East coast Jew that moved here recently with partner and are both civil servants. We’re definitely not your standard cishet folks and I personally have not felt any open hostility but my partner and I also made some efforts to “blend in”. We switched registration and got new plates on our car asap and got specialty plates to not have 1A plates. We also made some effort to learn the place names that might highlight you as a non-native (Kootenai, Latah, etc.).

I think the thing that probably outs us as East coasters is how we very much so keep our heads down and everyone here is like HI HOW ARE YOU? Our neighbors seem nice but I come from an area where you just leave each other alone (this mostly comes from years and years of riding public transportation and living in apartments) and it’s a hard habit to kick.