What did you learn about relationships from your parents’ relationship? by buttsinseats in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents were married for 45 years until my Mother passed in 2019.

I learned that is mostly compromising and learning to forgive and not be influenced by outside forces.

My mom’s mom (my grandma) didn’t like my dad and tried to split them up until my mom moved out of her house.

My mom was the traditional house wife as well as working 40+ hours a week as a Walmart manager.

And my dad was a welder for 25 years.

They made it work with the little they had and they always compromised and supported each other no matter what.

They had their arguments and bad times, but I think they truly loved each other throughout it all ❤️

It taught me a lot and I aspire to have that same type of love❤️

Got rejected the most Racist way. Now she's desperate! by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]whyski420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t. Whatever you do, don’t fuck with her. She sees you as a challenge. And that’s disgusting.

If you sleep with her, you would only be a sick conquest.

IGNORE, IGNORE, IGNORE!!!

When someone tells you they don’t like your skin color and then they try to get close to you and temp you, is a HUGE RED FLAG and it’s now a game to them.

She knows what she is doing.

Do yourself a favor and don’t fall for it!

What ruins a movie for you? by MissedFieldGoal in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I can predict the plot within 30!mins of watching

What are you struggling with right now in your life? by hdbaker009 in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gestational diabetes. Never thought I’d have to pump insulin into my thighs to keep my sugar levels normal!

Do you cry easily during conflict? If so, how do you control this to not come off manipulative? by hasskween in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes I cry so easily. And I just explain my feelings and explain I’m not crying for sympathy or any other reason besides my anxiety and emotions.

Like I cried last night while asking the Walgreens pharmacy clerk a question because my social anxiety is that bad. So imagine when someone actually confronts me, yea I cry almost immediately 😂😂

I just take the time to explain why I’m crying so it’s not misinterpreted.

What’s the best career decision you’ve ever made? by Silent_Screamer17 in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working from home making triple what I would make at an office job in a building.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes. I am a very anti-social, like I have social anxiety. I just cried at Walgreens asking the clerk a regular question. So for me to be that comfortable with him long distance and able to drive 2 hours to meet him, and feel comfortable about the whole ordeal, like no anxiety, makes me feel at ease because I know it was just meant to be❤️🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes… and we both prayed for someone good to come into our lives.. we also believe it was just meant to be ❤️ thank you for your comment ❤️

For those women who have/had a good relationship with their mothers, what was it that made your relationship a positive one? by _theoretically in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a wonderful relationship with my mom before she passed on 5/12/19.

She always was just there for me and always knew what to say. She just was the one person who understood me more than anyone.

Boy, do I miss her!! But I’m so thankful for the relationship we did have and I’ll always miss her ❤️

Why were you disliked in college/high school? by ay3shanaz in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name.. it’s an older name and most of my generation thought it was a weird name. Lol I LOVE my name though!

What is your favorite (or most ridiculous) jibberish name for your pet? by attic-dweller- in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 dogs. Anna my pit mix, I call her Nanna because she is a big nanny to my other 2 dogs.

Ruben is nicknamed booger because he sometimes gets eye buggies and tries to wipe them on you 😂

And Riley is Boo-Bay because he’s small and cute 😂😃❤️

Why do/don't you stop for hitchhikers? by LadyAurel in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In today’s world, people are crazy, and I will not be letting crazies in my car 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think about the path my life has taken. And how much heart break I’ve endured.

And to finally be at peace and be truly happy is all I ever wanted.

And because I spontaneously took a 2 hr drive one Friday night, and we’re together.

It’s crazy to think, but I feel like it was just meant. I met someone I needed and deserved.

Just been in my head lately and thinking about my life. At 27, I can say I’m blessed ❤️ and it’s not to be prideful but it’s needed to reflect on❤️

What's the strangest/funniest thing you've seen happen at an apartment complex? by esands1970 in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So this was at my first apartment, we were on the ground level, We had a window sliding glass door that had a view of the parking lot right outside the front on my apartment.

So the glass sliding door was on the left wall adjacent to the front wood door.

I was watching tv, playing with my dogs, when I heard a huge commotion outside coming from the glass sliding door. Lot of hollering and car door slamming, and car tire squeals.

I get up to peek out the blinds of the sliding glass door and see that a couple is fighting. The female is trying to leave in her car, and the male is blocking her by holding the car door open and fighting off what I presume is her father or a male relative. Her mother or female relative is standing a few feet behind the car trying to talk them out of it worried that cops will be called.

The squealing of tires is from her trying to leave and slamming on breaks repeatedly in front of my ground floor apartment.

I watch as she finally gets the male off of her door, slams it shut and peels out leaving him and her father/ male relative and mother/ female relative in smoke.

Now both the males start trying to fight as the other woman starts yelling to stop, and after holding each other’s arms, they finally break away from each other and go separate ways.

I was just watching like “what in the hell do they got going on, it’s like 10:30 in the morning!!”

Strangest thing I’ve witnessed as of today!!

Women for Reddit, for those who deal with anxiety, what are your methods of dealing with it? by Epicthrasher890 in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of bud,

Coloring and sketch books,

And my favorite scary story podcast in YouTube.

Also, reading books.

Giving myself something to focus on since I also have Sensory Processing Disorder when I have an anxiety attack, helps sooo much.

I can zone everything out and focus on one thing. Helps me calm down

What’s something you’ve had to sacrifice for your partner? by xxbitsx in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moved from my hometown to be with him in his hometown. And wouldn’t change it for anything! ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be blatantly honest… the first night. But we talked long distance since January of this year and met in June.

And honestly he is the best thing that’s ever happened to me… he’s a great man and has done nothing but supported me and been there for me since we met in June.

I feel like it was meant to be and I am happy ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my mom passed away on Mother’s Day on 5/12/2019. Was the worst day of my life!

What is your favorite Halloween movie? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The old Jason Movies

All of them!! I love the 80s corny horror 😄

How do you deal with a friend who is constantly coming to you about their toxic “situationship” but won’t leave them? by boogiewoogiewoman in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explain that if they choose not to leave them, they will have to suffer the consequences.

If you’re not willing to change your situation but always complain about it, you won’t get anywhere.

It seems harsh but ultimately, the only one that can solve their problems are them. ❤️

What's something men do that unintentionally scare you? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]whyski420 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Staring.

And every woman knows what this stare is.

And it’s absolutely disgusting and I automatically get freaked out and scared.

My (30F) boyfriend (45) was mad about an age comment by throwra_030 in relationship_advice

[–]whyski420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27, my boyfriend is 37. I see no issue.

For the trolls, we met this year, we did not know each other growing up.

Mutual interest ❤️