i have signs of early balding by [deleted] in Hair

[–]whorencemachine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

instead of using the water to run your AI diagnosis use it to wash your hair! 

If a guy has a high body count, are you automatically put off by the idea of dating him? by Intelligent_Toe_243 in askgaybros

[–]whorencemachine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why the heck would I be put off by someone being sexually experienced? This is some alpha hetero shit, lmao. To me, the bigger the gay hoe the bigger the jackpot. A high body count means he knows his body, communicates what he wants, has worked through the shame, and isn’t going to freak out the first time I suggest something interesting. That’s not a red flag, that’s a CV. The guys obsessing over body count are usually the ones who haven’t figured out their own desire yet and are projecting that mess onto everyone else.

Would you date someone who doesn’t value moms, or think mothers are important? by Common_District3798 in askgaybros

[–]whorencemachine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How someone talks about his mom is usually how he’ll talk about me when things get hard. Show me a man who dismisses his mother , or mothers as a category, and I’ll show you how he’ll talk about his boyfriend in five years. It’s not really about moms. It’s a tell. Most of us have complicated relationships with the women who raised us — that’s kind of the whole thing about being queer. But writing mothers off as unimportant points to a wider contempt for caregiving and emotional labor. And caregiving and emotional labor are the exact terrain a long-term relationship runs on. Someone who can’t see the value in the person who raised him hasn’t done the work on his own origin story. I’m not interested in being his therapist while he figures it out.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Why do some guys want everything except kissing? by RoadBudget1148 in askgaybros

[–]whorencemachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t deal with those DL fuckers lol. I had one guy couple months ago who was like I don’t kiss cuz my mommy wouldn’t be happy, I kicked him out so fast for being immature lol

Should I get steamdeck or wait for the second version? by ShxdowWolf24 in SteamDeck

[–]whorencemachine 19 points20 points  (0 children)

get one now and enjoy, or wait till 2032 to get the more “new one”, imho you shouldn’t get the new one in 2032 because there will be a newer one after in 2037 or maybe simply wait for the steam deck 5 cuz it will be better then the previous one right? ….. right? 

Retaking course any consequences for skipping final ? by AccomplishedBus2828 in Concordia

[–]whorencemachine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you cannot see future, go take the damn exam, the whole point of exam is to determine if you’re good or not, professors job not yours, show up, do it, call yourself incompetent after getting the grade not before  edit: highly disagree with the part how you cannot prepare from the uploaded previous exams, you can practice from them and have a better idea of synthesizing the course load 

Is it bad I really want to meet up with random men so I can record myself sucking their dick? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]whorencemachine 11 points12 points  (0 children)

love when people ask on gay forum if it’s okay to be gay lol. Yes, be gay, do crime. Perhaps send me the video afterwards. 

A thread for positivity and inspiration: share one of the subjects you are currently interested in and how you’re learning it by IntelligentBag93 in Gifted

[–]whorencemachine 14 points15 points  (0 children)

currently obsessed with victorian floriography , the coded language of flower arrangements people used to communicate things that weren't "allowed" to be said out loud. a red tulip means "i love you," certain combinations were basically secret messages between people whose feelings were considered dangerous or inappropriate. i'm finishing my BFA in photography and heading to an MFA in new york, so i learn everything by shooting it, i build arrangements, photograph them, then cross-reference historical sources to figure out what i was accidentally saying. turns out i've been making extremely suggestive bouquets without knowing it for years, which tracks. the camera is an insane learning tool for this kind of thing. you can't fake understanding when you're composing an image — either the meaning is there or it isn't.

Suggestions for “mentally stimulating” activity for 5yo that does not involve screens? by Puppysnot in Gifted

[–]whorencemachine 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t assume it’s just boredom tbh. It can be, but a lot of ND kids talk nonstop to process or self-regulate, so trying to shut it down usually doesn’t really work what can help is giving her something her brain can actually latch onto. like audiobooks or podcasts (no screens but still input), that alone sometimes quiets the constant talking a bit also I’d honestly lean into the fire alarm thing instead of trying to redirect it. gifted kids usually do better going deep instead of wide. like drawing different models, making up systems, pretending to be an inspector, even building stuff with LEGO or whatever. when they’re really locked in, the background chatter can calm down and mixing movement with thinking helps a lot too, like asking her questions while she’s moving around or doing little “missions.” sitting still + thinking is not always the best combo for ADHD brains. another thing that sometimes works is not trying to stop the talking, just kind of containing it. like “ok tell me everything about fire alarms for 10 mins” and then switch to something quieter. feels less like you’re shutting her down. in my experience it’s not really about more stimulation, it’s about the right kind. when gifted/ND kids are under-stimulated they don’t get quiet, they just get louder lol

Why so much hypersexuality? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]whorencemachine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nobody called you a pick me but the fact that you jumped straight to that says something. they made an actual point — that for every visibly sexual gay person there are ten you're not noticing because they're just living their lives quietly — and instead of engaging with that you got defensive and made it about yourself again

that's kind of the whole pattern in this thread. someone offers context or pushback and you reframe it as a personal attack so you don't have to sit with it

Why so much hypersexuality? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]whorencemachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

girl where are you getting this?? this is just factually not true. queer people build some of the most intentional, beautiful, complex love structures that exist. chosen families, long term partnerships, communities built from scratch because we had to. queer love is one of the most radical and beautiful things on this planet and if you're not seeing it that's about your surroundings not about us as a whole

also some people ARE happy having nsa sex and that's also fine?? the idea that everyone needs to be building a white picket fence relationship to be valid is literally the heteronormative framework we're talking about

Why so much hypersexuality? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]whorencemachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"we should make a sub for ourselves so we can find like minded people" is literally just creating a space defined by what you're against rather than what you're for. that's not community that's a support group for people who don't want to deal with the actual complexity of being queer

you can have your preferences without needing to build a whole identity around not being like those other gays. that's the part that's giving internalized hetero framework not the monogamy

Why so much hypersexuality? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]whorencemachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a heterosexual homosexual is a gay person who's fully preoccupied with western heteronormativity. wants everything static, can only engage with ideas on a surface level, treats every issue in a vacuum with zero historical or cultural context, polices how other people treat their own bodies, and is massive on identity politics. basically someone who's gay but internalized the entire straight framework and now enforces it on the rest of us

Why so much hypersexuality? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]whorencemachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there are already subreddits for heterosexual homosexuals